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Am I being dim? Her current reasoning for the Ko-fi price increase is because she set it at the wrong price due to conversion mistake ....

So I've just made myself a page, at the support section and I can amend the price easy. Literally type in a new number and it's saved at that.
I'm sure I'm not mixing up the supporters bit and the membership bit. But can you look at see if I have?
It just seems so bizarre that you can't amend things as important as how much it will cost your supporters 😱🤯

I read more of the FAQ page and she could upgrade everyone from supporter to a membership tier, with set prices, so say she has done and its cost £5.
Just make a new tier ..... At 99p so everyone gets identical content for identical price.
Like I said earlier id hold my hands up and say I messed up, start again.

Ultimately none of this would be happening had she not ducked up often on FB. As I say in not in the support group so I see limited videos.
But reading on here I'm gob-smacked she's not had trouble a lot sooner. She's incredibly flippant about safety and as for hounding a person who spoke out. That's bleeping wicked. Who does that! ESP someone who cries MH and BeKind on a weekly basis.

She strikes me as someone who gets bored v easily so buys themselves new and exciting things, only in her case they are animals. ☹ The novelty wears off quickly and then she's on to the next thing.

Dyson was for L, then the foals were, now Bella's foal is for L. How does she think she's going to break in 3 ponies, what if something goes wrong with Bella, she has said time and again she doesn't believe in pet insurance. Will she beg for £££ when it happens.

I enjoyed when she did things with him as a baby, the hand printing ppl sent her to do, pretty basic things to do with him. She comes across as not overly maternal, not everyone is.
Maybe she shows more on the supporters group, things like sitting with him and colouring, teaching him words, counting, painting, messy play and such like.
Yes he gets fresh air and the freedom to run about, but that's about it, from what I see.

I was a single mum, after a v nasty abusive relationship. No idea why she bangs on about it so much. Many parents are doing it alone with no support. It's not a competition.
She can not change the FB pricing and apparently on this new platform once you set up the page, you can’t change the price either. As for supporters bit, lowen doesn’t do messy play it anything, he’s left to his own devices as he is on main page. He’s left to his own devices so much so, once on a supporters live she was letting lowen play with a plugged in, turned on extension lead.
to my knowledge bellas foal is for jo, not lowen. Why? I don’t know as she can’t ride Jack or Bella now, just like she apparently wants JB back ina few years too, why? I don’t know as he’ll be left in the field doing nothing. Personally JB is better off where he is and should be sold to Nathan. Nathan is incredible with his horses, he actually goes above and beyond for them, takes proper care, does things with them etc.
im a single parent too, I had no choice but to leave his dad as he was DV and social got involved. Hardest thing I did was leave as I genuinely in love and blind to all the tit. He was my first proper love. Now I look back and think why didn’t you leave sooner yiu daft cow. I’ve doing it solo and have done since day 1 because his dad and that side wanted nothing to do with him. I’ve never complained about it, I’ve never constantly preached I’m a single parent either, I just get on with it, do the absolute best I can. I’m extremely lucky that I have an amazing support system. I have animals, a household to run and a child to raise and I just do it. My animals are cleaned Atleast once a day, food and water changed Atleast twice a day, my house isn’t spotless by any means but it’s clean, the only time my house is spotless is when my child is at nursery or in bed asleep lol. My child always has clean clothes (I wash clothes everyday, whether the washing machine is full or not), he has hundreds of learning books which he will actually pull out himself and go through them, we do his learning books together daily. My child has a strict routine, I’m also a strict parent. My child will try pushing boundaries and his luck sometimes but for the most part he’s a good kid with manners and respect. He appreciates everything he has, he doesn’t have everything he wants but he has everything he needs. I’m not a perfect parent and I’m not claiming to be, but I know for a fact I’m a dam sight better mum than jo is and will ever be. It’s not that difficult to juggle everything jo, it’s not difficult to spend time with your animals and child and parent your child. Your just too blooming lazy
 
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When discussing girl cat and not having insurance for her she said on at least one video she's never had it in all her years etc.
Trying to remember which one it was.
I'm all for people choosing whether to have it or not but don't expect to have folk bail you out!
Even more so when a new lorry then arrived a few weeks later......

I think it was when she was saying her chickens or ducks all die young, she had a poorly one in her caravan over night, ppl started replying their birds lived upwards of 10+ yrs.

I will say her decision to let Nathan loan Jonboy was the best decision I've seen her do. It's been the absolute making of him.
 
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She actually got the lorry three weeks before the Girlcat incident which is why she said she had no money for the operation.
She is unable to change the fb supporters price and obviously its very cheap hence why she wanted to find a new way to get money.
She claims with ko-fi that she chose five dollars which would have been about £3.49 but when she saw the pounds button she pressed that thinking it would be £3.49 but it just went from five dollars to five pounds.
What she hasn't told people is that she chose gold membership which is the most expensive, clearly she could have chosen lower or had three different price structures to give people an option depending on their budget.
I'm pretty sure that Jo could have just cancelled the whole set up and then started again if she truly wanted to but obviously she didn't, she knew exactly what she was doing but as usual has lied to everyone to make out it was all a mistake that she couldn't change.
 
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When discussing girl cat and not having insurance for her she said on at least one video she's never had it in all her years etc.
Trying to remember which one it was.
I'm all for people choosing whether to have it or not but don't expect to have folk bail you out!
Even more so when a new lorry then arrived a few weeks later......

I think it was when she was saying her chickens or ducks all die young, she had a poorly one in her caravan over night, ppl started replying their birds lived upwards of 10+ yrs.

I will say her decision to let Nathan loan Jonboy was the best decision I've seen her do. It's been the absolute making of him.
Some animals you can’t get insurance for, all mine that I can get insurance for have it. When I had horses, dogs and cats they were all insured (thankfully I never needed to use it) her excuse for not having it is because it’s too expensive to have all them insured. Well if you can’t afford animals don’t have them. Don’t get me started on the birds, I have birds and whilst sometimes adults and chicks do just die for no apparent reason, hers died because of her lack of knowledge, experience and care. She’s clueless and it really shows on the birds, so many birds have unnecessarily suffered in her care because of her just like neras most litter pup did. Honestly I pray she sells JB to Nathan, the bond they have is incredible, JB has thrived and is the happiest he’s been, Nathan dotes in and utterly adores JB. They are the perfect match them two
 
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Some animals you can’t get insurance for, all mine that I can get insurance for have it. When I had horses, dogs and cats they were all insured (thankfully I never needed to use it) her excuse for not having it is because it’s too expensive to have all them insured. Well if you can’t afford animals don’t have them. Don’t get me started on the birds, I have birds and whilst sometimes adults and chicks do just die for no apparent reason, hers died because of her lack of knowledge, experience and care. She’s clueless and it really shows on the birds, so many birds have unnecessarily suffered in her care because of her just like neras most litter pup did. Honestly I pray she sells JB to Nathan, the bond they have is incredible, JB has thrived and is the happiest he’s been, Nathan dotes in and utterly adores JB. They are the perfect match them two
All the silkies drowned because she refused to listen to advice, Indy got in and killed at least two chickens/ducks, she had two or three chickens that were sick but she never got vet advice and claimed they died from old age and then she has lost at least two to foxes and I think one duck escaped out a gap in the fence and was never seen again

Am I being dim? Her current reasoning for the Ko-fi price increase is because she set it at the wrong price due to conversion mistake ....

So I've just made myself a page, at the support section and I can amend the price easy. Literally type in a new number and it's saved at that.
I'm sure I'm not mixing up the supporters bit and the membership bit. But can you look at see if I have?
It just seems so bizarre that you can't amend things as important as how much it will cost your supporters 😱🤯

I read more of the FAQ page and she could upgrade everyone from supporter to a membership tier, with set prices, so say she has done and its cost £5.
Just make a new tier ..... At 99p so everyone gets identical content for identical price.
Like I said earlier id hold my hands up and say I messed up, start again.

Ultimately none of this would be happening had she not ducked up often on FB. As I say in not in the support group so I see limited videos.
But reading on here I'm gob-smacked she's not had trouble a lot sooner. She's incredibly flippant about safety and as for hounding a person who spoke out. That's bleeping wicked. Who does that! ESP someone who cries MH and BeKind on a weekly basis.

She strikes me as someone who gets bored v easily so buys themselves new and exciting things, only in her case they are animals. ☹ The novelty wears off quickly and then she's on to the next thing.

Dyson was for L, then the foals were, now Bella's foal is for L. How does she think she's going to break in 3 ponies, what if something goes wrong with Bella, she has said time and again she doesn't believe in pet insurance. Will she beg for £££ when it happens.

I enjoyed when she did things with him as a baby, the hand printing ppl sent her to do, pretty basic things to do with him. She comes across as not overly maternal, not everyone is.
Maybe she shows more on the supporters group, things like sitting with him and colouring, teaching him words, counting, painting, messy play and such like.
Yes he gets fresh air and the freedom to run about, but that's about it, from what I see.

I was a single mum, after a v nasty abusive relationship. No idea why she bangs on about it so much. Many parents are doing it alone with no support. It's not a competition.
Donation is different to membership.
You have to be a full paying member to see all the posts, you can pay a 30 day membership but again its £5 minimum, some people have actually chosen to pay her more than £5
 
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If she can’t afford pet insurance then how on earth would she be able to afford vet fees which would cost a lot more than insurance?

Unless you’ve got a big pot of money set aside for any potential vet fees then not taking out insurance is a stupid decision imo. Vet fees can be eye watering. I bet she’s the kind of person who would go on holiday abroad without insurance as well, horrifying.

One of my neighbours has rescue chickens and they’ve had them for years. You can tell just by looking at them that they are really well looked after, happy and healthy birds, unlike Jo’s.
 
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All the silkies drowned because she refused to listen to advice, Indy got in and killed at least two chickens/ducks, she had two or three chickens that were sick but she never got vet advice and claimed they died from old age and then she has lost at least two to foxes and I think one duck escaped out a gap in the fence and was never seen again


Donation is different to membership.
You have to be a full paying member to see all the posts, you can pay a 30 day membership but again its £5 minimum, some people have actually chosen to pay her more than £5
I’m sure a couple silkies didn’t drown and just died, the chickens she claimed to of died from old age, were not old chickens. She shouldn’t have birds, she’s incapable of looking after them properly. Sorry but if I had less than the amount of birds shes had die on me, I wouldn’t own them. I’d sell the remaining and be done with it. Oh no not jo, missy adds more to suffer from her neglecting them and lacking the knowledge to know anything

If she can’t afford pet insurance then how on earth would she be able to afford vet fees which would cost a lot more than insurance?

Unless you’ve got a big pot of money set aside for any potential vet fees then not taking out insurance is a stupid decision imo. Vet fees can be eye watering. I bet she’s the kind of person who would go on holiday abroad without insurance as well, horrifying.

One of my neighbours has rescue chickens and they’ve had them for years. You can tell just by looking at them that they are really well looked after, happy and healthy birds, unlike Jo’s.
Jo doesn’t have pet insurance because she said it’s too expensive to insure them all and she can’t afford it, plus she knows all her supporters will fork out for her vet bills anyway
 
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Am I being dim? Her current reasoning for the Ko-fi price increase is because she set it at the wrong price due to conversion mistake ....

So I've just made myself a page, at the support section and I can amend the price easy. Literally type in a new number and it's saved at that.
I'm sure I'm not mixing up the supporters bit and the membership bit. But can you look at see if I have?
It just seems so bizarre that you can't amend things as important as how much it will cost your supporters 😱🤯

I read more of the FAQ page and she could upgrade everyone from supporter to a membership tier, with set prices, so say she has done and its cost £5.
Just make a new tier ..... At 99p so everyone gets identical content for identical price.
Like I said earlier id hold my hands up and say I messed up, start again.

Ultimately none of this would be happening had she not ducked up often on FB. As I say in not in the support group so I see limited videos.
But reading on here I'm gob-smacked she's not had trouble a lot sooner. She's incredibly flippant about safety and as for hounding a person who spoke out. That's bleeping wicked. Who does that! ESP someone who cries MH and BeKind on a weekly basis.

She strikes me as someone who gets bored v easily so buys themselves new and exciting things, only in her case they are animals. ☹ The novelty wears off quickly and then she's on to the next thing.

Dyson was for L, then the foals were, now Bella's foal is for L. How does she think she's going to break in 3 ponies, what if something goes wrong with Bella, she has said time and again she doesn't believe in pet insurance. Will she beg for £££ when it happens.

I enjoyed when she did things with him as a baby, the hand printing ppl sent her to do, pretty basic things to do with him. She comes across as not overly maternal, not everyone is.
Maybe she shows more on the supporters group, things like sitting with him and colouring, teaching him words, counting, painting, messy play and such like.
Yes he gets fresh air and the freedom to run about, but that's about it, from what I see.

I was a single mum, after a v nasty abusive relationship. No idea why she bangs on about it so much. Many parents are doing it alone with no support. It's not a competition.
I lost my mare and foal in labour worst thing ever, you’d be suprised how many things go wrong, still she’s almost a vet lol,it’ll be fine, should’ve had her to my mare she’s have been better than my vet eh 🙄
 
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I lost my mare and foal in labour worst thing ever, you’d be suprised how many things go wrong, still she’s almost a vet lol,it’ll be fine, should’ve had her to my mare she’s have been better than my vet eh 🙄
Absolutely, 1000 things can go wrong in pregnancy, labour and after… she’s that much of a knowledgeable person she gave her mare in foal the wrong supplement that’s not to be given to a mare in foal and then she wrote a crappy post saying she knows what she’s doing 🙃 she shouldn’t be allowed her animals or breed herself!
 
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She shouldn’t breed full stop lol, what did she say, you don’t breed from crap lol, does that include her 🙈
 
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She shouldn’t breed full stop lol, what did she say, you don’t breed from crap lol, does that include her 🙈
But she bred from crap anyway including herself. I find it strange how she went from I want a baby and I want it now, I’m going to a sperm bank for months and months and then went, oh I’m not anywhere ready for another ready, I’m not getting pregnant for a good couple years.
im honestly not surprised Adrian left, not surprised she’s single and no man wants her. I’m not perfect and I’m definitely no oil painting but I’m a half nice and decent person, parent and animal parent. I also don’t beg people to pay for my child, animals, vet Bills or lifestyle and choices
 
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Everything she does is only half done right and that I struggle with. When I had my dogs, their needs came first, insurance was paid so I could give them the best veterinary care required. Her head just seems to flit from one thing to another and most things remain uncomplete/unfinished.
 
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But she bred from crap anyway including herself. I find it strange how she went from I want a baby and I want it now, I’m going to a sperm bank for months and months and then went, oh I’m not anywhere ready for another ready, I’m not getting pregnant for a good couple years.
im honestly not surprised Adrian left, not surprised she’s single and no man wants her. I’m not perfect and I’m definitely no oil painting but I’m a half nice and decent person, parent and animal parent. I also don’t beg people to pay for my child, animals, vet Bills or lifestyle and choices
Only a few weeks ago she said she wanted to be pregnant by the end of next year
 
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All the silkies drowned because she refused to listen to advice, Indy got in and killed at least two chickens/ducks, she had two or three chickens that were sick but she never got vet advice and claimed they died from old age and then she has lost at least two to foxes and I think one duck escaped out a gap in the fence and was never seen again
the duck that got burnt on the fire she had and she spoke about pulling off half of its face that had scabbed over and behind the eye being full of maggots was bleeping horrific! Apparently her 'vet' who she rang advised her to pull the dead skin away because we all know she doesnt bother with a proper vet visit, had she taken the duck when it first got injured it probably wouldnt have suffered for days on end and had half its face eaten away by maggots. 🤢 She said her friend came over to put it out of its misery but stutters on the video as shes talking about it and corrects herself, she probably dispatched the poor fucker herself i cant see her being squeamish at all when it comes to things like that!

If she was so bothered about changing the price of kofi like she claims then she could have deleted the first one and made another its not like she'd got loads of content or followers on there, she set it to the highest price on purpose and knew some of the barmy army would follow her where ever she went no matter what price it was. She's going all in plugging it every few hours.. how bleeping desperate can you be 😂 she knows fb days are numbered cos shes losing her tit with supporters who dare to say kofi is too expensive i hope the link to this thread gets plastered all over the main page.. ought to set up a couple of burner fb accounts would be worth it to expose her to more people and just to duck her off 😂
 
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the duck that got burnt on the fire she had and she spoke about pulling off half of its face that had scabbed over and behind the eye being full of maggots was bleeping horrific! Apparently her 'vet' who she rang advised her to pull the dead skin away because we all know she doesnt bother with a proper vet visit, had she taken the duck when it first got injured it probably wouldnt have suffered for days on end and had half its face eaten away by maggots. 🤢 She said her friend came over to put it out of its misery but stutters on the video as shes talking about it and corrects herself, she probably dispatched the poor fucker herself i cant see her being squeamish at all when it comes to things like that!

If she was so bothered about changing the price of kofi like she claims then she could have deleted the first one and made another its not like she'd got loads of content or followers on there, she set it to the highest price on purpose and knew some of the barmy army would follow her where ever she went no matter what price it was. She's going all in plugging it every few hours.. how bleeping desperate can you be 😂 she knows fb days are numbered cos shes losing her tit with supporters who dare to say kofi is too expensive i hope the link to this thread gets plastered all over the main page.. ought to set up a couple of burner fb accounts would be worth it to expose her to more people and just to duck her off 😂
I forgot about the burnt Goose, poor thing, left to suffer for days, cruel witch.
Definitely need to get this thread out there, share the link anywhere you can, don't need to own up to being on here just say you were sent the link, the more that see it the better, nvf needs to go down as soon as possible
 
Only a few weeks ago she said she wanted to be pregnant by the end of next year
This is what I mean. How can you bleat on for months and months how you want a baby and want it practically now, to I’m not anywhere ready for a baby and won’t be having one anytime soon. Makes no sense

the duck that got burnt on the fire she had and she spoke about pulling off half of its face that had scabbed over and behind the eye being full of maggots was bleeping horrific! Apparently her 'vet' who she rang advised her to pull the dead skin away because we all know she doesnt bother with a proper vet visit, had she taken the duck when it first got injured it probably wouldnt have suffered for days on end and had half its face eaten away by maggots. 🤢 She said her friend came over to put it out of its misery but stutters on the video as shes talking about it and corrects herself, she probably dispatched the poor fucker herself i cant see her being squeamish at all when it comes to things like that!

If she was so bothered about changing the price of kofi like she claims then she could have deleted the first one and made another its not like she'd got loads of content or followers on there, she set it to the highest price on purpose and knew some of the barmy army would follow her where ever she went no matter what price it was. She's going all in plugging it every few hours.. how bleeping desperate can you be 😂 she knows fb days are numbered cos shes losing her tit with supporters who dare to say kofi is too expensive i hope the link to this thread gets plastered all over the main page.. ought to set up a couple of burner fb accounts would be worth it to expose her to more people and just to duck her off 😂
That was a goose that happened to not a duck. Honestly she’s horrific and should be banned from keeping animals
 
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WOW!! be kind or be quiet? is no-one allowed an opinion anymore? someone is losing grip....
Yes didn’t you know, you must be kind and you must be kind to jo. Didn’t you know, jo can preach be kind but is never kind herself unless she’s getting something from you. I think before preaching anything especially things like “be kind”, she needs to practise it herself and be kind to other people instead of speaking to her “friends” like tit, slagging people off, starting witch hunts and enabling bullying behaviour. If I spoke to people who supported me the way she spoke to her supporters last night about kofi (none of the comments on her plugging kofi warranted that post, 1 of her supporters only said, I’d rather support on fb than kofi and her comment was removed) my mum would honestly go nuts and probably give me a good slap. She has no respect for anyone, she shouldn’t be preaching be kind when she’s anything but kind herself
 
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WTAF re the goose 😱🤬 god I'm glad I don't see these type of her posts. That's shocking, can you imagine what goes on that she seems too awful to post if she posts things like that 😭💔

I feel sick.

I went back looking for her insurance post, a lot of videos have been deleted back in Spring, I got my wires crossed over the lorry and girl cat, I thought girl cat injury was first. Apologies for that bit.

I did however watch the video "my wonky donkey" in which the farrier or vet (can't recall which now) discusses with her Bella's strange stride. He tells her that she won't come to much competing wise and she agrees that she will just be a pet and never bred from " as you don't breed from crap" yet a few short months later and she's pregnant......

I don't understand her logic and reasoning behind most things but this especially. She bred Hugo and gave up with him, Jack and JB was were left to graze and shock horror got up to mischief. I assume horses are similar to dog in that without a job or avenue for stimulation they grow bored and act out.

I'm glad my gut feeling was right tho, just didn't realise quite what else has gone on that .
 
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WTAF re the goose 😱🤬 god I'm glad I don't see these type of her posts. That's shocking, can you imagine what goes on that she seems too awful to post if she posts things like that 😭💔

I feel sick.

I went back looking for her insurance post, a lot of videos have been deleted back in Spring, I got my wires crossed over the lorry and girl cat, I thought girl cat injury was first. Apologies for that bit.

I did however watch the video "my wonky donkey" in which the farrier or vet (can't recall which now) discusses with her Bella's strange stride. He tells her that she won't come to much competing wise and she agrees that she will just be a pet and never bred from " as you don't breed from crap" yet a few short months later and she's pregnant......

I don't understand her logic and reasoning behind most things but this especially. She bred Hugo and gave up with him, Jack and JB was were left to graze and shock horror got up to mischief. I assume horses are similar to dog in that without a job or avenue for stimulation they grow bored and act out.

I'm glad my gut feeling was right tho, just didn't realise quite what else has gone on that .
She had both a vet and farrier tell her not to breed from Bella. Some horses without a job do get bored and play up like Jon boy and rufus did. Others don’t, none of my horses played up when they were out of work (mainly in winter as by the time I finished work it was pitch black, and first thing in the morning it was pitch black!) they only got ridden on my day off during winter (weather permitting). So it depends on the horse whether they need to be in constant work or not
 
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