I think she should take step back and think "how would I feel if steve did this/was doing this?"
How would she feel if he was plastered over pornhub, or showing his crotch to everyone?
How would she feel about him not really respecting any of the families privacy?
How would she feel if steve was constantly on at her about internet trolls etc?
What advice would she give him?
That's how I think about my life sometimes. How would I feel if my partner did it/made me feel that way etc.
Sometimes I feel those posts he puts up about trolls and defending rebecca are done out of pure annoyance at being nagged and moaned at all the time. I may be wrong, but they come across like he's posting them as to say "there, rebecca, are you happy now?" When in reality, I feel as though he just wants none of it
That's my opinion. Probably wrong...