Yeah, Amanda is no angel herself but no one deserves to be gaslit and manipulated.I think the video was deleted/taken down but there was a transcript going around about what she said. He cheated on her but she forgave and stayed with him. He started to insinuate it was her fault he did it....she was too big, not good enough etc so she tried to be what he wanted her to but he cheated again and this time she left. She started to sort herself out then when he ended up in rehab, she got back in touch to help and they got back together. Then all the digging started again and he cheated with Hannah and left her for her.
Thread by @devneber, Oli Sykes' abuse allegations were finally taken seriously like two weeks ago [...]
Thread by @devneber, Oli Sykes' abuse allegations were finally taken seriously like two weeks ago [...]twtext.com
It seems to be a running theme with him...gaslighting those he is with that they aren't good enough and they are the ones to blame if he cheats. I admittedly haven't been keeping up to date with things but from what I have seen when Alissa talked about him and how he opened her eyes about stuff etc...it seems he is still doing it with her.
I think Oli is unfortunately just a raging narcissist for which there is no cure! I don’t know if he’s been officially diagnosed as a narcissist but not sure if he’d admit it if so it would even have the self awareness to seek help for it.
Even in the early early days he behaved like a narc so I fully believe it’s a personality disorder and not just a case of fame got to his head. It’s probably got a lot to do with why his music business has been so successful tbh and he’ll never be short of female attention and admirers so I don’t know if he’d even want to change even if he was aware there was a problem.