And especially with 2 different fathers
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I thought the wee girl was younger for some reason. Tbh I try not to pay too much attention to children on these pages but yeah after a brief look that wee girl is quite round in the face, could be genetic predisposition but I'm thinking it's more likely further proof of Minnie's poor choices.
Can't disagree with anything said about how short sighted she's been with all of these choices, particularly surrounding the car and car seats. So she found out she was pregnant two days after the car arrived meaning she had plenty of time to rethink that decision... clearly the instant gratification of keeping it then instead of waiting for something more suitable took priority. She needs to seriously wise up.
Sidenote, why does she go by a pseudonym instead of her real name?
Can't disagree with anything said about how short sighted she's been with all of these choices, particularly surrounding the car and car seats. So she found out she was pregnant two days after the car arrived meaning she had plenty of time to rethink that decision... clearly the instant gratification of keeping it then instead of waiting for something more suitable took priority. She needs to seriously wise up.
Sidenote, why does she go by a pseudonym instead of her real name?
Minnie playing Mummies, Babies and Dollies again!
Worried how she'd love another as much, worried how the kids would take to baby..the kids are clueless at this age..clueless that they were born to ger a council house. And their child Mum is so needy wants to play babies and feel wanted.
Said everything happens for a reason, the baby is so loved already
Wait till all 3 kids are fighting and screaming and arguing.
Wait til they are in school and school work/homework needs doing.pressure will be on when in school, deadlines to meet. Trips need paying for and residential trips .
Swimmig lessons which are vital. And an utter chore to me when i went through it especially in winter !
These cute babies are not cute babies 5 minutes. There are childens lives ahead for years which need a stable environment if she wants kids to do better than herself.
And she will need to engage her bloody brain when they are a littke older. Not good for kids being raised knee jerk and chaotic .
Worried how she'd love another as much, worried how the kids would take to baby..the kids are clueless at this age..clueless that they were born to ger a council house. And their child Mum is so needy wants to play babies and feel wanted.
Said everything happens for a reason, the baby is so loved already
Wait till all 3 kids are fighting and screaming and arguing.
Wait til they are in school and school work/homework needs doing.pressure will be on when in school, deadlines to meet. Trips need paying for and residential trips .
Swimmig lessons which are vital. And an utter chore to me when i went through it especially in winter !
These cute babies are not cute babies 5 minutes. There are childens lives ahead for years which need a stable environment if she wants kids to do better than herself.
And she will need to engage her bloody brain when they are a littke older. Not good for kids being raised knee jerk and chaotic .
I was out in the car daily with mine from older babies until they started school.They were horrendous at home, needed mental and physical stimulation we went to various toddler groups, play centres, parks, open spaces, had a Merlin Card and went to attractions. Swimming lessons started age 4.I dont know why she's stressing about a car when what on earth is she going to do with three so young anywayespecially her saying she can't take her boyfriend out in the car now cos of the seat situation
How do you take them swimming? To activities? Nightmare. Some people might like that life but defffff not for me thanks
Once at school, in the school holidays out to meet friends /family at open spaces, parks and play areas, beach for the day.
She managed without a car and using her expensive buggy for quite a while. Im a mum of 4, and you just do what you need to do. But I think having 3 kids in the time she has she is not thinking of the long time thing. Teenagers are expensive and she spends a lot on those toddlers. Jellycats, expensive buggies, car seats... this is not a usual struggling single mum in a council house and its ducked up. So many wrong messages been sent (see also alexandraremi) she is not living a life like most young mums with young kidsI dont know why she's stressing about a car when what on earth is she going to do with three so young anyway
How do you take them swimming? To activities? Nightmare. Some people might like that life but defffff not for me thanks
If not more, does anyone know 100% the other two have the same Dad?
Having friends taised with half siblings and their own father not present.. it gets tricky when growing up. Depending on the fathers.- their finances, how much they support their own children, presence in childs life, time spent, taken on holiday. Can get unfair if half siblings are getting nowhere near.
Agree with all of the above about how short-sighted she’s being.
I was a very young mum too and my kids were well loved and provided for. I would get compliments from strangers on public transport about what a lovely mum I was, reading and playing I Spy on our little outings on buses and trains. They were well routined, well dressed, well fed, and it was a doddle really. I would have loved a third, but didn’t have another bedroom and couldn’t afford a bigger car and could only hold two little hands to cross the road, so it got put on standby. I’d had them so young I had plenty of years left ahead of me to build a base to welcome a third baby later down the line.
Well Christ, am I glad I didn’t have that third and chose not to later on, because as my kids grew so did their problems and so did their needs and suddenly what felt like a doddle with little ones became me drowning in responsibility I could never have imagined back when we were just baking and reading and looking for bugs in the garden.
Three close together as babies and toddlers is very, very different to three close together as teenagers and young adults. How does she suppose she’ll be affording to get three kids on the road one after the other? How will she manage space for homework when all her kids have GCSE and college work? What happens if 1 or 3 of them want to go to university, how will she provide? How does she suppose she’ll manage all of the extracurriculars and essential residential trips as part of their learning through the years? How will she afford to give them all pocket money so they can learn to manage money? What happens when they need adult sized clothes that aren’t cheap anymore? How will she support their emotional needs, when she has 3 teenagers close in age going through traumas and peer pressure and friendship and relationship difficulties? All of those kids are going to grow into the same kind of maladjusted adult she is. Work shy, broken, desperate and needy, insecure, and grifting.
This won’t even be the last baby, mark my words. This boyfriend who hasn’t even moved in yet will flee as soon as the reality kicks in, and she’ll be on to honey trapping the next one.
(balls did she not know she would have a third baby so soon when she bought that car! She claims to have already miscarried Kyle’s baby and continued to have unprotected sex, what did she think would happen?!)
I was a very young mum too and my kids were well loved and provided for. I would get compliments from strangers on public transport about what a lovely mum I was, reading and playing I Spy on our little outings on buses and trains. They were well routined, well dressed, well fed, and it was a doddle really. I would have loved a third, but didn’t have another bedroom and couldn’t afford a bigger car and could only hold two little hands to cross the road, so it got put on standby. I’d had them so young I had plenty of years left ahead of me to build a base to welcome a third baby later down the line.
Well Christ, am I glad I didn’t have that third and chose not to later on, because as my kids grew so did their problems and so did their needs and suddenly what felt like a doddle with little ones became me drowning in responsibility I could never have imagined back when we were just baking and reading and looking for bugs in the garden.
Three close together as babies and toddlers is very, very different to three close together as teenagers and young adults. How does she suppose she’ll be affording to get three kids on the road one after the other? How will she manage space for homework when all her kids have GCSE and college work? What happens if 1 or 3 of them want to go to university, how will she provide? How does she suppose she’ll manage all of the extracurriculars and essential residential trips as part of their learning through the years? How will she afford to give them all pocket money so they can learn to manage money? What happens when they need adult sized clothes that aren’t cheap anymore? How will she support their emotional needs, when she has 3 teenagers close in age going through traumas and peer pressure and friendship and relationship difficulties? All of those kids are going to grow into the same kind of maladjusted adult she is. Work shy, broken, desperate and needy, insecure, and grifting.
This won’t even be the last baby, mark my words. This boyfriend who hasn’t even moved in yet will flee as soon as the reality kicks in, and she’ll be on to honey trapping the next one.
(balls did she not know she would have a third baby so soon when she bought that car! She claims to have already miscarried Kyle’s baby and continued to have unprotected sex, what did she think would happen?!)
I stopped at one cause I couldn’t afford another, plus my home isn’t big enough and I work full time and don’t claim a thing
Well good luck to her. I’m sure she’ll make her fortune exploiting her children’s childhoods for brand deals, the council will give her a nice big house to fill, her kids will grow up to thank her for exposing them on the internet, it will all be worth it and they’ll live happily ever after!
She only hid it because she knew she’d get torn to shreds for getting pregnant a few weeks into a new relationship and putting in for a bigger council house and more benefits… again.
Absolutely this. At this point, has she been with Kyle a year?
Either not quite or only just! It will feel like longer than it really is to her though because a) she is so young, and b) she is deluded, and c) she’s never held down a consistent relationship this long.
It’s been so whirlwind it can’t possibly be stable enough for longevity. They’ve not even moved in together yet (that’s clear from how her evenings are being spent with her other kids and her bump all in bed together, no sign of Kyle). Moving in on paternity leave and navigating brand new baby, two toddlers, all of the financial hurdles, him being main breadwinner for the whole family so young, combined domestic responsibilities, not having enough room in one vehicle for all 5 of them etc., it is going to be one hell of a challenge! I’ll eat my hat if this survives another year.
Just seen missy is preggers again 
She’s only got 100k followers, that don’t scream massively successful ‘influencer career’ and it’s going to get boring….its just rinse repeating the same content over and over. People will surely drop off.
She’s only got 100k followers, that don’t scream massively successful ‘influencer career’ and it’s going to get boring….its just rinse repeating the same content over and over. People will surely drop off.Have you seen her post about the baby not engaged and she is now overdue. Shes sad and scared.
One of the reasons is she will have to be induced. Then it is the unknown and possibility of staying in hospital longer.
She has had it so easy going her way thus far. Now she has 2 very young ones, she should be always thinking about the what ifs.. what if she needs a c section..what if she needs a c section under general anaesthetic.
Life! Is not straight forward!!! For anyone!!!
One of the reasons is she will have to be induced. Then it is the unknown and possibility of staying in hospital longer.
She has had it so easy going her way thus far. Now she has 2 very young ones, she should be always thinking about the what ifs.. what if she needs a c section..what if she needs a c section under general anaesthetic.
Life! Is not straight forward!!! For anyone!!!
I think she stupidly assumed the baby would probably have arrived soon after that announcement to have that flow from sharing the news to a baby popping out. Now her content has stalled as people lose interest quickly with things like this. The baby will come and a new temporary peak in content views will follow before dipping again. Babies are cute but only so much you need to see one that isn’t your own.
I also wonder if she was hoping for an influx in named brands getting in touch with brand deals, for the bigger stuff like furniture, prams, car seats etc as the baby was imminent? It’ll be interesting to see what she shares as to whether anyone has been sucked in by that.
She should have been well prepared for the possibility of needing to be away from her older two for a while anyway though. This is a fourth pregnancy in 3 years, she hasn’t given her body much time to fully repair between each, she’s at much higher risk of complications this time because of that. I’m sure she’ll be fine because she’s biologically at her peak, but it’s once again shortsighted of her to only think about that now!
All very quiet. I can’t imagine she’ll announce her baby’s arrival straight away, she’ll need time to put together a picture perfect post of course!
I did however notice she still insists in her bio that her page is an example of “building a budget-friendly home”. Nothing about Minnie’s lifestyle is budget friendly, everything is for show and on finance or credit: the car, the rug, the sofa, etc. I don’t know about anyone else but I don’t consider “on tick” to mean “in budget”. Quite the opposite! If you can’t afford it up front it means you’re living outside of your means, not within a finite budget.
Very, very misleading.
I did however notice she still insists in her bio that her page is an example of “building a budget-friendly home”. Nothing about Minnie’s lifestyle is budget friendly, everything is for show and on finance or credit: the car, the rug, the sofa, etc. I don’t know about anyone else but I don’t consider “on tick” to mean “in budget”. Quite the opposite! If you can’t afford it up front it means you’re living outside of your means, not within a finite budget.
Very, very misleading.
I've got a feeling this will be her 'traumatic' birth! I don't know anyone had a pleasant birth induced. All the gadgets tend to end up used - vontuse, forceps. Some ending up emergency C Section.
Where I'm from in Ireland, to get something "on tick" is a phrase almost exclusively used to your local weed dealer when you get a baggie then and there, but pay for it later.
Maybe she heard the phrase around her growing up and didn't quite grasp the full meaning...