In fairness how would you know the asd children mimic accents I know plenty of children without Asd that mimic American accents due to watching too much YouTube!
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i have an asd child. You’ll find most if not all have a monotone voice or an accent usually American and that’s the lucky ones plenty are non verbal
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The way a child speaks is one of the ways autism can be detected, that comment just shows how little people know about asd and shouldn't be commenting on it.
I really like Trish, I think she’s a breath of fresh air. The talk to trish and sex stories are gas, I always save them for when the kids have gone to bed and I can read them in peace 
I do however have a huge problem with the animal abuse stuff if that’s true. It sounds like he could have had a puppy farm with that many dogs? Or still does if he still has dogs out in cages? Wish there was a way of knowing if that was true.
The way she talks about Phil has always sparked red flags galore for me. Talking about “his” money, the way he never helps with the kids or the house. Even the way she goes on about men in general all being massive pricks is a funny one.
I do however have a huge problem with the animal abuse stuff if that’s true. It sounds like he could have had a puppy farm with that many dogs? Or still does if he still has dogs out in cages? Wish there was a way of knowing if that was true.
The way she talks about Phil has always sparked red flags galore for me. Talking about “his” money, the way he never helps with the kids or the house. Even the way she goes on about men in general all being massive pricks is a funny one.
I may be old fashioned here but he’s out working long hours so she can stay at home with the kids. my parents did the same my mam always had the dinner ready sure she had to feed us & herself aswel and she liked us all sitting together. Even now she’d say oh I have to get home and get the dinner on for your dad. We always say you’d swear dad would kill her for not having the dinner onI really like Trish, I think she’s a breath of fresh air. The talk to trish and sex stories are gas, I always save them for when the kids have gone to bed and I can read them in peace
I do however have a huge problem with the animal abuse stuff if that’s true. It sounds like he could have had a puppy farm with that many dogs? Or still does if he still has dogs out in cages? Wish there was a way of knowing if that was true.
The way she talks about Phil has always sparked red flags galore for me. Talking about “his” money, the way he never helps with the kids or the house. Even the way she goes on about men in general all being massive pricks is a funny one.
when some nights she’d give him a bowl of cereal for dinner it’s just the way she says it. She could get a part time job I’m sure if she wanted her “own” money the animal abuse would completely turn me off & if it’s true I’ll be unfollowing.
Hmm.. I think that is a little old fashioned.I may be old fashioned here but he’s out working long hours so she can stay at home with the kids. my parents did the same my mam always had the dinner ready sure she had to feed us & herself aswel and she liked us all sitting together. Even now she’d say oh I have to get home and get the dinner on for your dad. We always say you’d swear dad would kill her for not having the dinner on
the animal abuse would completely turn me off & if it’s true I’ll be unfollowing.
When you’re a SAHM, you essentially work a 24 hour day, 7 days a week. For no money. So without any help, it’s a little inequitable for one person to work all the time. Also, just because someone works outside the home, it doesn’t exempt them from parenting their children or sticking on the dinner.
Just my take on it.
but we don’t know what he does when he comes home. I didn’t mean she should be doing it all day/night. She spends a lot of time in bed when she’s on insta I’m assuming the kids are sitting with their dad then. and she’s said numerous times he’s putting the boys to bed or bringing Ella to football. I think it’s the way she says some things rather than him not lifting a finger. A lot of mams aren’t lucky enough to be a sahm now a days & she’s always spending even her teeth so I’m sure she has access to the money. Having dinner ready I see no issue with
he had the kids when she went to turkey also just when Covid was hitting the country
My family was the same dad was out working mum was home looking after us, so dinner was made routinely for dad coming home but like if there was no dinner for some reason he wouldnt of given a hoot. Same with my own husband now he works very long hours and manys the time lands home and dinner isnt on or not ready he just helps or sits and chats about his day while i potter about gettin it finished. Bt yeah i would still say ah i better get the dinner on before he comes home, dosent mean he is going to be a wick about it if i dont have it.I may be old fashioned here but he’s out working long hours so she can stay at home with the kids. my parents did the same my mam always had the dinner ready sure she had to feed us & herself aswel and she liked us all sitting together. Even now she’d say oh I have to get home and get the dinner on for your dad. We always say you’d swear dad would kill her for not having the dinner on
the animal abuse would completely turn me off & if it’s true I’ll be unfollowing.
yes
and I’m glad now we all sat together as a family eating dinner I remember the odd time he’d be running late and we would refuse to eat without him & my dad did story & bedtime every night. The way my mam would say it sometimes she sounded like a battered wife
This is very common in ASD children it hasn’t anything to do with TV they find their own way that’s comfortable to communicate that might be emulating someone they see on TV to be honest nobody is sure but it’s very common. I’m sure most ASD parents are delighted their their are verbal.
I don't think it's old fashioned. If I'm at home all day then I will have the dinner ready for everyone. If he's at home and I'm gone to work I kind of expect my dinner to be there for me or in the process of being made. Honestly if I had the house and lifestyle and shopping that Trish has I wouldn't be sitting there thinking that I was hard done by because he expected a dinner. I know she doesn't go on like that but she definitely doesn't need defending. Her husband sounds like a great provider and she often says he has the kids doing stuff with them.I may be old fashioned here but he’s out working long hours so she can stay at home with the kids. my parents did the same my mam always had the dinner ready sure she had to feed us & herself aswel and she liked us all sitting together. Even now she’d say oh I have to get home and get the dinner on for your dad. We always say you’d swear dad would kill her for not having the dinner on
the animal abuse would completely turn me off & if it’s true I’ll be unfollowing.
Yes some people on here made it out he did nothing. From the sounds of it he’s heavily involved with the daughters football aswel. And if she can lie in bed half the day on talk to trish and have a one person rave at the weekends I think she can do whatever she wants.
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I know. Some people make her sound like a poor downtrodden housewife with a stingy husband. She seems like a fairly strong independent individual to me. I'd love to stay home and live in a lovely home with money to buy lots of crap and party like it's 1999. I think phil is a great man
yes to this. She’s not chained to the kitchen sink. Shes very lucky to be able to stay home in these times and still have it all. The only thing that’ll turn me off philo is if the animal abuse is true, I do think that’s y shes gone quiet
Exactly she said herself when she was telling the story about going to Turkey to get her teeth done that Phil said he would pay for it! She’s has openly said she gets Botox, has her nails done all the time and does plenty of online shopping! Phil is working hard to keep her happy with the things she wants.. I have to work to get all the things I want for myself in life! All she has to do is keep the house running and rare the kids she loves! It’s not easy at time but sure that’s life and looks to me like she has a pretty good one!
Ah I hope she does.
Me too... I hope it’s not more than a broken phone. But strange that it’s taken so long to get a new one.
I’d say it’s the animal cruelty. The minute it was mentioned she got a dog then disappeared. She would be better addressing it.
OR maybe she flew back to turkey wasn’t there a problem with a tooth or 2 and doesn’t want the black lash
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