Mrs Hinch #240 She hasn’t been on here since 2019

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IChongTwirls

Weirdly, I’ve always been fascinated by narcissists. I saw a post from Mel Robbins the other day and she explains exactly what a narcissist is but, more importantly, WHY they are how they are and also the fact that they can never be fully helped even if they seek out help themselves. It was amazing to read and made me understand why people like Soph will never ever listen. It’s also made me intrigued to know what happened in her childhood to make her that way as narcissism isn’t something you’re born with, it’s something that develops in the brain as a child either from a result of abuse/traumatic experience or, complete other end of the spectrum, the child has been overly spoilt and grows up with a false belief that everyone should treat them like that. Come to think of it, our Soph is deffo the latter
 
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BabyOctopus

I've been trying to conceive for a year and a half, and I totally get that for a lot of people they've been trying many years. So to not fall pregnant in a matter of months is nothing. I'm starting to have tests to see why it's not happened yet, don't think the hospital fertility dept will see me though until I've got to 2 years without conceiving.
 
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Cupcakemum

Disgraceful isn't it.
My daughter has suffered since she was 12, and self harms. We had a doctor say that it was 'just a phase' and 'the in things for kids'. 5yrs later we've had to visit the crisis team because she admitted she couldn't keep herself safe, and only recently has the GP been allowed to put her on meds. That was a fight in itself because shes under 18!

To read that her GP says that hinching has got people off of meds is bloody dangerous, although I think absolute fabrication and a prime example of things that didn't happen that day. Its a lie too far though.

It takes ages to find a coping strategy that works for you, and sometimes ages to find the root of your problem.
She's implying that her GP is saying that Saint Soph of only the Insta world is a one size fits all cure.

What absolute bullshit!
Personally I think this proves that she doesn't suffer as bad as she says with her mental health, because anyone that does knows that its a very long road, and cracking out your Zoflo for an hour a day isn't going to work for everyone, and would understand one thing doesn't fit all. Plus anyone suffering would never even suggest such a thing.
Yet here she is, lying about what a professional said to get herself more follows and sales.

Thats low, even by her standards
 
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watermelon sugar

Sorry I've got to disagree. One day everyone on this thread is welcomed with open arms to talk about their experiences. The next were told not to go on about it all day? If someone is triggered by something Hinch said in an interview then their allowed to discuss it on here. How much of a kick in the teeth is that to someone opening up about their MH and what happened to them at the GP to be told 'are we gonna go on about it all day?' Hinch saying it only took her a month to get pregnant triggered people who took a while to get pregnant, and it set off a load of comments about how it took them a while to get pregnant. Are you gonna say to them 'are we gonna go on about it all day?' I dont think so
 
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JamiesWillyHillBalance

I was distraught. Jamie came back and looked at me and said: ‘You’re acting crazy.’ He made me feel like I’d lost my marbles and I felt a huge rush of anger. ‘Don’t EVER use that word!’ I shouted. ‘I don’t know why I’m crying myself, Jamie! Let alone being in a position to explain it to you!’ I collapsed on the bed, my body heaving with sobs. He put his arms around me and apologised. I told him to read up on postnatal depression and mental health. And that’s exactly what he did.”

And yet in the podcast with SS he said he read up on PND on his own in preparation and she acted surprised saying “when did you do that?”
 
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Jg182

Statements like this really anger me....Not happening straight away!!! She should phase it we were lucky because it happening quickly for us....
Im over two years ttc, need my tubes removed ... it will never happen naturally for us... absolutely petrified we will never become parents. There are plenty of people out their in similar, heartbreaking situations...
 
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BabyOctopus

Sorry to hear about your daughter. I get that I'm a stranger online, but if you wanted to chat to me feel free. I'm 31 now, but I started self harming when I was 13. Like your daughter, my GP adopted the "watch and wait" approach, which is bullshit. I just got worse and worse until I was in a&e all the time for stitches. I tried to kill myself aged 17 and even then I was being told I was "too young" to be feeling suicidal or to be seen by the mental health team! My dad had to write a strongly worded letter and then I was referred to the community mental health team. All too little too late as I was so unwell and unsafe I ended up in a&e with serious self harm and then being admitted to psychiatric hospital for 2 years. Anywho, it was a long journey but now I'm in a place where I don't really self harm any more. Maybe once a year. I do still get urges but I've learned ways of managing.
 
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katesbess

God she's really gone to town on this article hasn't she. Let's just be clear here, let's look at the timing of this article. oh yes it's when she's got a book out to sell.it tells you all you need to know. It's better than any TV appearance. this article is done to sell a book.
And that makes me sick than anything with her because she's literally done f*** all about talking about this until she needs to sell a book! That's disgusting
 
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bellinibobble

Interesting that Jamie sounded about as useful as a chocolate teapot in the early days with Ronnie.. you’d never know that from her insta stories would you?

I do applaud her for her honesty in that article - it can’t have been easy to go through all that, but this is a bed she’s made for herself! And its completely jarring with the image she’s presented on social media, and she only has herself to blame. People will be looking at her perfect family posts now and thinking it’s all bullshit, so even though she’s done the right thing now and been open, it’s too little too late and I imagine it will put people off her who’ve been struggling too but seen nothing from her to really show ‘we’re all in this together’.

It’s a shame she’s spoken about ‘forums and websites’ after claiming she hasn’t read here since 2019. Ronnie wouldn’t have been teething then so she can’t have got that from here! Clearly she gets sent a lot of tripe in DMs if someone has to screen them for her, but don’t mix Tattle up in there and tar us with the same brush - we’re here exactly because we’re not messaging you on social media!
 
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Kirsty1234

im crying at this,
Not because I like her or feel bad for her but because I can relate so much. She’s still a self centred knob
 
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mgh727

Hang on I might be completely stretching here but If Ma Barker told Soph to take a test, Soph must of told her straight away that she was right, so this was the October, so I seriously don’t believe she made her dad wait two months till Christmas Day to tell him then, because who’d have their mum keep such a huge secret from her husband and why would you tell one parent but not the other if you’re so close to the pair of them? so was the whole pregnancy reveal reaction video announcement fake then?
 
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PieceofTatt76

CheekyCrackerLover said:
More people will see this story doesn’t add up with what she was showing at the time and wake up to her fakery
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This, sadly is how she made me feel. When she was pregnant I kept wondering how things would change once baby arrived, and was watching with interest. When she showed everything to be so PERFECT, it was like a kick in the stomach. I’ve had two and the early days are TOUGH and she showed it be a fairytale!!
Why say all this now??? She’s a disgrace!! She could have HELPED hundreds of new mums who were struggling !!!
 
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Astonishing

100% agree with everything you’ve written here!
Also to add about the getting pregnant part it did happen straight away unless they were trying before the were married which is highly unlikely that she’d of been able to conceal a baby bump in that dress of hers anyway!
I feel really sorry for the people who are genuinely really struggling to conceive, who have been trying for years and have had failed IVF etc

I think this article and the Meeeeemwar could be her downfall. It’s very woe is me, feel sorry for me & this year has been brutally tough on everybody except her protected in her little castle in maldon.
I think that people are starting to open their eyes and see the truth
 
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katesbess

But how can you know what people are saying because she doesn't come on here ?
 
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