Mrs Hinch #461 How much is that doggy in the window? The one with the raggedy hair?

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Pedestrian šŸ˜‚ next "steps" šŸ¤£

I know she meant paediatrician but that's such an American term. Surely he needs to be referred to a specialist like an educational psychologist?
Paediatricians are a UK thing. Theyā€™ll be based at a Child Development Centre within the hospital or you can have Community Paediatricians who can help when a significant developmental delay has been identified.
 
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I defo wouldn't keep doing what you're doing like. You have aloooootttt to change when it comes to interacting with your son šŸ‘šŸ»

Oh and the HV doesn't love Ron you silly bleep
 
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She needs to get Ron and Lon off social media now.

Imagine getting to 18 years old and stumbling across your entire childhood/health issues being discussed online by people you don't even know.

All because your Mother needed engagement and was so deluded she thought the shoppers were her friends.

So. bleeping. Damaging.
 
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Sheā€™s proud of the bubble he calls life?? Seriously??!!! She is proud at the life she is forcing on him? He certainly isnā€™t growing up in a bubble! Sharing him with millions of strangers isnā€™t a bubble! The poor boy spends a unhealthy amount of time being filmed then shared to millions of strangers. He canā€™t even sit on the toilet without her filming it. She has cackled and clawed at him since the day he was born and now she is going to continue to use him for engagement so she can make even more money from him.

Poor Ron is being let down big time. Parents should protect their children and Ron is not being protected.

if either of them had an ounce of integrity and parental instinct they would let him grow up in his bubble away from the public eye and stop using him like this.
 
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So the garden escaped damage? I'm amazed, remember the great storm of maldonia? šŸ¤£
 
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Pedestrian šŸ˜‚ next "steps" šŸ¤£

I know she meant paediatrician but that's such an American term. Surely he needs to be referred to a specialist like an educational psychologist?
I think a Paed referral is the correct next step to get all of the support in place.

It is an American term but itā€™s widely used here, we see a Paediatrician in allergy clinic and a Paediatric Gastroenterologist for my littlest x

And this. When "trolls" on Tattle spot your son has developmental issues over a year before you finally take your head out of the sand, you know you're a tit parent. I'm not saying they caused his issues because he was likely born that way (eg autism) but they ignored the warning signs all along. It was only when he went to nursery and they probably had a big talking to, they couldn't avoid the issue any more. I'm sure 6 months ago she said "we don't want to label Ron it's not helpful"
I think it was even more recent than that!
 
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I think now that itā€™s becoming ā€œnormalā€ (I hate that word but Iā€™m so tired I canā€™t think of a better one) to look into it and be assessed as an adult then a lot of older people will discover that theyā€™re on the spectrum. Iā€™m pretty sure Iā€™m on the spectrum after researching for my son, but I was just ā€œthe quirky kidā€ at home. And did as expected as school, went to college, uni, got my degree, had friends, held down jobs etc. Because I didnā€™t have a learning disability as such nothing was assessed. Does that make sense?
I was diagnosed with autism recently and I'm in my 30s. My parents knew something wasn't right with me when I was a child, but back in the late 80s and early 90s, information on autism was almost exclusively on how it affects males. Everyone's perception of autism was "Rain Man". So it never crossed their minds, or even any of my teachers, that I could be autistic. So as I grew up I kept being diagnosed with various mental illnesses even though none of them every truly fit. I suspected I was autistic when I was at uni and spent ten years reading books on how it affects females, talking to other women with autism, and saving up money to have a private assessment (because I couldn't get it done on the NHS). I also strongly suspect my mum is autistic, which is another reason they didn't rush to take me to a psychiatrist when I was a child as my behaviour didn't seem hugely out of the ordinary to my mum, yet objectively it was. But my mum hasn't sought any diagnoses for herself.
 
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What is sad for me is that if she had listened to the so called 'trolls' who were pointing out his 'red flags' as she called them (you mean his lovely personality and it is part of who he is, signs of ASD or any other developmental delay are a part of the person not something to fix) then she could have helped his development in the right direction a year ago and helped him deal with the world around him in his own way. That would have helped with meltdowns and such... hope this helps Grinch... even though you haven't read here since Eve febreezed the plastic garden of Eden.
 
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Narcissistic traits showing again.

Has anyone ever had a health visitor claim they ā€œloveā€ your child? Nope I have 4 children and I certainly have never had a health visitor profess her love for my child.

Sofa being the narcissist she is has weaponised ā€œloveā€ sheā€™s incapable of the feeling so itā€™s just something she says to gain leverage. She doesnā€™t realise that saying a health visitor loves her child is off. She thinks that proves how amazing her child is that even the health visitor has fallen in love with him.
 
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She spoils it again, same like PTWM.. you feel for them talking about child getting help (hate or love Hinch, finding out, that your child needs extra help and support is never easy to hear, I've been here with my daughter, and more recently myself when my report came back I have learning difficulties at the age of 33, and you do feel for them) however when these kinda posts are followed by an AD!! It invalidates the posts about the kids!

As a parent I'd be more concerned about the red flags of the HV saying she loves your kid after 30mins!
 
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ā€œHe can speak perfectly well fank yooā€
ā€œHe asked why the man at the fair was licking paperā€
ā€œOh heā€™s not actually speaking I will dub a video so it looks like he isnā€™t delayedā€
ā€œOh heā€™s at nursery now and itā€™s been highlighted that Iā€™m a tit parent and need to get him some supportā€
ā€œWoe is meā€
ā€œOh wait, new content!ā€
bleep.
 
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Anddddd theres the next adšŸ™„ she really pisses me off using that poor sweet boy as content filler!šŸ˜” my oldest is 6 years old and I've only just been able to get an paediatric referral appointment made for suspected ADHD after years of doctors appointments. My 2 year old is 3 months older than Ron and doesnt speak and I have been trying to get her referred for autism (she has so many other signs apart from the speech delay) for this past nearly year and my HV just kept telling me not to worry up until last week after I have I bugged her with phone calls and texts for months so she is finally on the waiting list for an appointment for speech therapy! If I had the money Grinch has I would spend every penny getting my kids the help they need not spending it on useless tat that usually ends up in a skipšŸ¤¬
 
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Pedestrian šŸ˜‚ next "steps" šŸ¤£

I know she meant paediatrician but that's such an American term. Surely he needs to be referred to a specialist like an educational psychologist?
Itā€™s not an American term and is fairly common here (Iā€™ve dealt with a lot of medical stuff with my little one). For looking in to ASD or other conditions you first get referred to a community paediatrician. At least in our area. Thereā€™s also general paediatricians etc.

An educational psychologist can form part of the panel looking into any potential diagnosis so they may see an Ed psych at some point and they might observe Ron in nursery.
 
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Wow she really is using poor little Ronā€™s health to bookmark her ads isnā€™t she?! Vile mare.
Incidentally Iconic have better deals in a gift box on Boots.
 
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