Mrs Hinch #130 Hinch hits an all time low. It's about the amazing NHS not you and Onslow.

[mine to cherryreg]

The ankle spinning/wrist spinning, leg kicking and also the shaking head from side to side which he’s done on posts she’s put up before are all called ‘stimming’ - seeking out stimulation. It’s very often one of the first signs of autism in a young child, along with a ‘blank’ face, abnormal reactions to things (such as being startled by minor noises or not being phased by loud noises) and a lack of social development. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, as a mum of 4 including one with autism and a trainee child psychologist, Ronnie is a beautiful little boy but I believe is increasingly showing signs of autism. I really she gets the help she (and Ronnie) need soon, cause it’s heart wrenching to watch.

Sad to say it but she really doesnt seem fussed and clearly thinks there is nothing wrong with him

 

[Marie Antoinette]

I’m sure it’s all from our home bargains in the town, I’m sure it’s still open and they sell plants outside but not 100% because ive been watching the news and our government begging us to stay in, unlike those muppets

"just found these lights in the garage GUYZZZZZ" Who does she think she's kidding!
And where did the plants come from that she's put in those crappy pots? Did she just happen to find them in the garage too?

 

[80schic]

My son didn’t walk until he was 16 months old. However he was developed in other areas so I did g worry too much. He was very good with speech and words and I found his language skills really exceeded my expectations.
why don’t we ever hear him babbling or her trying to get him to sound out mumumum or dadadada

Totally agree. I know all babies develop at different stages and I hope I didn't sound too judgemental didnt mean to.
I just meant she could be doing so much more to help his development. I defo think he would be babbling by now if she had.
I exposed my puppy to more at 15 weeks than Ronnie's had in 9 months.
It baffles me that she doesnt want him to take in all life has to offer like:
Baby gym and music groups
Soft play
Drop ins/1 o'clock clubs and mum meet ups
Library/bookshop story time
Sand pits and playgrounds
Educational toys, instruments, puzzles, things with wheels, touch and lift books....

I couldn't get enough of finding things to do with my boy.

 

[Portiapoo]

Sad to say it but she really doesnt seem fussed and clearly thinks there is nothing wrong with him

I know and that’s what’s so sad. Maybe she really is clueless and maybe he’s not doing the normal baby things so she’s at a loss. I know with my daughter I felt like the worst parent in the world cause she just didn’t respond to normal baby things and was completely disinterested and it was soul destroying. I think hinch is a class a hole but when it comes to Ronnie, If he is on the spectrum it may be the reason some of his behaviours seem ‘sad’ or disinterested, and not all down to her parenting.... although she’s clearly oblivious to a lot!

 

[HereForTheComments456]

The ankle spinning/wrist spinning, leg kicking and also the shaking head from side to side which he’s done on posts she’s put up before are all called ‘stimming’ - seeking out stimulation. It’s very often one of the first signs of autism in a young child, along with a ‘blank’ face, abnormal reactions to things (such as being startled by minor noises or not being phased by loud noises) and a lack of social development. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, as a mum of 4 including one with autism and a trainee child psychologist, Ronnie is a beautiful little boy but I believe is increasingly showing signs of autism. I really she gets the help she (and Ronnie) need soon, cause it’s heart wrenching to watch.

It’s sad isn’t it? Coz even if he isn’t autistic he’s obviously crying out for stimulation and she just isn’t giving it to him. Even if she was to plonk him in front of the tv watching baby tv or CBeebies it still would be better than what she does. I feel she lets him play for the pictures and the rest of the time he’s either napping, sitting on her lap while she’s on the phone (probably reading tattle) or he’s in his bouncer. I don’t think that poor boy get any stimulation and it’s so heartbreaking. I don’t know why she’s so reluctant to take advice regarding him.

 

[DCICassieStuart]

Omg! ‘Little tufts’ The stupid daft bint! That was so uncomfortable/sad to watch he looked really upset and scared. How can she not see that even from the videos she posted earlier his demeanour is completely different.

Agree. Also, I don't believe for one minute that he went over to the laundry basket on his own and tipped it over.
I hope that wasn't dirty laundry he was sucking on

 

[Portiapoo]

I’m not saying he has autism by any means, I am also absolutely not a professional and would never claim to be. But when typing in ankles spinning on google for an almost ten month old. This came up as signs to look out for and well, I’ll let it speak for itself..

1. Rarely smiles when approached by caregivers 2. Rarely tries to imitate sounds and movements others make, such as smiling and laughing, during simple social exchanges 3. Delayed or infrequent babbling 4. Does not respond to his or her name with increasing consistency from 6 -- 12 months 5. Does not gesture to communicate by 10 months 6. Poor eye contact 7. Seeks your attention infrequently 8. Repeatedly stiffens arms, hands, legs or displays unusual body movements such as rotating the hands on the wrists, uncommon postures or other repetitive behaviors 9. Does not reach up toward you when you reach to pick him or her up 10. Delays in motor development, including delayed rolling over, pushing up and crawling

Edit: Purely posting in hope she does read here and perhaps has a think about it.

I am a professional in child psychology and I’d bet a lot of money that this is exactly what’s going on here x

 

[Dexy]

Totally agree. I know all babies develop at different stages and I hope I didn't sound too judgemental didnt mean to.
I just meant she could be doing so much more to help his development. I defo think he would be babbling by now if she had.
I exposed my puppy to more at 15 weeks than Ronnie's had in 9 months.
It baffles me that she doesnt want him to take in all life has to offer like:
Baby gym and music groups
Soft play
Drop ins/1 o'clock clubs and mum meet ups
Library/bookshop story time
Sand pits and playgrounds
Educational toys, instruments, puzzles, things with wheels, touch and lift books....

I couldn't get enough of finding things to do with my boy.

I was the same. I’m really sociable but not a ‘ natural ‘ mother in the sense I still needed more than just being at home with my kid. It can be boring and lonely. I would take my boy to anywhere I could, obviously this helped his development too but it was also for my benefit and sanity.

 

[Each_peach]

Who mentioned her not taking Henry out? bleeping Bingo for you! Sad twit she is, everything she does is just to "prove trolls wrong"

And no matter how much she talks to Ronnie he just looks straight past her and/or through her. He is so unamused by her it's like she's invisible to him. That stupid song they were singing and he just sat there and looked at them like they're Dickheads - which they are.

Cannot do with her fake laugh either, sounds like a car engine struggling to get going on a bleeping winters morning

HERHERHERHERHERHER

 

[Fizzy bootlaces]

Asd mum here, I'm not saying he definately has it but he is showing alot of traits, ankle spinning, blank expression, non responsive. Also maybe he's still on purees because he doesn't like lumps which could be a sensory issue. I just feel so so sorry for him and she looks to be ignoring it. I would certainly be on to the GP or hv until someone listened to me. We've all been saying it for months but it's becoming so much more apparent

 

[Dexy]

Who mentioned her not taking Henry out? bleeping Bingo for you! Sad twit she is, everything she does is just to "prove trolls wrong"

And no matter how much she talks to Ronnie he just looks straight past her and/or through her. He is so unamused by her it's like she's invisible to him. That stupid song they were singing and he just sat there and looked at them like they're Dickheads - which they are.

Cannot do with her fake laugh either, sounds like a car engine struggling to get going on a bleeping winters morning

HERHERHERHERHERHER

It was me! I begged her to take him out!

 

[mine to cherryreg]

Agree. Also, I don't believe for one minute that he went over to the laundry basket on his own and tipped it over.
I hope that wasn't dirty laundry he was sucking on

I thought that, bleeping vile letting him sit and chew on dirty clothes

 

[JuicyGoose91]

Maybe this is also extra weight he's gaining for easter?! Ya know cuz we all do it guuuyyyzzzz

Lockdown weight blame it on Miss Corona

 

[Hoatsandboes]

Sad to say it but she really doesnt seem fussed and clearly thinks there is nothing wrong with him

It’s because she’s a bleep. Hope this helps xx

 

[Lemons91]

Don’t be silly. Ronnie’s birthday will be all about her. If anyone smashes a cake she will.

it will be “Happy I Gave Birth-Day”

 

[MoaningMyrtle2019]

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Those latest stories aren't helping her if she wants to stop people commenting on Ronnie's development. His posture is terrible. You can see on the side views he's rolled back onto his spine. Babies usually have lovely straight backs. It looks so uncomfortable, poor kid.

 

[Fizzy bootlaces]

I guess if he did have asd it might not fit in with her perfect life, prefect family mantra. Maybe that's why she's choosing to ignore it

 

[Dexy]

Lockdown weight blame it on Miss Corona

All the while every other dog in the street is being walked more than ever.

 

[ragdollmissy]

Asd mum here, I'm not saying he definately has it but he is showing alot of traits, ankle spinning, blank expression, non responsive. Also maybe he's still on purees because he doesn't like lumps which could be a sensory issue. I just feel so so sorry for him and she looks to be ignoring it. I would certainly be on to the GP or hv until someone listened to me. We've all been saying it for months but it's becoming so much more apparent

I wonder if she's ignoring his lack of development because she feels guilty that during her pregnancy her eating disorder was active and it appeared she wasn't taking good care of herself judging by the pictures of her at that time.