I am irrationally annoyed at her today (or possibly always
) for having six children who need her. I have two, though always wanted four, and my eldest is leaving primary school today; youngest will be going into Year 5 so not much longer left either.
Basically, I either need a new baby fast (which is pretty much guaranteed not to happen
) or I need some reassurance that my adult kids will still want to spend time with me
ffs why does NOBODY tell you this shit when you get pregnant? Fuck the night feeds, it’s the increasing independence that’s a fucker.
And sorry for derailing. As you were.
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I feel for you! It used to upset me when I used to see women who just had another baby when their youngest started school. Because we could only afford and had room for two little ones! I wish I can say it gets better with the separation anxiety. I cried all the way home when I left my daughter two and a half hours away at university halls. It was horrific!! My son starts uni in September. I can’t think about it.