Phoebe & Me - begging her followers for 8.5 grand she can pay for a boob job & some bits from “bargs”

[madditag]

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare

 

[monga]

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare

Her boobs are huge there's no disputing that but it's the manipulation of her subs that's disgusting she's obviously not in chronic pain when she's able to absail and do adventure courses when it suits her ,plus she wasn't turned down on the NHS she just didn't want to wait ,,whats wrong with her getting a job and paying for her own treatment like the rest of us .

 

[ses3711]

I personally do doubt it, she’s young and strong and it doesn’t seem to stop her doing things. She hasn’t been diagnosed with an illness hence why she’s not been approved for treatment on NHS- they don’t preempt problems that may occur in years/decades time. She’s not under any specialists, has any problems with back/spine (or mentioned any), such as herniated discs, sciatica etc:

I personally think she should go private but she should contribute herself as she will be the one who benefits. They have no problem paying for other things like a new car etc.

It’s her choice to do YT, I don’t believe she has had the chance to sell out as brands don’t want her. She says it’s a hobby.

As a lot of comments have stated here, Jess has had financial opportunities that could have lead to her putting money aside for surgery that research shows it’s highly unlikely to get on the NHS.

She hast mentioned it since and has nearly 8000 donated and has deleted any comments questioning why she has gone against her principles.

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare

What’s wrong with contributing herself or gwtt

I wonder why there’s no update on BR- I really am wondering if it’s still going ahead in June as unless it’s booked and paid for, I am guessing that June’s no longer an option, as other people will have booked by now

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare

 

[monga]

I personally do doubt it, she’s young and strong and it doesn’t seem to stop her doing things. She hasn’t been diagnosed with an illness hence why she’s not been approved for treatment on NHS- they don’t preempt problems that may occur in years/decades time. She’s not under any specialists, has any problems with back/spine (or mentioned any), such as herniated discs, sciatica etc:

I personally think she should go private but she should contribute herself as she will be the one who benefits. They have no problem paying for other things like a new car etc.

It’s her choice to do YT, I don’t believe she has had the chance to sell out as brands don’t want her. She says it’s a hobby.

As a lot of comments have stated here, Jess has had financial opportunities that could have lead to her putting money aside for surgery that research shows it’s highly unlikely to get on the NHS.

She hast mentioned it since and has nearly 8000 donated and has deleted any comments questioning why she has gone against her principles.




What’s wrong with contributing herself or gwtt

I wonder why there’s no update on BR- I really am wondering if it’s still going ahead in June as unless it’s booked and paid for, I am guessing that June’s no longer an option, as other people will have booked by now

She has her contact details on her bio if brands want to work with her ,she hasn't the most appealing nature tbf comes across as bored /annoyed very easily massive chip on her shoulder that must weigh as heavy as her boobs ,don't think many brands would favour that kind of attitude or maybe she's just to lazy to put any effort into what brands would require of her ...too much hard work on her part we know how work shy she is.

 

[ses3711]

Yeah plus a lot of the things she wouldn’t personally buy herself so she’s very limited for example she just seems to buy clothes from Primark/ Next sale and everything else second hand like books, jigsaws so it would look disingenuous to brands for her to promote their products as viewers would question it.

 

[monga]

Yeah plus a lot of the things she wouldn’t personally buy herself so she’s very limited for example she just seems to buy clothes from Primark/ Next sale and everything else second hand like books, jigsaws so it would look disingenuous to brands for her to promote their products as viewers would question it.

Mr Carrington dumpster dives and buys from charity shops and poundland ...difference is he comes across as a genuine hard working individual that has creativity and a genuine interest in people ,and deff no chips on his shoulder that's why his channel is so successful

 

[ses3711]

I’ve only seen him a couple of times with Kate but he seems sweet. Does he do brand deals and YT as a job?

Tbf I don’t think a lot of YTers who do brand deals come across well. Mrs Meldrum, SacconeJolys etc

 

[monga]

I’ve only seen him a couple of times with Kate but he seems sweet. Does he do brand deals and YT as a job?

Tbf I don’t think a lot of YTers who do brand deals come across well. Mrs Meldrum, SacconeJolys etc

No he's a TV producer but the brand deals are rolling in now , I gave up watching the Saccone Wally's a long tome ago and Meldrum is to blame for my tattle existence although i never commented on her thread ( maybe once) but they still don't come across as lazy as Jess

 

[stewpot]

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare

I’m annoyed because she’s doing nothing to raise the money herself, there are people local to me riding bikes the length of the country to buy specialist equipment for their disabled child! There’s no denying that her boobs are huge and they probably do get uncomfortable but she’s had years to save for the surgery and has apparently saved nothing. I think it’s wrong to share a sob story and almost guilt trip people into donating money, that’s just my opinion.

 

[Paradisefalls]

Haven’t read through all the comments yet.. but I don’t know how you could see the pictures of her boobs and begrudge her getting help?
I donated £10.. the way I see it I’ve enjoyed her videos for years that she had created for free - hasn’t sold out on brand deals or earnt much money but continued to create them for people to watch.
Some of the things on this thread are disgusting.. denying that she would be in chronic pain.. did you see the size of them?! That must make every second a living nightmare
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I don’t think anyone here begrudges her getting help. What people begrudge is the hypocrisy of it all.

Jess claims she has been in chronic pain for years yet as people have already pointed out it hasn’t stopped her doing the things she normally would. She was also happy to manage this pain with pain until after she completed her family.

She has openly called out influencers in the past for asking subscribers to pay for their lifestyle and in a video with Ellie, Ellie suggests she create a go fund me for a breast reduction and Jess replies that she couldn’t because go fund me is for “sick kids”. Her words.

Jess also voluntarily gave up her job late last year when she had already begun this process so knew that getting it on the NHS would be difficult/long winded. Her reason for quitting her job? She couldn’t cope with learning a new computer system.

She has defended the lack of financial input from her own husband to help her get the surgery by stating “Neil’s money is his money” but it is fine to take money from strangers?

I think if she had tried to get the money together herself for a while - like selling her crochet blankets, staying at her job, selling bits around the house and then told people she was struggling it would maybe have been a different story but the sob story about how she has struggled on for years and just can’t continue this way any longer - to me that just doesn’t add up to what her actions show.

 

[madditag]

I don’t think anyone here begrudges her getting help. What people begrudge is the hypocrisy of it all.

Jess claims she has been in chronic pain for years yet as people have already pointed out it hasn’t stopped her doing the things she normally would. She was also happy to manage this pain with pain until after she completed her family.

She has openly called out influencers in the past for asking subscribers to pay for their lifestyle and in a video with Ellie, Ellie suggests she create a go fund me for a breast reduction and Jess replies that she couldn’t because go fund me is for “sick kids”. Her words.

Jess also voluntarily gave up her job late last year when she had already begun this process so knew that getting it on the NHS would be difficult/long winded. Her reason for quitting her job? She couldn’t cope with learning a new computer system.

She has defended the lack of financial input from her own husband to help her get the surgery by stating “Neil’s money is his money” but it is fine to take money from strangers?

I think if she had tried to get the money together herself for a while - like selling her crochet blankets, staying at her job, selling bits around the house and then told people she was struggling it would maybe have been a different story but the sob story about how she has struggled on for years and just can’t continue this way any longer - to me that just doesn’t add up to what her actions show.

Meh... I see you’re points. But she hasn’t forced anyone to donate.. you’re under no obligation to? Sometimes it’s just nice to help people, just because there are people with cancer etc doesn’t mean she isn’t deserving of help too. There will always be someone worse off.

In terms of her saying that’s her husbands money, I don’t think there is anything she can do about that. Financial abuse is a very real thing, so that wouldn’t stop be donating to help her?

At the end of the day you can have whichever opinion you want and never donate a penny. But there will always be people willing to help despite reading all these opinions and that’s okay

 

[Appanappa]

Meh... I see you’re points. But she hasn’t forced anyone to donate.. you’re under no obligation to? Sometimes it’s just nice to help people, just because there are people with cancer etc doesn’t mean she isn’t deserving of help too. There will always be someone worse off.

In terms of her saying that’s her husbands money, I don’t think there is anything she can do about that. Financial abuse is a very real thing, so that wouldn’t stop be donating to help her?

At the end of the day you can have whichever opinion you want and never donate a penny. But there will always be people willing to help despite reading all these opinions and that’s okay

Babe I think the people donating are too far up her arse to even care she’s using them for money because she can’t be bothered to get off her arse and work for what she wants like everyone else

 

[madditag]

Babe I think the people donating are too far up her arse to even care she’s using them for money because she can’t be bothered to get off her arse and work for what she wants like everyone else

‘Babe’ I’m someone who donated and far from up her arse..
If she is desperate then 8k is a lot of money to ‘get off her arse, work for and save.
Sometimes it’s just nice to help other humans.. I don’t expect her to live in poverty and never buy anything ever again just because I’ve donated £10 toward her survey? And would assume that’s how many others who have donated also feel

 

[Paradisefalls]

Meh... I see you’re points. But she hasn’t forced anyone to donate.. you’re under no obligation to? Sometimes it’s just nice to help people, just because there are people with cancer etc doesn’t mean she isn’t deserving of help too. There will always be someone worse off.

In terms of her saying that’s her husbands money, I don’t think there is anything she can do about that. Financial abuse is a very real thing, so that wouldn’t stop be donating to help her?

At the end of the day you can have whichever opinion you want and never donate a penny. But there will always be people willing to help despite reading all these opinions and that’s okay

Meh...

you asked why people would begrudge her money without reading the thread (by your own admission).

I merely gave an explanation.

Bringing up cancer patients and financial abuse is absolutely reaching.

 

[Appanappa]

‘Babe’ I’m someone who donated and far from up her arse..
If she is desperate then 8k is a lot of money to ‘get off her arse, work for and save.
Sometimes it’s just nice to help other humans.. I don’t expect her to live in poverty and never buy anything ever again just because I’ve donated £10 toward her survey? And would assume that’s how many others who have donated also feel

If she got a job, she could save at least half that, and contribute towards her own life. I’m all for helping people, but not when they don’t help themselves, hey maybe she could go do a sponsored outdoor adventure like she did when she was in debilitating pain with her boobs?

btw, you’re clearly up her arse if you donated and then came on her to defend her, maybe go suck up in her comments

 

[Tom_Nook]

‘Babe’ I’m someone who donated and far from up her arse..
If she is desperate then 8k is a lot of money to ‘get off her arse, work for and save.
Sometimes it’s just nice to help other humans.. I don’t expect her to live in poverty and never buy anything ever again just because I’ve donated £10 toward her survey? And would assume that’s how many others who have donated also feel

I agree with you that 8k is a LOT to save, especially if you're earning a lower wage or if you can't work full time because of childcare etc. I also agree with your point about not expecting her to live in poverty and that it's nice to help other people.

From experience with chronic pain, some days it can be bad some days it can be managed and might not hurt as much, so it's hard for me to say 'well she did that yesterday, why can't she do xyz today?'. Everyone has good and bad days and things that they can push through.

My real issue is with her making out that she can't get the operation through the NHS when she doesn't know that yet (unless there's an update we haven't seen). She hasn't been refused by NHS but so many people seem to be under the impression that it's go private or not get the operation. To seemingly make the decision to go private but not pay for any of it yourself is a bit off. Also her just not mentioning it again after so many people donated and she's pretty much at her target is strange.

 

[madditag]

Meh...

you asked why people would begrudge her money without reading the thread (by your own admission).

I merely gave an explanation.

Bringing up cancer patients and financial abuse is absolutely reaching.

If by her own admission that’s ‘her husbands money’ and he won’t contribute towards her surgery or share money in a way married couples should, then I don’t think financial abuse is reaching?

If she got a job, she could save at least half that, and contribute towards her own life. I’m all for helping people, but not when they don’t help themselves, hey maybe she could go do a sponsored outdoor adventure like she did when she was in debilitating pain with her boobs?

btw, you’re clearly up her arse if you donated and then came on her to defend her, maybe go suck up in her comments

I’m not up her arse... I came here as I realised I hadn’t seen this thread in a while and was shocked to see it had been moved from the rave section. I am definitely not someone who fawns over influencers in the comments. Just find it odd everyone has gone from raving about her to being very harsh just because of one thing.

I agree with you that 8k is a LOT to save, especially if you're earning a lower wage or if you can't work full time because of childcare etc. I also agree with your point about not expecting her to live in poverty and that it's nice to help other people.

From experience with chronic pain, some days it can be bad some days it can be managed and might not hurt as much, so it's hard for me to say 'well she did that yesterday, why can't she do xyz today?'. Everyone has good and bad days and things that they can push through.

My real issue is with her making out that she can't get the operation through the NHS when she doesn't know that yet (unless there's an update we haven't seen). She hasn't been refused by NHS but so many people seem to be under the impression that it's go private or not get the operation. To seemingly make the decision to go private but not pay for any of it yourself is a bit off. Also her just not mentioning it again after so many people donated and she's pretty much at her target is strange.

Yes I do agree with you, she should acknowledge it. I would hope she will upload another video soon with an explanation and a thank you.

She may not have had an outright no, but I can see how she would be frustrated and look to go privately when after 5/6 months she hadn’t got anywhere at all.

 

[monga]

I agree with you that 8k is a LOT to save, especially if you're earning a lower wage or if you can't work full time because of childcare etc. I also agree with your point about not expecting her to live in poverty and that it's nice to help other people.

From experience with chronic pain, some days it can be bad some days it can be managed and might not hurt as much, so it's hard for me to say 'well she did that yesterday, why can't she do xyz today?'. Everyone has good and bad days and things that they can push through.

My real issue is with her making out that she can't get the operation through the NHS when she doesn't know that yet (unless there's an update we haven't seen). She hasn't been refused by NHS but so many people seem to be under the impression that it's go private or not get the operation. To seemingly make the decision to go private but not pay for any of it yourself is a bit off. Also her just not mentioning it again after so many people donated and she's pretty much at her target is strange.

How would people feel if she just closed her channel and never did an update ? how would people know what happened their money she could have all 8grand already transferred to her bank account (you can withdraw at any time )even though it's still showing on GFM like you say her silence is very odd .

 

[monga]

Yesterday was florence birthday I wonder will she put a vid up of the day

 

[ses3711]

I don’t see how she cannot unless she’s done with
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