Not wrong with that assessment, tit for tat never gets to the heart of the question. It's just descended into a shouting match and was pathetic on
all sides, and what does that solve? Everyone gets defensive and I'm sure one or two of the catty members will have reported her (or possibly him) by now so could be banned already....he conversation has suddenly stopped has it not?
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And sorry but they were right, in that it gives the people that diss this place more to point at.
And as if by magic as I type this is posted.
People make mistakes in grammar and spelling all the time on phones, you should see my husband when he texts
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But using that to prove a point doesn't work as half of the world messes grammar up online.
So rather than attacking the delivery attack the arguments and debate them, respectfully without name calling?
To be fair that's what most of us do at first.
I lurked while I was reading away with nothing to say, then joined when I had something to say. Does that make me like them? Does that make me Ali or whoever this is.
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I really hope not.
Honestly I'm not surprised they got defensive, lots of you
did jump on them and accuse them of being Ali or her mods etc. A wiser path would have been to allow them to speak and debate each point in turn, as I said before, debate the arguments not attack the person.
Lets see if they come back to answer your points, I hope so as I think if they are true then it could be a interesting conversation.
Time will tell, it always does.
And do I think its Ali or her Mods etc, no I don't for the reason I gave before, what would the point be?
Hopefully we haven't lost a potentially good information source.
To be fair you did all jump on her and pile on, no wonder she got defensive. And really if your making complaints at that person for comments like that why finish your paragraph with that sentence "Like are you okay?" thats no better then what your complaining about.
Attack the argument not the person then peoples backs don't get up.
Again we all know Jess likes to run her mouth off, so not beyond possability that Jess would have said the info they gave here.
The last point is worth pursuing with they come back, was it an official do or a few friends from work meeting up kind of do?