Exactly! I have 4 children, my daughter is autistic, my husband works and I don't ask anyone to look after my children for me. My husband was in hospital for a week just before Christmas, I didn't ask a single member of family for help, because they are my children and I love spending time with them. Yes being mum to an autistic child has challenges, but she needs to stop thinking how it affects her and maybe think about how it is effecting her son. My autistic daughter would hate having a camera shoved in her face all the time. There's alot of things about her which make me feel sorry for her, but actually seeing how she rolled her eyes at her own child last night, that just made me feel so sorry for her children. I don't know anyone who is more self obsessed