Christ I forgot all about Butler in the Buff. Is it still a thing? So many awful hen do memories. Such a weird and awkward idea.AIBU to think my friends are awful. I'm having a 10 day hen party in Spain and they're all refusing to fly over for 10 days and stay in a villa. I've booked a stripper, a pottery class, a VIP table at a club and a butler in the buff which they're all refusing to pay for. Shall I just go NC or tell them how their behaviour has made me feel?