Sounds like you just had a crappy midwife xSee from personal experience I can slightly disagree with you here, high bmi and I had an uncomplicated pregnancy. I went in for my last measuring scan at 38 weeks and one of the midwives/hca was pressuring me to have a sweep, I politely declined as I had done my research and found they only work if your body is ready, (baby wasn’t engaged yet) she said it was policy to do it and I had no choice.
I told her she wasn’t sticking her hand anywhere as I wasn’t comfortable. She tried to tell me it was best for baby if I had a sweep, I asked her why as he was growing perfectly healthily and was growing along his centile, I didn’t want her touching me.
She then said oh you can’t go by what the scans say as they can be incorrect, I ask her why they do bother wasting money on scans if they are not going to accept the results and she had no answer.
She told me 5 times that I had to have one and it resulted in me hysterically sobbing (I partially blame the hormones)
I saw the consultant ten minutes later and he said I didn’t have to have one! She was the most contradictory person I have ever met and made my final weeks awful
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Sounds like you just had a crappy midwife x
I had two sweeps with my son and it was always my choice. I was asked the question. Had I declined there would’ve been no problem.
I was the same, I only had 1 sweep though at 40 weeks but was given a choice if I wanted it or not. Never had anyone say I had to do something. Sorry you had that experience 
I do agree with the fact that scans aren't accurate though. They measure my last baby at 40 weeks at 6lbs, 6 day later she when she was born almost 10lb!
And my previous one they wanted to induce me because they were measuring large, born 2 days after they estimated 9lb and was 6lb 4
I do agree with the fact that scans aren't accurate though. They measure my last baby at 40 weeks at 6lbs, 6 day later she when she was born almost 10lb!
And my previous one they wanted to induce me because they were measuring large, born 2 days after they estimated 9lb and was 6lb 4
Why does she always post pics of her kid eating, I find it odd that she posts so many pics and stories of vesper with food. I genuinely think ferns and her husband have really unhealthy relationships with food and it's rubbed off on her daughter.
I really think she needs to take SW out her name. The only relation she has to SW is being a consultant and that is rarely talked about on her account compared to the other stuff
How about “food loving, boob toting, child growing, spendaholic feebz”?
TittyFeebs
*feebs ffs
I feel that she is obsessed with food! Force fed Vesper from 6 months huge meals and now the poor kid looks quite overweight. And size of her ‘bump’ its huge for 3 months pregnant 
spoil sport!<deleted> cos it was so bad
Is Feebs trying to get an invite onto Clemmies podcast ? To talk about boobing and such like 
All she does is arse sniff her! Clemmie this Clemmie that... Get a life woman!Is Feebs trying to get an invite onto Clemmies podcast ? To talk about boobing and such like
But she doesn't need portion control because kids have their own built in portion control
*eye roll*
YukDid we really need to see 2 videos of her stomach this morning
that ginger skinI hate itYuk
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