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I wouldn’t let my other half near my little one when he had covid cos I didn’t want him to get it. Was difficult but i certainly didn’t let him do the bedtime routine etc.
 
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She asked those questions herself, almost half of them ended with xx and her responses also ended with xx or x.
 
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Why have they had a family trip to the test centre for Matt to get tested? If she’s positive she should be staying at home!
 
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Why have they had a family trip to the test centre for Matt to get tested? If she’s positive she should be staying at home!
You are allowed to leave the house if you are taking someone unwell enough to drive to an appointment legally. She said she’s not struggling with it but he really is.
 
Nova is a gorgeous little girl! Commented on her post about sleep training her and she blocked me. She left that poor baby to cry so she’d sleep, saying feeding to sleep was bad? Why??? Surely that’s better than leaving her to cry. Actually breaks my heart, lazy woman can’t tend to her daughter at night… she doesn’t even have to get up to go to work, she’s just on Instagram all day!
 
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Nova is a gorgeous little girl! Commented on her post about sleep training her and she blocked me. She left that poor baby to cry so she’d sleep, saying feeding to sleep was bad? Why??? Surely that’s better than leaving her to cry. Actually breaks my heart, lazy woman can’t tend to her daughter at night… she doesn’t even have to get up to go to work, she’s just on Instagram all day!
How do you know she’s sleep trained Nova? Makes me sad that 😭 dunno how people do it
 
How do you know she’s sleep trained Nova? Makes me sad that 😭 dunno how people do it
There’s a post she put up on it. She’s referred to it a couple of times. She said it was gentle but anybody who’s heard of Ferber it involves leaving your child in timely intervals. So child cries, you wait 2 minutes then go in, leave child cries wait 4 minutes and so on until you leave them to a time you are comfortable with…. So basically the child is crying in so much distress wanting their parent but they are being ignored and cry themselves to sleep! Not gentle. You wouldn’t leave your husband, wife, teenage daughter to cry to sleep so not sure why babies are when they have no idea what is happening and are completely defenceless! It’s very sad and it’s always made me feel like I can’t say she’s doing great being a mum simply because she doesn’t see how cruel that is… very heartless in my eyes. I have a 19 month old daughter and couldn’t imagine her crying herself to sleep breaks me!
 

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There’s a post she put up on it. She’s referred to it a couple of times. She said it was gentle but anybody who’s heard of Ferber it involves leaving your child in timely intervals. So child cries, you wait 2 minutes then go in, leave child cries wait 4 minutes and so on until you leave them to a time you are comfortable with…. So basically the child is crying in so much distress wanting their parent but they are being ignored and cry themselves to sleep! Not gentle. You wouldn’t leave your husband, wife, teenage daughter to cry to sleep so not sure why babies are when they have no idea what is happening and are completely defenceless! It’s very sad and it’s always made me feel like I can’t say she’s doing great being a mum simply because she doesn’t see how cruel that is… very heartless in my eyes. I have a 19 month old daughter and couldn’t imagine her crying herself to sleep breaks me!
I’m all for parenting how a person wants but anyone who sleep trains their child by allowing them to cry themselves to sleep is a twit
 
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I can imagine she was thrilled that because they’ve been isolating Matt’s other daughter wasn’t able to visit them for Christmas!
 
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I hate the thought of sleep training. My little one went through an awful patch of sleeping and eventually, after no sleep for weeks, my husband and I had a table booked somewhere and he flat out refused to sleep once again. We left him with grandad and he was crying but I had to leave. I felt terrible. It ruined my night (even though he did sleep within minutes of me leaving his room) and I vowed I’d never do it again. As a baby he always fell asleep on me and we would transfer him to his cot which I was told was bad. Why?! They are babies. They feel safe with you and don’t want to be left. I doubt the same babies are gonna be sharing mummy and daddy’s bed at 18yo so does it really matter. What’s worse is the fact she doesn’t even have a job to get to during the day. She doesn’t commute to an office etc, try working full time on no sleep!!
 
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She blocked you after you commented? God she is sooooo insecure, like no one can have an opinion 😂
 
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