She’s as fake and disengenuois as they come, I don’t think she realises herself how bad she is.
I think “influencing” is horrendous. It isn’t being influential, it’s usually being misleading. At worst, manipulating people into buying products. Calling someone an “Influencer” is like polishing a curd.
Nelly for me, is among the worst out there. Not because of the stuff she puts out, but because she’s so careful to cultivate an image of herself as being the relatable girl who is just your friend. The way she addresses her followers, calls them angels etc. Is all part of the charade. Whether it’s intentional or not.
but in reality, if there was any respect or “friendliness” there - she wouldn’t outright lie. Lie about her name. Lie about not needing shavers for brand A then miraculously needing to shave again when Brand B comes along with some razors to shill.
the sad thing is, whatever charity she worked for before - was probably contributing a lot more to society than what she’s doing now.
my advice to Nelly/Helena if she ever reads;
• find a job you’re actually passionate about. Receiving freebies and getting paid to post pictures might be fun and thrilling but it isn’t a passion.
• invest In friendships. I wonder if Nellys lack of friendships and close friends contributes to her relying on her insta-audience too much.
• re-evaluate your weird AF relationship. There is something so off about the whole thing. Separate bedrooms in your 20s? That creepy highly sexed charade you put on for the camera? Most people see through it.
• realise your body (whether you feel positive or negative about it) is changeable and only one part of a person, you don’t need to place so much emphasis on your body. It isn’t healthy, no matter how much you tell yourself it is. You aren’t respecting or being “positive” about your body by plastering nudes over insta. You are looking for validation. And that is just as unhealthy IMO as being negative about your body and investing in diet culture. Why not talk about your academic/work achievements? Personal achievements? Why does it all have to come back to your boobs?
• You come across as a very lost person desperately pretending they aren’t. That’s sad in and of itself. But it makes me uncomfortable to see someone pretend otherwise to a fairly large Instagram audience, some of whom will take you at face value. Many of whom will be vulnerable/young/naive etc.