Poonam Walid

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Nah he’s just as shallow as she is, that’s why they make such a perfect couple.

I wonder whether they’ll move house.
He’s such a wet lettuce!! Move house & leave their perfect countryside manor with fields & farms & horses?😱🤣
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Parenting is going to be so humbling for these two as baby gets older as there’s a limit to how many problems money will solve for them.

I have a relative who recently had a baby after over a decade of fertility treatments and multiple losses (none of it kept secret and the younger generation were very supportive - older generation not so much sadly) and she’s elbow deep in motherhood. Her baby wakes up every 45 minutes, she’s had a traumatic birth, baby has reflux so it’s not an easy ride but she’s so deliriously happy and totally embracing her new role.

I don’t actually get that vibe from poonam, not saying she’s not a good mum but she is definitely far too concerned about the aesthetics of being a new mum.
I don’t get that vibe either! From the nursery to everything she’s posted so far it just seems to be for the aesthetic! If I were lucky enough to be in her position and have a successful outcome from Fertility treatment, I’d be too busy taking it all in, appreciating & being so grateful to even bother about posting & portraying a fake perfect aesthetic lifestyle to the world
 
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The light fitting (definitely isn’t a chandelier) in the baby’s bedroom is so weird!!
 
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I’m actually surprised at how small the baby’s room is as they always like to portray the image of living in a very large home, not that there is anything wrong with the size and it’s nicer that a lot of babies rooms for sure.

But then maybe this room is closest to their room or something. And she’ll probably have a separate nursery room for toys as well.
 
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that poor child is going to spend her life correcting the pronunciation of her name. It’s not spelled as they say it. Every time I read her name, I say ‘ay-la’ not ‘eye-la’.
She’s so unrealistic and smug. Everything is so easy for them. How does she expect anyone to relate?! New mothers will be so resentful towards her. Doesn’t she see that?

-Breastfeeding journey- buckets full
-Colostrum- loads
-Sleep routine- 12 hours a night. Uninterrupted
-Weight loss- done

everything is always so falsely perfect. It’s actually quite sad that they live like this.
 
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She is portraying motherhood as perfect. Do people really think her baby is just perfect? I very much doubt it. But in poonam land, it’s what Poonam says go. She woudl have more engagement if she showed the reality of motherhood I would hope
 
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It’s perfect for her because all she does is lie on her sofa watching tv and answering q&a’s. Her mother lives with them at the moment and does everything that abz doesn’t take care of.

Ironically she says she’s handling motherhood well because she keeps active 😂
 
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Reading about how easy everything is for them, you’d think they are seasoned professionals in dealing with new borns! It’s ok to make mistakes and have a baby that is needy or crying. It’s life. And ultimately means you get to know your child better. She loves coming across as textbook perfection and it’s so grating!
She thinks making it out of the house to buy a Rolex is something she needs to be congratulated on. There are mothers out there that have to deal with running a house, grocery shopping and everything else in between, whilst looking after a new born, alone. They make it work without the need for a record of achievement!
 
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I forgot her number was with her! Oh yes, in that case, I am sure mum is doing everything and no doubt she’ll have a cleaner etc.

I don’t get posting the back of a baby or their legs but no body, literally just show them or don’t. Pick a lane.
 
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Not posting the baby face is the age old view of "bad nazar" or "jealous eyes". Irony is that she puts her entire fake life on display for the nazar. The baby is the perfect accessory to this.

The baby has made her more material than maternal! The bling is full on. Folk like her must have insecurity issues given the desire to share, share and share more insights of wealth but not the challenges of life. My kids still cause me sleepless nights and they are now teens. It's a normal part of family life and motherhood. The Rolex bit was typical of them.
 
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Oh yeh I know it’s nazar but my point is, if it bothers you that much, don’t post them at all. I post my kids faces, always have. I don’t post them all the time and actually now they are teens, they don’t want it and I’m fine with that. I just don’t see the point of posting with an emoji. No doubt it’s for engagement.

I agree, she is very materialistic and I think she always will be. I hope she does talk about fertility struggles if she had them, that would be a better way to make her followers engage
 
Abz....micropigmentation is rather obvious. He should have let his natural hair sit on top off it.

Poonam 7 weeks after birth is back to exercising. Image clearly matters.
 
There is now way she is breastfeeding regardless what she says. You can’t just pick and choose when you want to breastfeed and when you don’t as you need to express the missed breastfeed.
She doesn’t look like someone who would enjoy that anyway…the leaking breasts etc.
 
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Yep I don’t think she’s breastfeeding as much as she claims to be (if at all)

You can’t pick and choose when to breastfeed for your own convenience, you need to keep your supply up.

which is fine if she doesn’t want to, but as usual it’s just an unnecessary lie to paint the picture of how perfect being a mother is going for her.
 
God she’s so boring and predictable!
as boring and predictable as that middle parting bun thing she’s so desperate to make work.
Her claim to be Working out 4-5 times a week, 7 weeks after having baby is bull!
I didn’t care how much I weighed or how I looked after having my kids. I just wanted to be present for every single moment for those first 6-9 months. She’s so unnecessarily self absorbed.
 
Exactly this. Being with the baby is the most important. So who cares about the rest. I know I didn’t.

I think it suits her aesthetic to be the supermum who can breastfeed, formula feed, clean, exercise etc. ie. Her life perfect..

Realistically motherhood isn’t like that esp if you are running a house alongside. Baby’s are hard work, constant nappy changing, sorting naps, cleaning cooking etc. Breastfeeding is hard. It’s tiring, it’s tough and makes you exhausted. She looks generally well Rested. And I agree, she would need to be pumping to maintain a supply. She always has a bottle pic so I would imagine she is formula feeding fully now.

I don’t get the lies all the time.