What I find odd about Lydias house (and boy does she like to remind us it’s HER house) is that it’s absolutely devoid of any character. My house and I’m sure many other homes are filled with memorabilia and artwork etc from my travels and and gifts from family members. There are handmade items from local businesses and just lots of things that give off a loving vibe. It’s great to have a tidy house but it’s also nice to have a house that’s lived in and welcoming and people aren’t scared to sit down, drop something. Lydia treats her house like a hotel. It’s so cold and uninviting and it has absolutely no personality. The lady that Lydia copies from on Instagram has near enough the same decor but the house has a completely different feel so it really is true that a family makes a house a home and seeing as Lydia never seems to invite anyone around or actually have genuine relationships with people (including her own husband) I think it’ll be pretty hard for her to ever really be happy with it. She does on about hosting etc. But I think we’ve seen her use her dining room once and that was an awkward and unnatural.
As for her marriage...I do genuinely think it’s in trouble. It will rear it’s ugly head in the next couple of years. Ali is not the brightest spark, he’s vain etc. But he’s talented in his field and she hates that. Any time anyone gives Ali praise she takes it so personally. She speaks to him like an absolute pile of shit and appears to be just miserable around. His little digs are a massive giveaway that he’s not happy and recognised her bad behaviour. I know we joke about how unhealthy he looks etc. But that’s what a bad marriage can do to someone. Also - it’s been mentioned he’s been looking more and more weedy and girly and my opinion is that she’s completely emasculated him with her constant reminders of being the bread winner, her house, not letting him have any say in decor, barking orders at him. Never estimate what they can do to a mans confidence. I feel sorry for him.
I will finish by saying she will be absolutely seething about Josies house which will make very fun viewing! She’s going to implode!!
As for her marriage...I do genuinely think it’s in trouble. It will rear it’s ugly head in the next couple of years. Ali is not the brightest spark, he’s vain etc. But he’s talented in his field and she hates that. Any time anyone gives Ali praise she takes it so personally. She speaks to him like an absolute pile of shit and appears to be just miserable around. His little digs are a massive giveaway that he’s not happy and recognised her bad behaviour. I know we joke about how unhealthy he looks etc. But that’s what a bad marriage can do to someone. Also - it’s been mentioned he’s been looking more and more weedy and girly and my opinion is that she’s completely emasculated him with her constant reminders of being the bread winner, her house, not letting him have any say in decor, barking orders at him. Never estimate what they can do to a mans confidence. I feel sorry for him.
I will finish by saying she will be absolutely seething about Josies house which will make very fun viewing! She’s going to implode!!