All we are trying to say is that it's convenient that both auctions happened when there were big ticket expenses in his life. (D23, car, moving)They don't have to disclose it to whoever asks they just need to look into it and take action if appropriate. "Hey GKTW I'm concerned this Nathan D guy raised a bunch of money using your name can you double check the donations made it to you? Here are the links to the auction results. No need to follow up with me a concerned citizen who hopes you take appropriate action if he did actually commit any sort of fraud."
But I don't really care enough to do that. I don't think he is some sort of evil genius I think he's just a bumbling guy who started acting a certain way got paid for it and leaned into that act even harder. Classic case of positive reinforcement changing behavior.