See this is what I'm saying. There's those that wallow in their own self pity and there's those that can deal with the most awful awful situations and find a way through it. Louise is ill equipped to deal with anything, I mean if she had a nightmare we'd hear about it for days on end. She's spoiled and cosseted and let's face it has lost her place in the family as the one who needs thr most attention so in order to claw that place back we have this ludicrous poor me act.Yep. I'm one of those Mothers who have had to watch a tiny little coffin being carried. I still managed to finish my degree with a distinction three weeks after the funeral and look after my 5 year old because that's what normal people have to keep doing... not looking for sympathy but it just baffles me how victimised she is acting.