I feel like I need to respond to this as I suggested the thread title that was chosen. I wasn’t suggesting that Steve can do better, I’m not a huge fan of Steve following his shady past, the rumours of cheating, rigging electricity in their old house, his old tweets which were really offensive. He is great at entertaining the boys when he’s there & you can see he doesn’t treat Woody differently to Alfie like Rebecca does. Having said that, I think he’s just as responsible for them not having proper beds or being fed a proper diet as she is. Especially when he’s buying watches that cost over £1k and changes his car more than his pants. There’s no excuse for either of them to not buy the boys beds.
Its hard to judge someone’s relationship from Instagram and YouTube but I think Steve is a bit lost. Rebecca acts like a complete child, she prefers Alfie to Woody and makes it incredibly obvious. She’s controlling and has the login to his Instagram so she can block the same people on his account as she’s blocking on her own, I bet a lot of the deleted comments that were posted on his pictures he never even saw. If my partner had my Instagram logged in from his phone I’d find it really invasive and controlling. I don’t have anything to hide but there’s just no justifiable reason for it. I think a lot goes on between Rebecca and Steve that we don’t see, likewise with how the children are treated. I don’t think she’s as patient with them as she makes out to be and I think she actually struggles to cope with them. I think Steve has got to a point where he’s so used to Rebecca having her head in her phone 24/7 and acting like an idiot that he just ignores it. He’s 35, there’s a 9 year age gap and for a 26 year old she’s very immature and I get the impression she’s very used to stamping her feet and throwing a strop or turning on the waterworks until she gets what she wants. I just wonder if Steve is oblivious to it or is happy putting up with it. The way she acts on camera and the positions she’s put herself in - especially this year with the pornhub saga, buying followers, Alfies development, taking Alfie out of school for long periods of time, trying to benefit from Caroline Flacks death, making jokes about coronavirus and posting a rant about how it was being dramatised by the media... he lives with this and he can see all of this going on in real life and online; but he does nothing to stop it. She embarrasses herself constantly and doesn’t care, and I don’t think he does anymore either. She has zero class and has tried to forge her career off the backs of other influencers. I think Steve would have a lot more respect for her if she went and got a normal job and put Woody in a nursery part time. He’s stuck in the middle of nowhere with her and I can totally understand why he’s always out and away from her. I don’t think he’s happy with her & I don’t think he has been for a while now.