Agree with this, she just doesn’t fit Maria’s narrative of ”the perfect child” aka Evie. Second children are always more “spirited” than the first as they have that extra influence & o think your learning style relaxes a little with the second child. ,Nellie also probably reacts to the way she is patented by Maria. I think it’s sad to see that she only ever has negatives to say about Nellie, it’s so damaging to openly show you have a favourite child.No I think she’s a “normal “ toddler