So Josh gets up and goes to the gym at 5:45 does he? Is that code for "meeting a single mum in the woods for a quick game of hide the sausage? Because he doesn't look like he's going to the gym regularly 
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I'm not one to defend her but I've watched the stories twice and I don't think she seemed heartbroken at all. What I saw was some genuine emotion for her daughter. A good friend of mine has a son who is autistic and she had a similar reaction - not one of heartbreak because he is different (he is wonderful) but emotion stemming from fear and uncertainty around what it would mean for him, in terms of making sure he got the support he needed. It's no secret that even if you have a diagnosis getting the right support for your child is not easy and you have to advocate for your child every step of the way. If you've never had experience of that, it's a daunting task and, I think that's what I saw in those stories.
Bet Bekind will be pissed off if L gets more attention 
I flicked through this thread last night, so I don’t know if it has been said, but I do agree with you that R looked embarrassed and worried about what T was going to sayI just find the speed of this quite strange. I work in education and even without COVID-19 it can take a hell of a time to get a child diagnosed. Yet she’s not had a formal diagnosis and is being moved to a school with better facilities for autistic children without it being known if she is actually autistic. Admittedly I work with primary aged children but when input is required from outside agencies it can take a long time and usually schools have to put things in place with the resources they have. I also live in a different part of the country to her and whilst it’s classed as a fairly affluent area the funding in education is just not there. I’m pleased L is dealing with it so positively but R looked almost embarrassed to me which made me cross. I do think it’s because this could be the start of all her skeletons falling out of the cupboard and a lot of her lies will be outed. As usual it will end up being all about R. I hope to god she doesn’t use this for engagement but sadly with her track record I think she will
EXACTLY what I thought? You know what would get the attention back thoughBet Bekind will be pissed off if L gets more attention
I have autistic child and one who I suspect is also autistic. The younger non diagnosed has the same other issues as t. Anxiety socially a bit awkward and has other issues relating to historical d.v.
Thankfully though she doesnt have the whole school and local area knowing the ins and outs of her issues and familys personal life splashed all over social media.
Regardless of if shes autistic or not raq still needs to shoulder some of the blame for ts problems for highlighting them on the internet for strangers entertainment and monetizing her kids trauma. I know its probably not a popular opinion but Rachaelelele has probably blown up ts issues over the years and made them a much bigger thing to deal with years later by being more bothered about money and Instagram fame than being a mother. Disgusting woman. Not a maternal bone in her body
Thankfully though she doesnt have the whole school and local area knowing the ins and outs of her issues and familys personal life splashed all over social media.
Regardless of if shes autistic or not raq still needs to shoulder some of the blame for ts problems for highlighting them on the internet for strangers entertainment and monetizing her kids trauma. I know its probably not a popular opinion but Rachaelelele has probably blown up ts issues over the years and made them a much bigger thing to deal with years later by being more bothered about money and Instagram fame than being a mother. Disgusting woman. Not a maternal bone in her body
I had a friend who used to go into work early to ‘catch up’..... which involved going round to the bloke’s house she was having an affair with....So Josh gets up and goes to the gym at 5:45 does he? Is that code for "meeting a single mum in the woods for a quick game of hide the sausage? Because he doesn't look like he's going to the gym regularly
she must be really struggling if she got a place in the specialist bit. My son has ASD, diagnosed in year 1 & struggled all through primary school. It got so bad, even with an EHCP, no one knew what to do with him. 2 different ASD teams had ran out of ideas & that still wasnt enough to get him in a specialist bit. Thankfully he’s doing MUCH better now but it was a slog!
She‘ll have a tracker on his car & phoneSo Josh gets up and goes to the gym at 5:45 does he? Is that code for "meeting a single mum in the woods for a quick game of hide the sausage? Because he doesn't look like he's going to the gym regularly
I bet she’s scared to death he’ll cheat on her.Raq, you know he can’t keep it in his
I feel for Tallulah, what with that and Wilby who clearly has his own thing going on that they need to address, it’s absolutely mind boggling they’re thinking of having another baby. T & W are going to need a hell of a lot of input and attention, add another child that could also have something similar and they just won’t cope at all. They already struggle - that much is clear.
How will E cope, we can all see how much she needs to be the centre of attention.And poor I will be ignored even moreBet Bekind will be pissed off if L gets more attention
I'll always be of the opinion that the kids deserve privacy. When they get to 16 then its up to them to share. I know it was T who seemed to want to share but her mum should have said actually no let's just take this one step at a time in private as a family. She hasnt even been assessed or diagnosed yet. It's not like she doesn't have a large circle of friends/employees to confide in. I think that's her coping mechanism, offloading onto her stories and then waiting for her inbox to fill up. To me its selling your kids down the river again for engagement. You can raise awareness and show support for autism in other ways.
On another note laughing about a 2 year old eating his own tit is just appalling
why was he left alone in a crappy nappy that long that it was even possible. Maybe they should start watching the kid and letting him sit with them all at mealtimes and eat properly. I can imagine they just throw snacks at him instead of structured mealtimes. She may think she comes across as selfless with all she does for women at her centre but I'd say all it does is take her away from her toddler who needs her. Theres no consistency in that house. W naps when he wants, snacks when he wants, has no boundaries, parents who are scared to say no. Hopefully now they will start to sort some sort of routine in that house because its like piccadilly circus. I hope he has started nursery but I think she will have him at a child minders ie paid forever friend from the small circle who's not in on the patchwork house payroll.
On another note laughing about a 2 year old eating his own tit is just appalling
why was he left alone in a crappy nappy that long that it was even possible. Maybe they should start watching the kid and letting him sit with them all at mealtimes and eat properly. I can imagine they just throw snacks at him instead of structured mealtimes. She may think she comes across as selfless with all she does for women at her centre but I'd say all it does is take her away from her toddler who needs her. Theres no consistency in that house. W naps when he wants, snacks when he wants, has no boundaries, parents who are scared to say no. Hopefully now they will start to sort some sort of routine in that house because its like piccadilly circus. I hope he has started nursery but I think she will have him at a child minders ie paid forever friend from the small circle who's not in on the patchwork house payroll.
Is it plausible that Rachel has simply applied for T to move schools (as any parent is allowed to at any time) and a space has come up in their preferred school so that’s why she’s moving? Is there any proof that she is being moved to an actual specialist school due to her issues? I sometimes work in a specialist SEN school (supply agency work) and they have 32 spaces for children aged 8-18 so, as you can imagine, places are hugely competitive and some children come from miles away to attend. It does seem incredibly unlikely that T has very quickly been able to make a move to a specialist school without an EHCP.
I get the impression she’s just moving schools, but one that has a better understanding of sendco and able to give the time to Lula if she gets the diagnosis, but also if she doesn’t they are still possibly better equipped for a child with anxiety.
We don’t know she doesn’t have an EHCP though. Just because she’s going through the diagnostic process of ASD doesn’t mean she doesn’t have any other diagnosis such as SEMH which would allow her an EHCP.
Well said.
I really have doubts over her post. If she is making this up she’s one sick woman. Deep in my heart I’m thinking she wouldn’t stoop that low. Gave my head a wobble & know for a fact she keeps on surprising us with her fabulous maternal instincts
I think she’s moving schools to make it easier for the school run & has once again made it all about her & how hard her gifted life is.
Could she have decided to send her to a private school? They usually have much better support/ facilities because they have the funding. Maybe tallulah started back at school and was struggling so much and there is (wrongly) so little state funded help that they’ve decided to pay for it? And maybe she’s known this might be a possibility for a while, which is why the house renovation stopped because she knew she might have school fees to pay? If so, at least she’s using the ad money to try and help her kid. All speculation though, don’t even know if there are any private schools near them.
This is what i was thinking when she was touting the teenagers making stupid decisions earlier on in the week but with that same deflated look on her face .EXACTLY what I thought? You know what would get the attention back though
Thanks for sharing, I miss the vids now im blocked!She's charming .... And pretty sure when Seb sprayed her with the deodorant, he told her she smelled
That was awful and reminds me of when I've lost the plot with my kids
You can tell she edited some bits out. I don’t think we saw the whole conversation. T said something on one bit, but then it didn’t follow through to the next. It felt like she (T) wanted the story to reach certain people? Bullies maybe?
I don’t know what to make of her latest stories. Like others, I’m a little cynical of the timing and reasoning behind the decision to disclose this information.
I honestly hope T gets the help and support she needs soon and wish her all the best. I also hope Rachel doesn’t commandeer the whole thing and use it for engagement.
Also, like @FridaK has said, parenting doesn’t settle till past the teenage years. I’ve found the teenage years just as challenging as when they were babies and toddlers. There is no manual and you do have to take a few minutes to step back and breathe and figure it out.
In my opinion, Rachel really needs to think about her priorities and doing ridiculous ‘hauls in the hallway’ is not one of them. Having a phone in her hand constantly filming, or grabbing her phone as soon as she thinks something is Insta worthy, is not a priority.
She may consider it her job, but it’s taken over her life… That’s the way it comes across to me now anyway
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