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orangehead

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I know a fantastic nurse who is a size 28 (UK) at just under 5ft 5. She has A LOT of health conditions, she literally collects a carrier bag at the pharmacy once a week while everyone else walks out with a little paper bag and rather than one of those ‘days of the week’ pill boxes she has to use a huge plastic box usually used to sort nails/screws etc.

Those medications cause her to find it hard to lose weight and make her hungrier than usual. Her health conditions make it hard for her to exercise.

She became a nurse as she spent her whole childhood dealing with some of those health conditions and has so much understanding and empathy for other people who are the same. She also developed some as a teenager and as a new mum meaning she has experience that comes across when dealing with patients who might be experiencing the same.

She is a lovely, kind, helpful woman who raised her children to be the same, dedicated her life to the nhs and would never be so judgemental.

People who think being thin makes them a good/better person than a fat person are very wrong. And not everyone can be thin. If it was so easy why wouldn’t everyone just be thin and therefore not have to deal with nasty/judgemental people, not being able to find clothes, being uncomfortable, the health problems and whatever else.
 
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bread-pitt

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My husband was SO excited he told everyone as soon as we knew. It was nice to have the support when I lost it a couple of weeks later…
I felt the same way. I’ve never had a successful pregnancy but I always was so exited each and every time that I told everyone. They shared in the joy and in the sorrow, every time.
Now I’m elderly (think between 49 and 51, but don’t want to reveal my age as it is very outing), I’ve come to acceptance that it’ll never happen and people are very understanding and supportive exactly because they went through it all with me over the last 25 years.
 
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50degreesnorth

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Wish me luck today gang. I’ve decided enough is enough and I’m no longer going to claim UC, I’m just going to get a better paid job. I’m going to submit my application for consultant cardiologist this morning. Finger’s crossed! 🤞
 
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Don't tag me, there's a support forum!
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All, best not to give codes to anyone on Mumsnet.

There's many very willing to play the long game for weeks to sing directly to the audience here in order to be given a code when they were rightfully banned for refusing to listen to many warnings and insisted on being disruptive.

Best not to make very troll heavy site Mumsnet a backdoor for people wanting to get back in here to cause trouble. Thank you!
 
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sistersofpercy

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Yeah it’s horrible. I hate it when they say something like “but he’s not your FiLs family” about a child who’s been in a step family for most of their lives.
My DS was nine months when I met DH. His family were brilliant. I have a tolerant relationship with MiL but one thing I can’t fault her for is her love of DS.
Because he called MIL and FIL by their first names, when our first child together was born they were insistent they also call them by their names and not grandma and grandpa etc. looking back that was quite a sweet thing to do really.
None of them have ever treated the kids differently. She’s wound me up massively over the years but that’s one thing I have utter admiration for.
 
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TheMiceInTheShed

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To be size Japan, you need to be brainwashed from school

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Obesity costs the NHS and the UK taxpayer millions

Maintaining my obesity is costing me* a pretty penny as well, if it's any consolation. Magnum multipacks don't grow on trees, you know.

*I also come under the heading "UK taxpayer", so I'm paying twice.

Edit to point out that I pay taxes but still have to buy my own Magnums food., otherwise I wouldn't be so fat. This isn't fair. Poors get their overweight on the state.
 
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I genuinely don’t understand this “diagram” obsession, are they really incapable of imagining what a car parked on someone’s driveway looks like?
That is my proud Mumsnet legacy. I wasn’t a member long but it was me who started that. Someone posted with a parking issue and I was first to reply. Taking the piss, I told them the rule was parking threads must have an accompanying diagram. They apologised and then posted one. It stuck 🤣… that would have been well over 10 years ago!
 
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underwhelmed1985

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Today I’ve done something that would make mumsnetters lynch me. I’ve two kids and with the weather like this the pressure to make the bastard memories is real. But I really fancied a day where I acted like I was on holiday and that’s exactly what I did. I put the paddle pool up but I let the kids do what they wanted; tv, pads, switch….crack on. I sunbathed, ate crisps, drank beer and ordered in fast food. I read a whole book.

I’ve just come inside with that slightly stingy skin feeling, smelling like suncream with a nice beer buzz. Honest to god, it was AMAZING
 
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Affiliatemebaby

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OMG. What is she doing to her? My mother never stopped banging on about my weight all my childhood, diets, clubs etc, and I grew up with zero self confidence about myself - and still fat. My daughter is overweight, partly because she has autism and can’t regulate her appetite very well, but I have never said a word to her about it and I tell her all the time how beautiful she is, because she really is. Apart from anything else, despite what the MN hordes say, being a bit overweight is not the worst thing in the world.
 
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TheMiceInTheShed

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The receptionist thinking I'm 10 years younger thread has turned into a right laugh with posters taking the piss and the young looking people getting very irate.

We've got to take their word for it though as none of em has posted a pic for proof.
Well - I feel their pain.

I'm 70, but have often been mistaken for 69 and a 1/2 in the right light . . .

<preens>

<Tosses hair girlishly. Teeth fly out.>
 
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Wackie Jeaver

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It's my birthday. I had a pepperoni pizza and a packet of cheesy wotsits for lunch. Mr J is cooking me asparagus with hollandaise sauce followed by rib eye steak and onion rings in a little while. I am also drinking copious amounts of red wine. I think all my food groups are covered there...
 
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TheMiceInTheShed

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Funnily enough boots is discussing thongs and health
Is your thong causing more harm than good? Let’s find out if wearing a thong is your thing
Are you a thong devotee? We totally get why! Thongs are lightweight, they look great and they work wonders for avoiding a visible panty line (VPL) compared to bigger underwear styles like briefs or shorts.

But with their skimpier design, thongs have a reputation for being bad for your intimate health. So, it’s time to do some myth-busting and get to the bottom line of whether there are or aren’t any health risks that come with wearing your favourite style of underwear…

Thongs… friend or foe?

Whilst the thin strip of fabric on a thong may be sleek and discreet, some people think that these can lead to an increased risk of conditions like thrush, bacterial vaginosis (BV) and urinary tract infections (UTIs) like cystitis.

Contrary to popular belief, there’s no concrete evidence to suggest that wearing thongs is actually bad for your vulva and your health. A study from 2005* looked directly at string underwear and found that it doesn’t mess with the pH balance and the microclimate down there or even the friendly bacteria found on your skin. So, any worries about thongs causing chaos? Myth!

Another study from 2018** decided to tackle the question we’ve all wanted the answer to: do thongs lead to UTIs, BV or vaginal thrush? The study found no evidence to back up the idea that thongs can cause these issues, so that’s another myth debunked!

The key to comfort in underwear lies in selecting the right materials and practicing good hygiene habits. If you’re a thong enthusiast, don’t worry, you can strut your stuff without worry. Choosing the right underwear and caring for them can make all the difference.

Here are seven things to keep in mind when wearing a thong or any type of underwear.

Choose cotton

When it comes to underwear fabrics, cotton is queen. Cotton allows our skin to breathe, whereas manmade fibres don’t allow that. So, remember to stock up on cotton essentials to help keep a happy and healthy downstairs.

On the flip side, steer clear of synthetic materials like nylon. These fabrics trap moisture, creating a breeding ground for bacteria and increasing the likelihood of infections. Choose natural fibres when you can to keep things cool and comfortable.

Stay fresh

Just like you wouldn’t wear yesterday’s socks, the same goes for your underwear. Make it a habit to change into fresh pairs every day to maintain optimal hygiene and freshness. Your vulva will thank you.

Wash with care

When it’s laundry day, reach for a hypoallergenic soap. These are gentle yet effective and can clean your delicates, without causing any unwanted irritation. Treat your underwear with the same TLC you give to the rest of your wardrobe.

Go commando

Give your vulva some well-deserved freedom by going commando when you can. Letting your skin breathe while you catch those Zs can help prevent the build-up of moisture and keep things fresh 'til the morning. A loose pair of pyjama bottoms or a dress can allow some air flow.

Fit is everything

Remember, fit is everything when it comes to underwear. Avoid overly tight styles that can restrict airflow and cause discomfort. Instead, choose snug yet breathable options that move with your body.

Choosing underwear for workouts

When breaking a sweat, choose moisture-wicking fabrics like polyester to keep you dry and comfortable during your workouts. Look out for seamless styles to minimise chafing and irritation, allowing you to focus on crushing those fitness goals.

Replace every year (if you can afford to)

If it’s within your budget, don’t forget to refresh your underwear annually. Over time, elastic can lose its stretch and fabrics can lose their quality, compromising both comfort and hygiene. Treat yourself to some new underwear every year for a wardrobe refresh. Your down there deserves some self-care too.

So, there you have it, the truth behind thongs. With a few simple tips, you can wear your thongs with confidence, knowing you’re taking care of your intimate health along the way. Say goodbye to myths and hello to comfort, because when it comes to thongs, it’s all about finding the perfect balance between style and wellbeing.

*Runeman B, Rybo G, Forsgren-Brusk U, Larkö O, Larsson P, Faergemann J. The vulvar skin microenvironment: impact of tight-fitting underwear on microclimate, pH and microflora. Acta Derm Venereol. 2005;85(2):118-22

**Hamlin, Alyssa MD; Sheeder, Jeanelle MD; Muffly, Tyler MD. Brief vs Thong Hygiene in Obstetrics and Gynecology (B-THONG): A Survey Study [1J]. Obstetrics & Gynecology 131():p 108S, May 2018
If it’s within your budget, don’t forget to refresh your underwear annually.

<Hides sagging knickers which have graced the underwear drawer for about two decades>
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A friend is married to a (now retired) consultant paediatrician. He's always a bit worried about being called on at an emergency though he's really well informed on nappy rash.
I was a Speech and Language Therapist.

My secret dream was to go to the theatre and to everyone's consternation the play is inexplicably stopped . . . . and then the call goes out . . . "IS THERE A SPEECH AND LANGUAGE THERAPIST SPECIALISING IN VOICE IN THE HOUSE?"

I would modestly stand up. "I am a Speech and etc specialising in voice" and would walk with a capable but humble demeanour towards the stage. (Obviously everybody claps). I perform my SLT magic on the stricken thespian. The star is therap-ed. The play continues. The show goes on. I am carried shoulder high back to my seat to tumultuous applause. I never have to pay for a theatre ticket again worldwide, such is their gratitude.

It was going to be my moment to shine, but sadly it never happened.
 
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