I did not see this on the last thread, missed it if it was. So R can have breast but baby can't?? Thought she was all for tandem BF. I just feel for sorry for little baby E.Didn’t see this shared on last thread, but apologies if I missed it.
So even before Ember was born she was planning on focusing her time, effort and breasts on Queen Raven!!
Omg this is absolutely awful. I don’t care about breastfeeding, I don’t plan to breastfeed and I hate the whole “breast is best” thing: but WOW why has she even bothered having another baby? When all of her attention and love is clearly taken up by Raven. Feel sorry for this baby already I do.Didn’t see this shared on last thread, but apologies if I missed it.
So even before Ember was born she was planning on focusing her time, effort and breasts on Queen Raven!!
Wow. I remember 5 or more essays of hers declaring ‘I won’t leave my daughter unless I absolutely have to’ ‘I won’t apologise for not wanting to be away from Raven’ etc... she’d never have given Raven a bottle.Didn’t see this shared on last thread, but apologies if I missed it.
So even before Ember was born she was planning on focusing her time, effort and breasts on Queen Raven!!
I also flirted with the thought “well she’s maybe trying not to make the same mistakes again, and trying to get Ember more socialised with her family than Raven was etc”At first I was going to stick up for her and say.. well giving a bottle of expressed milk is absolutely fine if she needs to take R to nursery. But then I thought hang on, if she is leaving the bottle for someone else to give her like grandma. Then grandma can surely take R to nursery while she feeds at home and has a rest that’s the easiest option. When I had my second baby, other mums on the school run were lovely and offered to take and bring my first child home. When husband was home he would go get first child from school etc. Because I was needed at home during those first few weeks to constantly feed. She needs to let other people do stuff for her. Even during the pandemic, if you have a baby you are allowed an extra support bubble. Her mum/a friend etc could take r to nursery while she rested.
Matilda makes me cryI said it in the last thread and will say it again the new baby is gonna be Matilda, outcast, pouring her own breakfast at 9months, cooking herself a fry up because she’s sick of eating slop at 1 yr old.
agree with every single word you’ve said and I couldn’t have written it better myself! I also have the same views of Raven and she TOTALLY looks spiteful! I can imaging her hitting and biting other kids at schoolPea makes me really dislike Raven. I know how ridiculous that sounds, I do. But I look at Raven and am just repulsed by this brat of a child. She even looks spiteful. And it isn't just Peas fault, it's everyone who doesn't say a word about it - Dean, friends, family...
She's so eager to detach from Ember but can't even comprehend the idea of being away from Raven. The night she had Ember, grandma had to sleep in their rancid sleep space. A normal set up would be for Raven to have slept at grandma's - or is that just me? She's made such a show of breastfeeding Raven for all this time but already wants to wean Ember at what, a week old? She just doesn't seem to love the new baby even half as much as Raven, she's presenting Ember like an inconvenience. Urgh she was crying downstairs. How dare she be hungry for Raven's milk? Oh FFS, she woke Raven, let's foist her off on Dean. She should be fucking ashamed. And I don't think it's all about grief at all, she was joined at the hip with Raven from day one and I would've thought the first baby after loss would be the hardest to bond with?
Correct me on anything I'm ignorant to because I've not experienced loss, I have one child, I'm not crunchy etc. Just saying what I see. And that is that Nicola is a prick and Dean is the biggest wet wipe there is, Raven is a little shit and Ember is all but neglected right now.
Well we already know she's 'hitty' and 'throwy'... She's a little arsehole. I have a boy who's literally days older than Raven and he has his moments, I'm not blind to his arseholeness, but if he behaved like she does 99% of the time, I'd be absolutely mortified. Then again, he's heard the word 'no' before.agree with every single word you’ve said and I couldn’t have written it better myself! I also have the same views of Raven and she TOTALLY looks spiteful! I can imaging her hitting and biting other kids at school
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