Exactly there are loads of things kids don’t like doing but for their own well being we push them to do them - going to school, walking without the need for a buggy, learning to swim, to name a few!
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There are some situation where home schooling or flexi schooling is absolutely the right thing to do - but there should only be positive reasons for doing it, not to simply avoid school attendance or to get around difficulties with peers/teachers/seperation anxiety (which most kids have).
Schools retain responsibility for the child’s progress in a flexi schooling situation - I don’t believe from what we’ve seen that F would be meeting expected standard across the board so I wonder if the school wouldn’t support it any longer, hence the shift to full homeschooling.
I know a family who flexi school as the dad (a doctor) lives and works in another part of the country and therefore the kids are homeschooled on a Friday to allow them to travel on a Thursday night spend the weekends together - they take part in online lessons and follow the curriculum on those days. To be fair, they are excelling but they’re also not being dragged to London to take photos at 6am…
Schools retain responsibility for the child’s progress in a flexi schooling situation - I don’t believe from what we’ve seen that F would be meeting expected standard across the board so I wonder if the school wouldn’t support it any longer, hence the shift to full homeschooling.
I know a family who flexi school as the dad (a doctor) lives and works in another part of the country and therefore the kids are homeschooled on a Friday to allow them to travel on a Thursday night spend the weekends together - they take part in online lessons and follow the curriculum on those days. To be fair, they are excelling but they’re also not being dragged to London to take photos at 6am…
Are those times when you are awake Grabby, my love? Because it is waaaaaaay past time.“Sometimes I think we don’t need a buggy anymore”no tit Sherlock
Grabby indulges in a form.of.neglect, because it's affluent neglect she is apparently.getting away with it somehow. But it is neglect all the same. School will be teaching them all the things Grabby hasn't -like resilience (she has none herself), how to share (not great at that judging by the free nappy hoovering up) and how to follow rules (I'm sensing a.pattern here) among many other important life lessons that are vital alongside the academic stuff. If she had those skills herself then I'd be less worried.
She doesn't.
She's going to produce weak, flaky, stompy children and she won't cope because she is those things herself. She babies them, because I think she hasn't matured herself. At some point they will surpass her stunted growth perhaps, then she will have a difficult time.
I know a LOT of teachers and I know that most kids only cry until the parents are out of sight and then they potter off to get on with things. Not saying all but many. I bet Raffy is fine when she stops helicoptering over him.
She's such a wet sock of a woman.
I don't follow many 'family influencers' at all so those that do I'm wondering... On a scale of 1-10 how deranged are Grabby and the P @ e doh compared to other 'insta' families? Even besides the obvious grooming issues. Because she's not just deranged/ludicrous about holidays, it's literally everything - food habits, schooling, obsessive exercise, lack of cleanliness and personal hygiene. Like there is genuinely NOTHING remotely normal or about her. This can't be common right?
I would avoid personal hygiene in that house, both the bathrooms looks rotten and mouldy.
She has uploaded the hugging video in reverse. I wondered why Raffy in particular looked so odd and now it’s so obvious
no, she’s not usual and to be honest I struggle to understand who she appeals to as her lifestyle doesn’t match normal people who don’t go on holiday every 5 minutes and have real jobs or those lucky enough to be SAHMs but don’t feel the need to penny pinch all the time. Her kids are well turned out, her cooking is niche and not appealing … in short, she’s not an influential influencer!
I dont think she appeals to anyone.
She is lucky that her 90k followers gained when she was slightly more interested a few years ago, just haven't bothered to unfollow. Im guilty of that myself.
I rarely unfollow accounts and imagine her reach isn't that great so most dont see her tragic posts and think about hitting unfollow.
A good lot of her followers probably love a bit of car crash and probably love to see the state of her and her urchins. Makes the rest of us normal parents feel great to remember "at least we aren't like the Stirlings"
I started following before the house move- I used to like her home decor!
I used to quite like her house decor, back in about 2012 when it was vaguely fashionable But then I got really irritated with her constant (boring) holidays and the slagging off of annoying kids on planes (the irony) was the final straw that made me unfollow.
There are plenty of sheep that seem to find her holiday content interesting or useful, but I imagine lots of people skim over her content and don’t really register all the weirdness and questionable parenting etc
But then I got really irritated with her constant (boring) holidays and the slagging off of annoying kids on planes (the irony) was the final straw that made me unfollow.There are plenty of sheep that seem to find her holiday content interesting or useful, but I imagine lots of people skim over her content and don’t really register all the weirdness and questionable parenting etc
I started following her just before she got married, the penny did not drop until she did the blog post about how she got pregnant when I unfollowed her. I don't think she is normal at all, her blatant disregard and almost contempt for official education is staggering. Even the worst 'family influencers' seem to manage to get their kids to school and commit to their education. The babying them is also very telling of her as a person and as a Mother. I think she had those children simply to exploit them for her own gain because what Mother in their right mind would do what she does? As somebody else said it is affluent neglect which is ok because they have money, I wonder if that is how the Kedgefunders wrapped their head around the grooming of their Daughter - money. If Ben was from a council estate do we think the outcome would be the same? Hell no way!
Grabby’s sharing that resort near Disney in her stories (obvs desperate for a future freebie) and showing the life jackets that were available for kids to use. But obviously Beccy didn’t use those because as she says they had their own aesfetically pleasing (but not actually helpful or as safe for swimming) shart coloured rings. As always she prioritises how it looks on the gram over safety of her kids 
The pool was too “chloriney” apparently.
HOW did she get a law degree?! The word you’re looking for is chlorinated Grabby love 
But I thought Freya had taught herself to swim??Grabby’s sharing that resort near Disney in her stories (obvs desperate for a future freebie) and showing the life jackets that were available for kids to use. But obviously Beccy didn’t use those because as she says they had their own aesfetically pleasing (but not actually helpful or as safe for swimming) shart coloured rings. As always she prioritises how it looks on the gram over safety of her kids
Yeah looks like they've gone
‘ And just about clean enough’ says the woman who had a mouse in her car and the state of her homeView attachment 3771355
The pool was too “chloriney” apparently.
What numpties commenting on her post for the hotel name when it’s tagged in her stories! French center parcs no? But of course it’s soho farmhouse / kinderhotel can’t compare to lowly (as if!) canter parcs!
I think that post perfectly explains her ‘appeal’ to certain people. There are plenty of idiots out there who don’t seem to have the ability to do a simple google search or think for themselves and really do believe Grabby is the font of all travel knowledge and parenting. That post has grown her account by 1k followers in the last 24 hours
She’s going to hit the 100k followers 
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