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Thank you. I shall check this out. Hopefully it has some tips about morning sickness. Not been feeling great and getting worried about throwing up on the commute. What makes me super worried is I get the train with up to four colleagues - including the MD! (depends if we bump into each other on the platform, we usually do).
I can't offer any sickness tips but I had awful nausea between weeks 8 - 17. The only thing which helped me was eating bland but small and often (rich tea biscuits and plain crackers with a tiny bit of butter!) and keep hydrated with small sips all through the day. Chewing gum helped also but nothing else i tried did the trick!

But it does pass and get better - I'm 27 weeks now and enjoying pregnancy!
 
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Hi everyone, I hope I can join the chat. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant (feels weird even typing that!) and am about 6 weeks. Any recommendations for good books that cover everything? Getting overwhelmed by the amount of info on the internet so would be good to focus on a book or two in the first instance. Thank you in advance
Congrats! 🥰

I haven’t read them yet but so far I have the following, as recommended by my best friend:

Expecting Better by Emily Oster
The Positive Birth Book by Milli Hill
Give Birth Like a Feminist by Milli Hill

I have more recs from her (which she said massively helped her have a positive birth experience) but I know you said you just wanted to focus on one or two. Happy to share the other recs if you’d like them, though. ❤
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We had our 20 week scan today and the sonographer was able to see everything except the nose/lips and heart, but she said everything else looked normal! We also wanted her to reconfirm that we’re having a girl and she said it looks like we are but she couldn’t get a clear view as baby had her legs thrown up over her head. 🤣 Even tuck jumps and shaking myself around didn’t budge her. She’s apparently nestled deep into my pelvis, which explains why I don’t have a bump yet!

We’re booked in again next week to hopefully get a clearer view of her face and heart. We went and placed our order for the travel system and cotbed as well.

Tomorrow's task is to finally tell my unsupportive parents that we’re having a baby. 😬😬
 
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Thank you. I shall check this out. Hopefully it has some tips about morning sickness. Not been feeling great and getting worried about throwing up on the commute. What makes me super worried is I get the train with up to four colleagues - including the MD! (depends if we bump into each other on the platform, we usually do).
Having one rich tea biscuit first thing in the morning helped to settle my stomach and reduce the morning sickness. I also had terrible motion sickness in the first trimester and used Preggie Pop sweets (I got them from Amazon) which really helped with car & train journeys. They just look like normal boiled sweets too so if you do bump into your colleagues they won't know it's pregnancy related.
Tomorrow's task is to finally tell my unsupportive parents that we’re having a baby. 😬😬
Good luck! I really hope it goes well. The thread will be here for you if you need a debrief after ❤
 
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After moaning for weeks about not feeling baby, wow she has made up for it today. Don’t know what she’s doing in there but some of the movements are verging on painful!
 
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I'm having a really stressful time at work. I'm a room leader in a nursery and have a whole new team that are just not catching up quick enough. I'm 26 weeks pregnant and I'm struggling. I'm doing everything with management breathing down my neck. I've had high blood pressure ever since I got pregnant and it was under control with tablets but this last week has crept up high again which I think is due to all the stress at work.
I want to have a chant with my manager but I know nothing will change but I just want to do what's right for baby.

Rant over. Sorry I'm an emotional mess tonight.
 
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Thank you. I shall check this out. Hopefully it has some tips about morning sickness. Not been feeling great and getting worried about throwing up on the commute. What makes me super worried is I get the train with up to four colleagues - including the MD! (depends if we bump into each other on the platform, we usually do).
Congratulations!!
Having dry biscuits before you actually get out of bed and start moving around helped me massively! Like as in have them by your bed and don’t get up at all until you’ve eaten something.
I also used pressure point bands which I do think helped but even if it was just a mental thing it got me through some long days at work!
Also not sure if you’re actually physically vomming yet but if it helps I only actually threw up after eating and it was always almost instant (I know this isn’t the case for everyone but might give you some reassurance) - I constantly felt like I was going to throw up any second but didn’t until after food so might be similar for you! I also found that having to pretend I was fine in front of colleagues and people that didn’t know I was pregnant almost made me convince myself I was okay too!
 
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Thank you. I shall check this out. Hopefully it has some tips about morning sickness. Not been feeling great and getting worried about throwing up on the commute. What makes me super worried is I get the train with up to four colleagues - including the MD! (depends if we bump into each other on the platform, we usually do).
Congratulations!!! I wish I could help, but I was sick from weeks 7-18ish and it came back at week 22. In 31 weeks and was sick 6 times today.

I actually had super bad anxiety the first months of sickness cause I knew it could come on at any time. My poor dog has seen me throw up in so many bushes, beaches and paths on our daily walks. But at least no one else was around.
 
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I'm having a really stressful time at work. I'm a room leader in a nursery and have a whole new team that are just not catching up quick enough. I'm 26 weeks pregnant and I'm struggling. I'm doing everything with management breathing down my neck. I've had high blood pressure ever since I got pregnant and it was under control with tablets but this last week has crept up high again which I think is due to all the stress at work.
I want to have a chant with my manager but I know nothing will change but I just want to do what's right for baby.

Rant over. Sorry I'm an emotional mess tonight.
AS a room leader in the toddler room I feel your pain! What’s does your risk assessment say? I’ve updated mine to extra ten minute breaks as and when I need them, and I don’t do any lifting or any jobs other than paperwork and delegating where everyone goes. We also just changed teams but I kept a lot of my older staff in the room which helped as my management team didn’t want to add too much change/stress me out - although 24 toddlers on our busier day is hell on Earth 😂 it’s so hard working in a nursery at the best of times let alone pregnant and having to carry on as normal!
 
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Thank you everyone, that’s really helped! I really want to avoid my bosses finding out before they need to - it’s appraisal time in the autumn and I’d rather they didn’t know until after. I know it shouldn’t make a difference, but I do think they may wright me off for future opportunities once they know.
 
Finally settled on and ordered our travel system. After a panic as it was going out of stock til December in almost every place 😮💨. feel great relief as I have not bought anything else except drawers so at least now the baby now has somewhere I can lay her if nothing else 😂😂😂
 
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Finally settled on and ordered our travel system. After a panic as it was going out of stock til December in almost every place 😮💨. feel great relief as I have not bought anything else except drawers so at least now the baby now has somewhere I can lay her if nothing else 😂😂😂
Which one did you get?

Ours came last week and currently sitting in the house waiting to be put together.

How do women get through the last weeks of pregnancy functioning at work? I'm 33 weeks today and have 5.5 weeks left before maternity leave. I loathe to go off earlier but really don't know how I'm going to get through the final weeks. I have an office job and can WFH so it's not even that bad. I really admire women with physical jobs because I wouldn't survive.
 
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Which one did you get?

Ours came last week and currently sitting in the house waiting to be put together.

How do women get through the last weeks of pregnancy functioning at work? I'm 33 weeks today and have 5.5 weeks left before maternity leave. I loathe to go off earlier but really don't know how I'm going to get through the final weeks. I have an office job and can WFH so it's not even that bad. I really admire women with physical jobs because I wouldn't survive.
Totally agree! I WFH and have basically given up now even trying 😂 luckily my team are pretty chilled. I’m off camera now for all calls and on the sofa as was finding my desk chair too uncomfortable. I’m 37+3 so in the same boat with wanting to take it as close as poss to the due date.
 
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Which one did you get?

Ours came last week and currently sitting in the house waiting to be put together.

How do women get through the last weeks of pregnancy functioning at work? I'm 33 weeks today and have 5.5 weeks left before maternity leave. I loathe to go off earlier but really don't know how I'm going to get through the final weeks. I have an office job and can WFH so it's not even that bad. I really admire women with physical jobs because I wouldn't survive.
we went for the Cybex gazelle with the cloud T Car seat.
The car seat was what attracted us to it in the first place!

and on ur other point I’m V lucky as I relocated last month so basically started mat leave at 21weeks 😂 it’s beeen lovely the last 4 weeks having lie ins and watching box sets 😂
 
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How do women get through the last weeks of pregnancy functioning at work? I'm 33 weeks today and have 5.5 weeks left before maternity leave. I loathe to go off earlier but really don't know how I'm going to get through the final weeks. I have an office job and can WFH so it's not even that bad. I really admire women with physical jobs because I wouldn't survive.
I worked until 36 weeks with my first on a job where I was on my feet most of the time (NHS surgeon) and on those last few weeks were a killer. Standing in one position for hours on a end nearly did me in.
 
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I worked until 36 weeks with my first on a job where I was on my feet most of the time (NHS surgeon) and on those last few weeks were a killer. Standing in one position for hours on a end nearly did me in.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I don’t know how you managed that!

I went to 38+5 (the 5 days is important🤣) in my first pregnancy. I’m a secondary school teacher and if I didn’t have a KS4/5 heavy timetable, I wouldn’t have managed it, but it was exam season so I was often only teaching 2 or 3 lessons a day. This time I think I’ll try to go to 37 weeks but won’t beat myself up if I don’t manage it.
 
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I worked until 36 weeks with my first on a job where I was on my feet most of the time (NHS surgeon) and on those last few weeks were a killer. Standing in one position for hours on a end nearly did me in.
I feel this. Ive not long finished at 36 weeks as a midwife, and that was hard enough 🥴
Hats off to you, that’s an amazing achievement!
 
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I don’t know how you managed that!

I went to 38+5 (the 5 days is important🤣) in my first pregnancy. I’m a secondary school teacher and if I didn’t have a KS4/5 heavy timetable, I wouldn’t have managed it, but it was exam season so I was often only teaching 2 or 3 lessons a day. This time I think I’ll try to go to 37 weeks but won’t beat myself up if I don’t manage it.
Sometimes I wonder how I managed it. Didn’t even get a rest either as my daughter was born the day after I went on mat leave!
I feel this. Ive not long finished at 36 weeks as a midwife, and that was hard enough 🥴
Hats off to you, that’s an amazing achievement!
I’m pretty sure you probably work harder!!
 
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I worked until 36 weeks with my first on a job where I was on my feet most of the time (NHS surgeon) and on those last few weeks were a killer. Standing in one position for hours on a end nearly did me in.
I can't believe you did that. I WFH luckily and can do it from the sofa but I would have struggled even in the first trimester with how sick I was. Even last week I had to run off from a online meeting cause I was sick.
 
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I can't believe you did that. I WFH luckily and can do it from the sofa but I would have struggled even in the first trimester with how sick I was. Even last week I had to run off from a online meeting cause I was sick.
Really early on the sickness was hard - I mostly just had nausea but being in the OR was not fun at all. I think that was probably harder than the tiredness later on, especially as we were trying to keep it quiet as long as possible!
 
I’m finishing at 35 weeks but taking some hols. I sit at a desk all day and you’d think that would be easier but it’s ruining my back & legs :cry: Had a solid day of meetings last week and couldn’t sleep with the pain later on
 
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