Someone else I follow posted the other day saying they aren’t sure whether to keep putting their pregnancy updates online as they keep getting so many creepy people messaging who are into it in a sexual way. I can only assume that Nicola hasn’t actually had any perverts message her, and thinks we are all exaggerating on here, and that’s why she keeps doing it and is finding it funny.
Although, it takes a special kind of person to think that a good way of hitting back at a public forum discussing them is to post pictures of your toddler breastfeeding. It’s not affecting anyone but her and Raven’s safety or privacy.
I know this is really patronising - but she’s stuck in the world of having a little child. My elder ones are teenagers, and would be mortified if they knew I had posted such videos online! I’ve always been careful about what I’ve posted online about them, but now they are older I make sure they are okay with me putting anything about them or their photo online. I’ve never shared photos of them breastfeeding, in the bath, or doing anything else that if someone were to go back and pull it up they would be embarrassed by. It’s funny that she portrays that her life is so much about Raven and doing everything for her - yet she doesn’t think about her privacy at all! It’s not even about normalising it. You don’t need videos and images like that to normalise it. Feed when out and about if needed, let people know you are still feeding, blog or caption about it and so on.