I have been in an abusive relationship before - yes it was not like this. But just because theirs isn’t exactly like that, it doesn’t mean there aren’t aspects of it that aren’t toxic. The way they speak to eachother - actually specifically the way he speaks to her - is not nice, and there’s nothing cute or funny about it. Purposely bothering her, often humiliating her, going out on benders not telling her when he’s coming back then her ringing up to tell him to come home … none of that is okay. And of course they laugh about it, it’s the image they’ve created, but it doesn’t mean it’s right. As others have said , the way Rosa talks is very clear she experiences them having an attitude towards one another a lot of the time and they are quite literally raising her to think that’s normal or just banter. It’s not, it’s shitty and unnecessary.
No one said you weren’t allowed to have an opinion btw; we’re all entitled to share what we think , but it’s a bit random to come and rave about them on a thread where people generally aren’t their biggest fans. We’re not gonna change our minds because we see through the act they put on, and maybe you should too - but you do you. Have a good day too!