Minniharrisuk #1

[byefeliciax]

I think having sex as a teenager is pretty typical, but having sex as a teenager to try and get pregnant on purpose and being gleeful about becoming a mum so young is a symptom of a very screwed up childhood.

That post “finally going to be a mummy” when she was 18 was “Finally”? Her life was only just beginning. It obviously felt to her like she’d been trying for a long time. It’s heartbreaking really!

 

[Dwight]

And get the children off her socials with all the pervy men followers. No one knows the affects of young kids being exploited online, and shown to strangers atvall sorts of stages of their life. These kids are going to grow up, messed up, angry and God knows what.

This is true. Some of the children of the earliest adapters of using social media for income and involving their children are now reaching young adulthood and starting to speak out. We still don't know all of the long term psychology affects but nothing positive is coming from those once exploited children! Many are becoming advocates for better regulation and laws around it all for children, in fact many seem to have chosen to cut ties with their parents for exploiting and in some cases abusing them for content and financial gain. Just look at the 8 passengers saga, for example. Long before that all went down the road of outright abuse, those parents were thought of as just running a "family" YouTube channel. Minnie would do well to take heed from the voices of these now adults that come from all sides of spectrum of "content" and think of the long term effect for her kids instead of thinking about the short term financial gain. If you're feeling sensitive about strangers online having access to you that you're provide just imagine how sensitive a literal child who cannot even consent to that would feel having all angles of their daily lives platformed for god knows who!

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Saying the sofa looks like that because she hasn’t cleaned it in ‘about a month’ My kids haven’t ever made that kind of mess of a sofa in all their lives, let alone a month. That’s just pure laziness and poor boundary setting. Her kids always seem to be spilling stuff on the sofa or drawing on the walls, which I know is typical child behaviour, but it seems more than the average child I feel. It just screams neglect to me, like she’s not keeping an eye on them and isn’t in the same room. Probably her and her boyfriend watching TV on her bedroom projector screen and making the next baby for the state to support while she leaves her existing toddlers to their own devices.

I never had writing on walls and major stuff. A few small incidents. Mine were taught from an early age to look after their belongings & the home ect..we look after our things. don't keep buying and buying. Sofas & big ticket items I expect to last years.

 

[byefeliciax]

Ding ding ding

SO PREDICTABLE!

Having a kitten will be another thing she’s too young and dumb to have thought through. But hey! “Content” As above, I hope she’s budgeted for getting the poor thing insured and spayed and vaccinated and chipped. It’s a legal requirement to have a cat chipped now.

I pointed out on Alex Wren’s last thread that drivers with only automatic licences pay around double the insurance of manual licence drivers, according to the Admiral website, because they’re more likely to be worse drivers claim and their cars are more costly to repair. Minnie is also under 25 which puts her insurance up anyway. She has her car on finance too because she wasn’t patient enough to save up. Her overheads for that vehicle must be astronomical! How she’s affording to pay for and run and maintain and insure that financed car on strictly benefits, as well as supporting her kids, and still have a surplus of ~£1500 a year to responsibly own a cat is beyond me. I’ve lived on benefits and I can tell you, she’ll be absolutely drowning in bills she can’t afford to pay all for the sake of keeping up with the fake Instagram image. She’s so naive it’s unreal. It’s the kids I feel for, having to grow up alongside such an immature mother.

She does come off as a lovely mum, but just wait until the kids lose their “cute” appeal and start answering back and actually having real life problems and needing real life support…

 

[byefeliciax]

Yeah, bit of a stupid time to get a kitten isn’t it, when cat faeces is so dangerous in pregnancy. Who’s cleaning the tray then? Has Kyle moved in?

Poor bloke only looks about 21 himself, and now he’s going to have to provide for a whole family (including two kids that aren’t his). I wonder how his family feel about the blatant little gold digger honey trapping the lad. She saw him coming.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

1000000% her whole adult life has been playing the system. Having babies for housing and to be kept. Anyone who does this is a liar and manipulator .

She has crafted a stupid story that baby 3 is all private because it is a private pregnancy bubble for them only. Bullshit.

 

[byefeliciax]

She really is a sucker for a social media advert, isn’t she? That’s so so so much money and a complete gimmick. It’s just silica litter.

You can get near identical stuff, 200g more of it, for £3.49.

What happened to money savvy Minnie who was showing us how she saved 80p in Aldi (and then spent that saving on plastic bags to bring her shopping home in). I’m dying to know where all her money comes from, it’s not like she’s got much engagement or lucrative brand deals. She’s always spending, just blew hundreds in Ikea, was wearing Ugg shoes, Lucy & Yak trousers and dungarees, has a £10k car on finance, pricey designer car seats, and is now flaunting twenty quid bags of cat litter?

All whilst claiming to still need “benefits” and a “council house”. Such a shameful grifter. A thick one too.

 

[invisiblelady]

Agree about contraception..however, we are talking about Minnie here..getting pregnant for gains off the Government. There is also terminations..agree or not agree with ii. I am pro life, however, due to late PNT and struggling with little ones, absolutely no way could I have coped mentally or physically with another baby, so for self preservation I'd have had to have chosen this option.

I think it's quite sad in a way. She clearly doesn't have any decent role models around her. I know all some people want to do is have children and be a mum but it's sad she doesn't want more for herself and her kids.

I had a pill pregnancy (maybe why I'm a bit sensitive about it ). I didn't have a termination and did it as a single parent. Admittingly I'd known the father longer than 5 minutes but I also finished a degree and have a professional career.

 

[byefeliciax]

Tbh this was my thoughts too... it reads that she's being purposely vague about whatever bad thing happened because it's a half truth. The comments aboout weight, skin etc, I suppose are people talking here about noticing the differences in her appearance and that has only happened because she's tried to pass off a selfie from months ago as recent... pure observations about that were all i remember seeing here, no fun being made of it. Plus, she's kinda contradicting herself by implying her and her partner are being harassed in public to saying then its a "small handful" of people. Maybe I've become biased but nothing seems authentic from her to me. Even her "origin" story provokes zero sympathy from me tbh. Maybe that's harsh to some but her story is far from unique... and hoenstly is relatively tame compared to a lot of care leavers tbh. Aside from all of that she's still very young and in a much better place now to start pursuing the life she wants for herself and her kids, yet all she's positioning herself to do is post poorly thoughtout videos online for money. Minnie, with all due respect - get yourself back to education, give yourself and those kids a better chance of breaking the clear cycle of trauma and poverty you have experienced.

It’s all just so manipulative, isn’t it? She puts on this cute little butter-wouldn’t-melt persona but I actually think she’s got quite a calculating side to her. She knows how to twist a narrative to come off as a victim to get what she wants, that’s clear from the half-truths and twisted tones in what she posted today. I think she’s got a lot of growing up and healing to do, and she really doesn’t need to be doing that on a public stage.

Agreed about getting back into education and breaking the clear cycle. I do think she would be good doing something media focussed, she’s very creative. If it weren’t for the plastering her kids all over social media for attention for herself, I’d say I think she’s a lovely mum. She needs to go focus on those littlens, in private.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

What do we think to this?

2025 Kyle planted his seed

 

[DeloresBawbag]

Agree she needs guidance, but Google has been around fo her entire adult life. Why would you not at the very least Google the freezer ice situation?!

Any time since I left home that I’ve encountered a drama, crisis, broken thing or whatever, I google and YouTube it so I can find a DIY solution. This past week I’ve fixed my boiler, rescued a pigeon, and sorted my brother’s drain. Using Google and YouTube and common sense!

 

[Iamintherealworld]

The stereotype of the biggest TVs in council houses / single mums..I'm old enough to remember before flat screens and believe me. The first huge flat screens I saw were in benefit claiming homes. Minnie gone one further with a projector screen.

Cultured inquisitive people always have small or no TV ! My favs on the gram have the tiniest TVs.

 

[dumdums83]

Having 3 kids at 22 and no job is nothing to be proud of. I'd be a bit mortified at my choices.

And especially with 2 different fathers

 

[byefeliciax]

I thought so too yet she claims she doesn’t even know where it is from, which is so ungrateful.

Doesn’t know where it’s from and is slagging it off on a huge public platform. If I was kindly given something for free and it didn’t work for me I’d just discreetly replace it and keep my mouth shut.

I’m not sure she understands that not every waking thought and dull life occurrence has to be “content”. She is just so desperate (for freebies) and so so entitled and attention hungry, it’s such a tragic watch. I’d hate to be Minnie in 5 years when her brain is fully matured and she looks back in hindsight about what a twat she looked on the internet for all to see and analyse… and all for some free bedding.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Not a chance she doesn't have a pair of shoes that aren't wellies or sandals. What a ridiculous thing to say

My thoughts..just can't believe she posts what she does.

A driving instructor would no way encourage the wearing of a sandal or welly.

I've seen one decent comment, the one who has politely mentioned the footwear, all her other followers commenting are the same ilk. Clapping on this nonsense

And they are proud of her for what she's achieved ,which is:

Getting pregers v young to obtain a council home.
Living on benefits
Living her life & exposing her babies for world wide consumption.
Introducing a bf and his family into the babies life far too soon ( if this relationship fails quite quickly, and future relationships too, her children will go through life with no stability, with men coming and going in/out their lives. Again, a child safeguarding issue.




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[byefeliciax]

Agree!!! Why are people commenting clapping on this on. She is nothing to be admired, only a teen girl, played the system. She has not matured and grown up herself. The kids are clothed well, in a clean house, yes - no doubt from debt. They are not safe from a few things we have be shown. Minnie does not attempt to hide where she or her mother live, their faces shown (lots of men following her) introduces bfs far too soon, let's tiny tots wave sparklers around like crazy gloveless.

Agree! People praise her as a good mum for doing the absolute bare minimum. Nurseries and pre-schools take on 16 year old kid apprentices because it’s not exactly hard to be able to meet the basic needs of babies and toddlers. All she’s doing is playing dollies right now, the real parenting comes in when your kids learn to answer back and develop their own identities aside from what you choose for them to be. It’s easy peasy while you’re the one choosing their outfits, meals, games, friends, routine, environment, etc.

In every way it actually counts in the long-run she is not a good parent. She is not an independent provider, she is at the mercy of the state. She is not healed from her own childhood, she continues to put her children at risk while she seeks validation from strangers on the internet. She hasn’t learned from her own alleged abuse, she puts her kids I harm’s way allowing brand new boyfriends (and their families) intimate access to her children. She is not a good role model for work ethic and success, she is a grifter who thinks popping out kids at everyone else’s expense is a career.

I feel quite sorry for her that she clearly has no good role models, but she’s the parent now, it’s time to get some contraception, some therapy, a real job, and stop posting those poor kids’ lives on the internet. They won’t thank her later for having all of their private information shared and for the exposure to strangers dissecting their childhoods.

 

[byefeliciax]

So she said she was posting with a bit of a delay because she was wanting to surprise her mum, which makes sense, she obviously wanted to show her mum the car before social media.

However, if she’s had the car a week already then why was she asking for advice on whether to get finance or not 4 days ago, when she had clearly already gone ahead with it and also shown her mum?

Spoiler

She’s taken the right piss out of her audience and doting fans who took time out of their days for free to give well articulated and generous advice to her when… she didn’t actually even want/need it. She just exploited their generosity and cashed in on their engagement.

Influencers are such parasites.

 

[byefeliciax]

Hang on, he can work wherever he wants whenever he wants but he hasn’t chosen to do that yet? Sounds to me like he’s spent the whole pregnancy making her empty promises! She’s living in La La Land.

They should have got some experience of living together before even trying for a baby, let alone before one actually arrives. Having someone visit overnight for a nice meal and some sex a couple of times a week is a very different picture to when you’re actually living together as a family unit. He might be good to her and the kids on a part-time basis, but chuck him in at the deep end as a full-time dad with a full-time job and a full-time responsibility to pay the bills for a family of 5 when he’s used to his tradie income being mostly disposable, and they’re both in for a big shock.

I give it a generous 3 months before the novelty wears off and they’ve decided to go on a break. On, off, on, off, on, off until the next baby to try and fix the broken relationship, on, off, on, off, and then another bloke comes along and the cycle repeats. The lady in the comments that knows her has it sussed.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I totally get your view points, I just think they're both stupid tbh

Also he looked underwhelmed by the gender reveal or is that just my opinion?

I thought this, he was sat there like a spare part.

 

[byefeliciax]

Minnie isn’t getting enough ad work or posting regularly enough to be making any kind of good income from her socials, her income has to be predominantly benefits.

Being able to waste hundreds of pounds of carpet, paying for a holiday and coming home early, buying a £300 rug, splashing out on decorating materials, affording driving lessons at £40+ an hour, buying luxury items here there and everywhere… she’s got to be either a) Up to her eyeballs in credit card debt, or b) Claiming disability benefits on top. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s one of the blaggers the government are on about putting measures in place to prevent. Her mum looks like a right grifting chav as well, doesn’t look like the apple’s fallen far from the tree, she’ll know exactly how to play the system.