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This is either one of you lot or the aunt from that other thread 😂
Tbf there’s a lot of us out there need that extra nudge to go from putting on gym clothes to climbing aboard a machine. If she justifies it by going via the chip shop who are we to judge?
 
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I’m sorry that I didn’t share this wonderful advert in time to save any of your greedy vanity-sized roly-poly children from guzzling the local Asda clean out of chocolate upfs, but maybe an idea for next Easter x
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Unmasked 3 more MNetters in my office. Someone asked a question on group chat. 3 of them popped up to say it doesnt affect me at all so I cant answer that.
I knew 2 were wrong uns but am disappointed in the 3rd one so I can no longer speak to her.
 
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I get everyone loses their tit sometimes and it must be so hard being a single parent, but screaming at your 4 year old repeatedly that you hate him seems so cruel. Of course they are all telling OP it's fine and they've all done the same and that the child probably deserved it. Yet if it was a dad they would all be saying he's abusive and the child isn't safe
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What an awful woman. Is she getting lots of virtual hugs and backslaps? 🤢 Has it been deleted? I can’t find it
 
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That "I hate you" post is horrible 😫 I mean, being pragmatic, childhood caregiver based trauma/ACEs are borne more out of how it's handled after/how often it happens, so if it's genuinely a one-off and she genuinely was very sorry and expressed it and apologised and lots of hugs and it never happens again then OK terrible terrible terrible but lesson learned and it's not going to scar kiddo for life (probably) if the vast majority of their caregiver experience is love and kindness not aggression. The fact that it went to that reaction and not just "oh for ducks sake" or an aggressive "stop it" points to very very overactivated and stressed mum. She should probably seek some sort of input immediately though, because I suspect it's not the whole story, I hope someone gives her that brutal honesty.
 
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Is "four in a couple of months" supposed to distract from the fact she is verbally abusive to a three year old 🙄 my mum used to behave like this. No way is it a one off.
 
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I suppose if you are a rich Mumsnet's user, you don't need the NHS as you are so rich, you can just pay for private healthcare. Therefore you can claim doctors are lazy and entitled for asking for a living wage as much as you like.
 
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Tbf there’s a lot of us out there need that extra nudge to go from putting on gym clothes to climbing aboard a machine. If she justifies it by going via the chip shop who are we to judge?
I wonder if she goes there just to literally burn enough calories to be able to eat the chips 😂
 
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I suppose if you are a rich Mumsnet's user, you don't need the NHS as you are so rich, you can just pay for private healthcare. Therefore you can claim doctors are lazy and entitled for asking for a living wage as much as you like.
Are these the same Mumsnetters who are crying because they are struggling to survive on a £100k + salary, and how much better off they would be on universal credit?
 
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Are these the same Mumsnetters who are crying because they are struggling to survive on a £100k + salary, and how much better off they would be on universal credit?
Thats the ones. The ones who think 20k is a minimum amount of savings one should have.
 
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Is Shithole back?

The DIL said Im a pathetic excuse for a mother thread?

If it is her Im convinced shes enjoying every moment. The thread is growing by pages its hard to keep up.

One of us must be on there as she was asked if she had a snake🤣
 
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Is Shithole back?

The DIL said Im a pathetic excuse for a mother thread?

If it is her Im convinced shes enjoying every moment. The thread is growing by pages its hard to keep up.

One of us must be on there as she was asked if she had a snake🤣
It definitely has shithole vibes but the spelling and grammar is far too good:LOL:
 
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Now, this thread title may look very boring and inconspicuous but it's actually great. I sense it will be deleted soon at the OPs request because she's made a complete tit of herself. She completely misunderstood what was being said, and then continued to argue with everyone that pointed that out to her. Surely common sense would tell you that if you're declaring mileage after doing your every day tasks and commuting then you'd be declaring no mileage at all which clearly can't be right? But no, OP is convinced that that's what it means and is merrily telling everyone else to do the same
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Re: the “I hate you” thread. That’s literally why this meme was born. Ben had had e-bleeping-nough and slipped out the door for a fag rather than blowing his top.
 
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Now, this thread title may look very boring and inconspicuous but it's actually great. I sense it will be deleted soon at the OPs request because she's made a complete tit of herself. She completely misunderstood what was being said, and then continued to argue with everyone that pointed that out to her. Surely common sense would tell you that if you're declaring mileage after doing your every day tasks and commuting then you'd be declaring no mileage at all which clearly can't be right? But no, OP is convinced that that's what it means and is merrily telling everyone else to do the same
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If you take off work, shopping and visiting family and friends some people would have zero milage 😂
 
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