Our_homefund

[xbxbx]

It’s been said before but she’s honestly something else Saying she messaged Stuart’s mum to say they’re going to start looking at houses and all she got in response was so she felt like replying with . Really not something you need to broadcast to the internet is it?

Also her complete delusion about wanting a semi detached or end terrace so they can extend in the future. Does she not realise you need planning permission for this? Just because you have the space to do so doesn’t mean you can.

She also seems to forget that sometimes cheaper houses are cheap for a reason, maybe it’s not a good area, known for crime, poor schooling etc so to act like she knows everything about the Scottish and English housing market is ridiculous. Telling her English followers that they can also get ‘good’ housing for under £100k they ‘just need to look’. Get in the bin.

Hope Stuart goes for the mortgage on his own and does a runner from her crazy arse.

 

[1234abcf]

Someone please explain to me how she’s gone from buying shit loads and saying it’s fine cos of the warranty.. to buying second hand because that’s how the rich stay rich ??? All within the space of about 24 hours

 

[lunatics_thelotofthem]

I still think that she is making us sweat and that she will be back with a post to update us that they got the house blah blah blah and how they’re going to have to do some more overtime to cover the cost of a full CCTV system and a full time bouncer due to her Instagram followers finding her house on right move

 

[Whatwouldyoudo]

She said she thinks she knows who's behind it, I wonder if she follows Katie Hayes as that's her favourite line Abby sits there judging people who had a mortgage, people in the area that she lives in and desperately wants to get out of, the people she worked with, I could go on and on. It's a part of life, people pass judgement and talk, whether that's online, in WhatsApp groups or over a drink with your friends. What people don't do is share 99% of their life on social media, then decide that people who know about their life (that they've shared!) are dangerous

FYI Abby I have children and they'll be brought up to appreciate what they have, not throw the towel in when life gets tough and not to share themselves on social media for likes

 

[TinyB]

So next erratic move is that they’re going to move this year. Guarantee on Monday after they speak to the “broker” there will be another stumbling block. I am honestly thinking she just spouts this crap for some sort of content. I also wish she would get her longer tooth shaved, it really bothers me

 

[Baad_sheep]

'be happy, they can't stand it'

Abby, I'd love to see you and your hubby get your forever home and succeed!!! No one on this thread don't want to see you happy.

We are just critiquing the unnecessary and outlandish spending, the unfavorable life choices and manic behaviour you are displaying that would hinder your chances at succeeding!!!

I think deep down, cause she doesn't have an 'adult' / parental figure close to her to give her wise words of wisdom she thinks any criticism is bullying. If my mum had said half the stuff being said on here to me while I was trying to get a house I would yes be upset yes but then realise I've been going haywire and listen to the advice to get back on track.

I love to watch her because it puts my life in perspective and avoid making wrong choices. Basically a what not to do.

Someone on here said it's like recovering alcoholics watching someone who is a recovering alcoholic the become a binge drinker. That's the best way to describe Abby's erratic behaviour. I loved when she did the savings, tips, etc basically showing the world that you can achieve your dreams from a poor background and minimum wage job. She was inspiring. I earn a very good wage, but I can't justify spending +£300 on a pair on sunglasses. I'll stick to my TKMax designer pair I got on sale at £40 5 years ago lol she was relatable and inspiring. The way she has behaved recently is anything but that. So I don't hate you Abby, or don't want to see you happy - Im just concerned but can't look away cause in a way I care. I want to see you happy and succeed so ive just giving my thoughts on how to do that and critiquing what you have been doing that's jeopardising your chances. (speaking from experience!)

 

[lanaisasaver]

I don’t think anyone should ever Google or see if their on tattle. What other people think of you is none of your business. I have a debt page which a fair amount of followers not like as many as Abby but I know people talk crap about me and I’m good with that. I know what I think and the people I love and care for matter that’s it but I think for me what has made me feel low is when Abby slagged off mortgages etc it really made myself and a lot of people in the debt community ( she may not know this ) feel insulted and irritated. Some of us working hard to try and get to a certain place felt irritated someone with lots of followers would preach bad vibes and also bad advice. There’s nothing wrong with cash buying or getting a mortgage and nothing wrong with renting. I have never slagged off her appearance once cos I think she is a pretty girl it’s the one day one thing the next day the next thing and then the spending which I know has been erratic in this last few months. Abby has burnt herself out and her MH is going to be bad but if so, come off IG dont Google tattle and upset yourself even more. Her followers wanted to see a saver and a cash buyer and wanted that

That’s why they followed
So be a saver Abby and a cash buyer cos as I’ve said before if they wanted a spending or home decor account they would be following one

 

[Scar14]

Honestly couldn’t imagine losing an account with 17k followers just cos about 10 people on another website have said they don’t like you

 

[eyecandy_19221]

Anyone else wish one of her old work colleagues would come on here and spill the T on what she was like to work with because I bet she was an absolute nightmare and always complaining.

 

[BorderHopper]

As if any interviewer said “I can see you on the back of a fire engine”


please

 

[WonderShade18]

Wouldn't that 10k spent on Spanish holidays come in handy right now.

 

[lanaisasaver]

Change your page to a cash buying page and then get a mortgage - heard it racks up a fair bit of interest

Yes I may do that
Cash buying a house for £150k but I’ve got 0 money in the bank
Follow me for tricks and tips how to save 150k in 6 weeks

I never said people can’t have opinions or freedom of speech. People can think what they like about her money saving tips etc and how she goes about it. I’m merely offering a different opinion or possible reason to the baby nursery and mental health. I’m of the opinion (seeing as we are all entitled to an opinion here) is that mental health is not one of the topics that should be mocked. If anybody is in a bad place mentally their behaviour will more than likely be erratic, which of course we have seen with the chopping and changing of ideas. Mocking someone’s decor or choice of house/outfit etc is one thing, Mocking or belittled someone for having mental health issues can stop them getting help and can end very badly.

You have a right to your opinion and I agree with MH it’s a tricky subject but with all respect

If you have MH issues you should help yourself
If you have a social media platform you have to know by now people will not always like you
Or agree with you and if you don’t want to feel upset what people think
Don’t read it

I don’t buy the paper on a Sunday cos I don’t like what I see
I don’t have fb cos I don’t like what I see
I come off my own IG account cos I get overwhelmed by what I am seeing

Abby needs to not take it to heart people have an opinion different to hers or think things and just focus on what she’s doing

Do any of us really matter ?
We only start to matter if what we are saying has touched a nerve because it’s true

I don’t fully disagree with what your saying
But this day and age being on social media sadly opens up a bad side with a good
And I don’t agree with that
But you have to take it all if you want to be on social media

I’ve had people slag me off
To my face on DMs
And about me on the IG a community

And I don’t let it get to me cos I can’t be liked by everyone
It’s a little narcissistic to expect people to always like you and agree with you and be mad when they don’t

Just accept not everyone will and make peace with that

If Abby is upset people are belittling her she’s going to spend the rest of her life upset
And the rest of her life not happy cos it’s going to happen
Every work place you go
Friends
Family
Partners
Strangers on the internet
Someone is always going to have a comment you won’t like or agree with
But tell Abby from me
If her MH is in a bad place get off social media for good

Cos that way she only has to fear the comments and opinions from the other places and not the whole world ( which she broadcasts on social media )
I mean that I’m not a rude way but in a sincere way you can’t moan strangers on the internet are being nasty whilst keep using the internet 🤍

If you can’t stand the heat
Get out of the kitchen

Cos it’s a cold world and it’s a nasty world and not everyone is going to be nice and the quicker we all learn this
The stronger we get
Abby does not have to read tattle

DO NOT READ TATTLE ABBY

 

[BorderHopper]

Looking at costs for moving???
You want to get a quote to move your stuff to an unknown location on an unknown date? good luck with that abs

 

[Xanadu81]

I wish I could stop following her but I just can’t

 

[Xanadu81]

Displaying the F&b paint samples, justifying the second hand coffee machine, nonsense story about the rich man and the fridge on top of everything else, she just wants to be perceived as successful. The parents really did a number on this girl and she needs therapy ASAP. Not even tattle rattles her she’s so dangerous.

 

[Scar14]

I don’t think anyone should ever Google or see if their on tattle. What other people think of you is none of your business. I have a debt page which a fair amount of followers not like as many as Abby but I know people talk crap about me and I’m good with that. I know what I think and the people I love and care for matter that’s it but I think for me what has made me feel low is when Abby slagged off mortgages etc it really made myself and a lot of people in the debt community ( she may not know this ) feel insulted and irritated. Some of us working hard to try and get to a certain place felt irritated someone with lots of followers would preach bad vibes and also bad advice. There’s nothing wrong with cash buying or getting a mortgage and nothing wrong with renting. I have never slagged off her appearance once cos I think she is a pretty girl it’s the one day one thing the next day the next thing and then the spending which I know has been erratic in this last few months. Abby has burnt herself out and her MH is going to be bad but if so, come off IG dont Google tattle and upset yourself even more. Her followers wanted to see a saver and a cash buyer and wanted that

That’s why they followed
So be a saver Abby and a cash buyer cos as I’ve said before if they wanted a spending or home decor account they would be following one

This! Tattle exists so that we can share our opinions without the person seeing it! They have to actively be looking to see what we’re saying on here

 

[Allthatglitters666]

Lol at her questioning the annual leave policy at the council . Funnily enough Abby your recruitment won't be the main priority for them. Joker

 

[Magee]

FYI this is my current favourite thread and she’s my current favourite train wreck.

I MEAN! PLANTERS?! It’s comedy gold

 

[WonderShade18]

She is becoming increasingly hard to listen to. 'i will probably get it' Yes, you probably will if it's care as they are on their knees and desperate for help, and you've got experience. Shes in no way modest.

 

[Durandan94]

My god there are some things you just keep to yourself and don’t spout to over 17k people! It’s one thing to slate her own family fair enough but to publicly slate her husbands family!!!! Jeeeeezussssss