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Doc

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I’m sure you guessed that she meant *born* a woman 🙄
Now, now. Let’s not stop the virtue signalling semantics, because why converse when you can condescend for not being so demonstrably broad minded and accepting.
 
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Doc

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Judging her for this is disgusting tbh - trans people are murdered by men who feel like they've been tricked every day she didn't tell him to protect herself and also because if he had been angry about it he could have outed her against her wishes
He loves her and it shouldn't matter if shes trans or not
Obviously you want your partner to be totally honest but I think it's understandable why she wouldn't tell him straight away
don’t agree that it’s disgusting - if you want to enter a *long term relationship* you have to do so from a position of openness, especially when the truth of the situation could impact future plans for children etc. It’s robbing your partner from power to make a decision that has an impact on their life.
 
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nobrains

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I thought she might have been trans, first time I became aware of her was on the bbc makeup artist competition and I thought it immediately. It's sad that her hand was forced by a coward.
 
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IrishGryffindor

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So amazing. What a gorgeous lady she is.
Still think it's odd her fiance didn't know about it for ages? But apart from a cousin and patients I work with I can't ever understand what a trans person goes through so each to their own ! I'm so glad he at least accepted it and is fine with it but she has been a woman her whole life. Transition being completed by 19 is amazing fair play to her family and I know Dutch hospitals are amazing!!
 
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bellbells16

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It’s crazy that she’s so well known and it never came out before. Awful that someone forced her hand now.
 
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IrishGryffindor

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I think her fiance did know, they've been together for years. She did say she wished she told him sooner, but what I understood she told him after a few months of dating.
No they only met in 2018 right ?? Her ex who cheated on her all that drama was in 2018 or 17 !

She's been a woman her whole life and I'm not trans so can't judge her for any of this but it sounded like she only told him very recently. I don't get why she included it in the video though!
 
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erin182

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I think I discovered Nikki about 3 years ago but don’t really watch anymore as I find her content quite dull now. I remember wondering at the time if she was trans and had a google to try and find out. Obviously there was nothing about it online at that time so just assumed she mustn’t be as that info would surely be out there! I’m surprised she’s managed to keep it quiet for such a long time given that a lot of people from her past would know.. I’m surprised there were never any rumours floating around online.
 
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Yel

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It's not very tattle but I really can't pass judgement either way.

I've no idea how hard it must be to be trans. Her money and fame must make it both more difficult and easier at the same time 😐
 
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bubbletea123

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Am I the only one who's not remotely surprised? I've suspected she was trans for ages. Not that it matters one iota, she's fab and being blackmailed is just dreadful. I'm reading a lot of positive comments for her today, I hope this is a comfort for her.
So I have seen her around but didn't watch her videos and knew nothing of her... When I saw her especially without makeup, and sometimes with, I thought she looked more masculine. I thought she might be trans but wasn't aware she hadn't even said anything as I didn't keep up with her.
 
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Eileen_2019

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don’t agree that it’s disgusting - if you want to enter a *long term relationship* you have to do so from a position of openness, especially when the truth of the situation could impact future plans for children etc. It’s robbing your partner from power to make a decision that has an impact on their life.
I agree, but when do you tell? At the first date? Before the first kiss? Or do you wait until things get a bit more serious?
Again, Nikkie herself said that she wished she had told him sooner, but he does know and is fine with it.
 
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FaLaLaLaNahLer

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We don't know the ins and outs of her private life as she keeps it private.

But what she said is she wishes she had told him sooner, didn't say when she told him. Could have been on the second date for all we know.
Being that she said “they’re working through it” tells us that she didn’t tell him early enough. Early on in a trans relationship should always mean upon meeting, but we know that the world doesn’t work that way. (Just as ppl don’t disclose kids, etc).

I agree, but when do you tell? At the first date? Before the first kiss? Or do you wait until things get a bit more serious?
Again, Nikkie herself said that she wished she had told him sooner, but he does know and is fine with it.
She didn’t sound confident about that. I speculate that one of his friends or family members was going to out her. Sounds like something a vindictive ex would do as well. I think she’ll sort of out that person. She has always stayed out of drama, which was great. Time will tell if it was due to her fear of being outed. When Jeffree Star used to post snaps of him laughing about knowing certain things about the beauty community, it also makes one wonder if he was eluding to her secret. Makes sense that he was so upset for her not making enough from TooFaced. Being that she’s trans, they maybe would’ve paid her more. Sex sells. Drama sells. Shrug. I realize it’s all speculation & just sharing my thoughts. I won’t be following her, so none of this really matters. lol
 
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Twinkle485

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I genuinely thought she was a women. There was a girl at my school who looked exactly like her 😳. SO so shocked. She doesn’t even have an Adam’s apple 😳. She’s so beautiful 😍. Good on her for coming out though I never would of known otherwise.
 
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Eileen_2019

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Just read her Twitter post. That just awful ! Hope they're OK and that they find the bastard(s) who did this.
 
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Eileen_2019

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Sorry but the fact that she was seemingly in a serious, long term relationship with this guy before telling him is foul
As others have said, in her video she said she wished she had told him sooner, but that does not mean she waited until just before making the video to tell him.
 
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mummy2under2

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Loved her most recent video and how even after what the blackmailer did, she's thinking about how outting them will affect their family/friends etc.
Says a lot about her as a person and I think how she's carried herself is fucking fabulous and a credit to how she was brought up.
 
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Spencerskates

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When I saw the title I assumed she was bi, I’m so shocked! But so disgusted that people would use that as blackmail.
 
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SareBear

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OMG! Would never have even crossed my mind! She’s amazing! I really like her and admire her doing this video!
On another note, how majorly different does she actually look now compared to her first lot of videos. She literally looks like a different person!!
 
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