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I wouldn’t say it’s unfair. NZ is a small country and has limited resources. Of course funding is going to target those with the greatest chance of success.
They are literally asking her to lose some weight, which will improve her health outcomes and the babies potentially….they are not asking her to climb Mount frickin Everest
Just stop
bleeping eating
tit Ellie.
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Your so right in what you say
Infertility ‘can’ be a side effect of obesity.
I was thinking you need energy to move round after a toddler as some can run everywhere and be super busy. She should be thinking I want to be able to play in the playground go down the slide etc with my kids and have the fitness n mobility to play with them.
How is she going to have the energy to get up every 3-4 hours in the night with a baby?
Also you want to be an example as a parent not be downing copious amounts of unhealthy food n eat packets of biscuits in front of them!
This preeching of self acceptance and plus size body love really annoys me big time WITHOUT the aspect of being healthy too

Is she going to preech about her food addiction and how much junk she eats in her talk to the 13 year olds? How she prob ate the whole packet of biscuits while writing her speech to them?
Is her message going to be to the kids “do what you want in life, so you can over eat as much junk as you want, get obese, be lazy and be happy with yourself”
Or am I just too mean?