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Anxiety must be what they are putting on the benefit forms. No wonder she can do one wedding a month whilst still buying a load of nonsense.
 
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I am just so sick of hearing about how sick she is, it’s giving me anxiety 🥹
 
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When did she sundently get aniexty? Considering she goes out a heck of a lot socialising at weddings and to eat at many different places to the point she has travelled far from home just to try food places maybe i am ignorant and maybe each case is different but would you really do what she does if you had bad aniexty? Like your a content creator what if someone said somthing to you to your face regarding what you post online it just seems a card she plays when she cant take what people say online ive never heard her mention this till recently
 
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If she knew she had such bad anxiety, why has she travelled that far? If you can’t do the AGT stuff then why have you gone, surely she knew of said anxiety before committing to it? Was it to use the free ticket because Harper dad went last time? Or is it to see if Ben can get exposure for his band?
She didn’t go last time because of work commitments. It was unrelated to her anxiety.
I just feel bad for Peyton because she literally cannot make it less obvious of her favouritism
 
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If she knew she had such bad anxiety, why has she travelled that far? If you can’t do the AGT stuff then why have you gone, surely she knew of said anxiety before committing to it? Was it to use the free ticket because Harper dad went last time? Or is it to see if Ben can get exposure for his band?
She didn’t go last time because of work commitments. It was unrelated to her anxiety.
I just feel bad for Peyton because she literally cannot make it less obvious of her favouritism
That’s what I thought myself, why spend all that money to go away for a month when you can’t even eat at a restaurant? She’s been on about how bad her anxiety has been recently maybe she could’ve seen her GP about stronger meds to help her. Just seems like a complete waste of time and I think maybe she thought she would create cool content but it’s all backfired because of her anxiety. Harpers dad is there this time too but she wanted to create memories for her kids and have a family holiday as they haven’t been away in 7 years I think she said so they all went. Some holiday for your kids, her crying all the time.

As much as she annoys me with constantly going on about it, I do hope she just gets on with it so her kids will have a great holiday. I went to New York at the height of my anxiety (it was planned for over two years, in those two years I was meant to lose weight and sort my self out, it just didn’t happen unfortunately) and god there were days I didn’t want to go out but you just have to grow a pair of balls, give your issues a massive middle finger and get on with it, as it’s not often you will get that experience. I didn’t broadcast my day to thousands though, don’t think that will help her anxiety, and just lived in the moment. Get off TikTok and enjoy LA!
 
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I just can’t even imagine how when your daughter is on one of the biggest tv shows in the world, all of the content about the trip you post would be you crying about yourself and your own needs. It’s coming across entirely selfish tbh, anxiety or no anxiety you put your kids first. Imagine Harper or any of the kids looking back on these mini vlogs in a few years and just see their mum crying about absolutely everything 🤦‍♀️
 
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I just can’t even imagine how when your daughter is on one of the biggest tv shows in the world, all of the content about the trip you post would be you crying about yourself and your own needs. It’s coming across entirely selfish tbh, anxiety or no anxiety you put your kids first. Imagine Harper or any of the kids looking back on these mini vlogs in a few years and just see their mum crying about absolutely everything 🤦‍♀️
She may as well have not gone she hasnt even gone with harper to any of the stuff shes not really supporting her daughter shes making it all about her harper must feel so gutted first it was work and now its just another excuse not to go support her shouldve saved all that money and stayed at home
 
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She may as well have not gone she hasnt even gone with harper to any of the stuff shes not really supporting her daughter shes making it all about her harper must feel so gutted first it was work and now its just another excuse not to go support her shouldve saved all that money and stayed at home
Exactly all of the voiceovers are so downhearting to hear over a trip that the children are clearly trying to enjoy…it’s all me..me…me & a bit more of my feelings.
Pulling a I’m trying to show people that I’m pushing through it is nonsense too. You’re attention seeking and not liking that people are finding it hard to watch. Fair enough you have anxiety but you decided to go, because you apparently wanted to be supportive.
There’s nothing supportive about what she’s doing & I really hope she stops posting about it if all she’s going to be is negative!

I really hope Harper still does well because imagine your mum acting like that when you’re under pressure like that at such a young age. Unbelievably selfish.
 
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She may as well have not gone she hasnt even gone with harper to any of the stuff shes not really supporting her daughter shes making it all about her harper must feel so gutted first it was work and now its just another excuse not to go support her shouldve saved all that money and stayed at home
Im glad her dad went again, At least she has one parent present to help her x
 
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Exactly all of the voiceovers are so downhearting to hear over a trip that the children are clearly trying to enjoy…it’s all me..me…me & a bit more of my feelings.
Pulling a I’m trying to show people that I’m pushing through it is nonsense too. You’re attention seeking and not liking that people are finding it hard to watch. Fair enough you have anxiety but you decided to go, because you apparently wanted to be supportive.
There’s nothing supportive about what she’s doing & I really hope she stops posting about it if all she’s going to be is negative!

I really hope Harper still does well because imagine your mum acting like that when you’re under pressure like that at such a young age. Unbelievably selfish.
i mean i have my own thoughts and opinions i think an opportunity has been seen there and its been taken no way saying harper does not have talent or she does not want to do it herself but i can tell shes heavily influenced by ben and hannah because they know she could make some decent money from it i dont think its right for children that age to be under such a microscope we are not silly and know how rigged these talent shows are theres so much preasure to fit into a box just look at the stories coming out of things like the x factor and how badly contestants were treated it will be nothing different at somthing like this and honestly i worry for harper being under all that preasure and not even really having the support of your mum as shes falling apart

many people would kill to go to LA just enjoy it for god sake otherwise get the next flight home and stop moaning
 
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Hannah’s been reading here hasn’t she with that new insta post…

im not sorry about my opinion, you are being extremely selfish right now. I am not bashing your parenting, but I am also a parent myself and I can’t even deal with the thought of projecting my anxieties onto something my children were trying to enjoy. It’s not about you for once and you clearly can’t cope with it.

At the end of the day you would have to have given consent for Harper to be allowed to be on AGT in the first place. Now she’s there is having to deal with you acting like this as well as the pressure of that. I’m not going to say get a grip, as I have my anxieties and I know it’s not that easy, but you could at least consider the impact that your negativity is having on those around you right now & that people are allowed to not enjoy content where all you are talking about is yourself over clips of your children enjoying themselves.
 
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Hannah’s been reading here hasn’t she with that new insta post…

im not sorry about my opinion, you are being extremely selfish right now. I am not bashing your parenting, but I am also a parent myself and I can’t even deal with the thought of projecting my anxieties onto something my children were trying to enjoy. It’s not about you for once and you clearly can’t cope with it.

At the end of the day you would have to have given consent for Harper to be allowed to be on AGT in the first place. Now she’s there is having to deal with you acting like this as well as the pressure of that. I’m not going to say get a grip, as I have my anxieties and I know it’s not that easy, but you could at least consider the impact that your negativity is having on those around you right now & that people are allowed to not enjoy content where all you are talking about is yourself over clips of your children enjoying themselves.
Couldn’t have put it any better myself 👏💯🙌🏻
 
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Where are they staying? Looks like they're in someone's house?

Also, she's a selfish, self centred cow. Ruining it for everyone. I grew up with a family member like this, its a form of abuse. It ruined virtually every single day when growing up, especially days that were meant to be special. She should've stayed home.
 
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I suffer with the worst anxiety ever I mean I can’t go out on my own an when I do I have to be with someone, but my kids were bored so I soldiered through it an took them somehwere even on a bus out of my town, it’s not much to others I know but it’s a big deal for me, but I didn’t once make everything about me or moan about it I just got on with it for my kids sake. They’re literally on the most amazing holiday doing the most amazing thing for harper. Yet all she cares about is herself an it is damn right disgusting! She needs to get over herself put the phone down an go an enjoy her kids an holiday! Not everyone can afford such an amazing holiday right now you selfish greasy haired twit! Most people can’t even afford Fuking bread! bleep.
 
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Surely her kids feed off her emotion and anxiety and MOANING. CONSTANT MOANING ALL THE TIME. I'd hate it if my mum or dad was like that.

Hannah is the only person I can think of that could moan about winning the lottery.

I understand also that anxiety is very real and its great people talk about it now, it was such a taboo subject even just a few years ago, but she absolutely does not need to be this selfish to only talk about this when her kid is doing such an incredible thing. It isn't fair on anyone around her, it must get bleeping annoying for them.
 
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hannah you are making this trip about you. you should of let her dad deal with it again. not once have you mentioned about Harper, or how the kids and ben are getting on, just you, you and you. anxiety is the worst yes, feel you on that one but making it about you is where the backlash is coming from!
 
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Another video about her anxiety for gods sake. Me, me, me again! It’s the voice as well. Where have these supposed sleeping tablets magically appeared from too?! Swear she said the pharmacy over there wouldn’t give her anything 🫠

“I haven’t really spoken about my anxiety and how anxious I’ve been” 🥲 that’s ALL you’ve talked about Hannah, on your family account…that’s a platform that’s supposedly not just about you? That’s what is causing the backlash! The children will remember you for your narcissism on this trip & Harper will especially remember having to baby you, during one of the biggest opportunities she will ever have, when it should be completely the other way round. Narcissistic parenting is abusive, I never set out to bash her parenting but this trip has shown it for what it is.
 
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Another video about her anxiety for gods sake. Me, me, me again! It’s the voice as well. Where have these supposed sleeping tablets magically appeared from too?! Swear she said the pharmacy over there wouldn’t give her anything 🫠

“I haven’t really spoken about my anxiety and how anxious I’ve been” 🥲 that’s ALL you’ve talked about Hannah, on your family account…that’s a platform that’s supposedly not just about you? That’s what is causing the backlash! The children will remember you for your narcissism on this trip & Harper will especially remember having to baby you, during one of the biggest opportunities she will ever have, when it should be completely the other way round. Narcissistic parenting is abusive, I never set out to bash her parenting but this trip has shown it for what it is.
i mean i dont really bash her parenting either but her last live i saw where grayson just was doing his own thing and couldnt give too people what she said shows they have no control over them as such and they are clearly left to their own devices and left to run riot aniexty is somthing i maybe am a bit naive too and maybe someone can explain how can hannah go to all these food places travel to the other side of the country just to try a resturant can host a pizza party where she meets total strangers and then went on to make a video about that person how rude they were didnt she even meet a random subscriber and pay for their lunch ? she got quite a bit of back lash at the time for it i cant remember why but sundently shes got to do somthing for her kids and shes got really bad aniexty maybe i am ignorant and i would love to be educated on it more i feel like i have bits of aniexty in the past but not to the point its ever stopped me leaving the house as such so to me some of it looks fake but again maybe its me not understanding it as ive not been there myself


bottom line is she needs to push herself best she can all harper will remember of this trip is her mum crying because she could not do this or that and while i try to sympathise when i see the same person doing all the stuff i said above it just seems fake to me
 
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