I’m pleased for you that you have that validation despite the silly GP. Hope you are feeling okay after the diagnosis, it can be tough to get your head around even if you fully expected it.

I hope you have better luck with receiving treatment than I did. I was asked if I wanted to try for a baby and when I said no it was basically take the pill or nothing, despite the various symptoms we all have to live with!
we were TTC quite actively (haha! Sort of pun intended I suppose!) last year, and although I didn’t expect it to be instant, I got very wrapped up in the whole TTC thing very quickly so I just decided age is not on my side so I’d pay for the blood test. I’ve kind of always know I had the syndrome at least, because I’ve always had the symptoms and they got a lot worse when I had my hormonal coil removed.
Now, we’re not trying but not preventing basically. I do want to get pregnant if I can, but I just switched jobs and I have no entitlement to anything at the moment (and some ground work to do to enhance the parental leave entitlements as well to be honest!), but equally we would manage if I fell pregnant now. I don’t really know what to say to the GP. I don’t want to jump straight to a treatment that all but guarantees ovulation, but I would like some support to manage the symptoms like my horrible skin, excess body hair, etc. but I don’t want to go back onto any kind of contraception. I need to lose weight but that’s not an easy one for me, but I know that some weight loss would help my symptoms. I also suffer with anxiety, which might be linked to my high testosterone. Tried coming off SSRIs but my mental health went fully into the bin so I am on the lowest possible dose and it’s holding me really well 99% of the time, but I would be curious to know if getting my hormone levels right might give me the ability to come off them again.
It’s
tit that you can only unlock a half decent treatment if you’re trying for a baby though. Another example of ‘if this happened to men instead of women, it would not be like this’. I feel like a right bra-burner but honestly it’s hard to convince me otherwise!
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Yes, the fact the PCOS is only an issue if I wanted kids immediately after diagnosis was a bit of kick in the teeth. I spent so long trying to avoid teenage pregnancy and it turns out it wouldn't have happened anyway. Rude.
OMG THIS. All of that sex ed at school that said if I even touched a boy I’d get pregnant with quintuplets in a millisecond or something and here I am, at the wrong end of my 30s realising that’s
bull. If only women could be properly educated about their bodies early. Of course there has to be a safe sex element to sex education but it’s only in the last year, one of the last of my 30s, that I feel I even vaguely know what my body has been doing for almost three
bleeping decades since my periods started. That’s absolutely outrageous.