I’m a newbie but have thoroughly enjoyed reading this thread.
Have you seen her stories today? She posted a picture of a growth chart - her BMI is 37.6 and she is way off the chart!! She isn’t worried though as it’s just a number
it’s all Ok that both she and the baby are big because she and Jim are big boned (morbidly obese more like!!) so we’re never going to make small babies......
I think ending up with a forceps delivery for shoulder dystocia would probably swipe the smug look off her face though!!