They don’t say incase they need you again for a back up when they are bored, and men and honesty don’t really go hand in hand when it comes to women.Oh noit's so weird when this happens yet quite common. Happened to me years ago too but found out later he'd got back with an ex. Why not just say!? Xx
Yeah I guess you've hit the nail on the head there.They don’t say incase they need you again for a back up when they are bored, and men and honesty don’t really go hand in hand when it comes to women.
Urh! I've had an experience with this type of guy too and you're spot on.I think what annoys me most is he used to say he was ‘such a good egg’
Always think those people that protest their so decent usually aren’t!!
Hit the nail on the head there!Urh! I've had an experience with this type of guy too and you're spot on.
I broke things off with a guy I was seeing years ago, lots of reasons why but what stuck out the most was how clingy and emotionally manipulative he was. When I spoke to him to break things off (after 5 weeks of dating) he drew the conversation out over hours and hours challenging everything I said (I was trying to be polite with him and put it down to 'me stuff' to try and spare his feelings - at the time i was thinking maybe we are just not compatible and the things I find creepy and OTT might be endearing to someone else)
After literally the 50th round of tears and him shaking his head at me and muttering "nice guys finish last" I really wanted to scream at him MAYBE YOURE NOT AS NICE AS YOU LIKE TO THINK YOU ARE but I still felt a bit mean. A few months later I heard he had been dating a friend of a friend and I was really excited thinking maybe they were well suited but no he pulled the exact same bullshit on her including the 3 hour long exit interview where he actually asked her how she could live with herself doing this to such a nice guy
Self proclaimed nice guys are the worst
Often works for them though, constantly conditioning people by saying how nice they are all the time. He knows a few people in my wider circle of friends and when they've said ah yeah what a nice guy though and I've asked why they cant really come up with an answer. Its quite unfortunate that sometimes the most charming people to the outside world are actually proper dicks behind closed doors and it's only the partner that gets to see itHit the nail on the head there!
They are convinced they are the ‘good guys’ and can’t see past it. Convinced someone once told them they were nice and it’s stuck with them no matter what behaviour follows!
Can totally agree with this! A guy I went out with a few years ago matched this to a TOften works for them though, constantly conditioning people by saying how nice they are all the time. He knows a few people in my wider circle of friends and when they've said ah yeah what a nice guy though and I've asked why they cant really come up with an answer. Its quite unfortunate that sometimes the most charming people to the outside world are actually proper dicks behind closed doors and it's only the partner that gets to see it
Wow, he sounds like you had a lucky escape there. Mine and his wider friendship circles sort of overlap so I've watched what I've said but luckily hes shown himself up since. Every single girl hes dated since have all ended up being the new villain of his storyCan totally agree with this! A guy I went out with a few years ago matched this to a T
No one could say a bad word against him, he was super active on social media with total adoration for his posts, very popular at work but behind closed doors total Jekyl and Hyde, very moody over the smallest things, silent treatment the lot.
I can recall one incident ‘play fighting’ bent my hand back even after I was shouting that it hurt and crying, he couldn’t understand what he did wrong
Unfortunately I remember having the thought after that if I ever told any of our friends etc they wouldn’t believe me due to his ‘public’ personality
Totally agree. I'm not saying all guys are like this but nowadays guys think they've got so many options because of dating apps. They think that x amount of matches on apps means they're irresistible to many women. It's all bogus because many matches might not even follow through and you're not going to personally connect with and fancy every single match. Doesn't stop them believing they're a stud though and have got loads of optionsEven a bog standard average man will also think hes very attractive and that hes seriously in with a chance with a supermodel!.
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