To be fair, I’m 4’10” and was rather dismayed I wasn’t told that!Also ‘a night nanny for the occasional shift’
Pull the other one, if you hire a night nanny it’s not an arrangement where you can call them if you’re feeling a bit shattered and they’ll pop on over. It’s a proper booking, for 5-6 shifts a week.
Get the impression she wanted someone to say ‘eek you are so tiny and smoll, with hips like a little rotisserie chicken, no way we will let you push a baby out! You’re the littlest expectant mother we’ve ever seen in our careers and lives!’
But no one did
Yeah, 14 year old boys are generally not tiny. The whole puberty thing and allIf anyone is struggling to read it just stick the url in here
My favorite bit is how she knew from 12 weeks pregnant that she wasn’t being listened to but also didn’t want to spend her hard earned money on going private
oh and that she said she has the body of a 14 year old boy, what a strange thing to say.
Still with the fucking bottle. Is he going to be going into reception, clutching a bot bot (almost threw up in my mouth typing that but they strike me as the type to call a bottle thatI suppose what she says must have to be true or the medical professionals involved might have something to say about it? The birth itself she makes sound like a scene from the Texas Chainsaw Massacre. No doubt something did go very wrong but clearly, she’s going to tell you the most dramatic, touch-and-go version possible.
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Dressed like a bloody yeti for another summer’s day. All these links to summer clothes yet she’s dressing herself like we are about to be hit by a blizzard. In fact, she’s not even bothered to get Leo dressed, she’s slung a coat on over his pjs and he’s got a bottle as she pushes. Lazy mare.
I agree. With my 1st I was under a lovely consultant who felt women should chose how to give birth(we took years to conceive, he felt the most important part was that I and the baby came out the other side safely), with my 2nd I met a different doc each visit- one said my height was the cut off for natural births so I should have a section and another berated me for wanting one, especially as I had a toddler at home. In the end I went into labour with my 2nd a week before section date but never dilated, her head didn’t even engage so ended up with section anyway. A nurse told me afterwards that my pelvis was too small.To be fair I wanted a c-section and my midwife tried to put me off it, saying it was a major operation and I shouldn’t do it unless I had to. I was 40 and it was an IVF pregnancy so I wanted it to be as controlled as possible but she still tried to put me off. In the end my baby was breech so I got to have one but if not I may have just given up asking like Louise did. I do think women’s instincts are ignored a lot of the time.
They clearly didn’t care that she was the first woman to be pregnant.Surely at 12 weeks you have literally had a booking appointment and a scan...what is there to be listened to
Looks like one of the dogs has shat it out
I mean the first part sounds like something that happens most days on a delivery wardI noticed that even in the midst of an emergency in hospital she still has to mention how the medical staff were so horrified by her condition that they were shaking lol.
She talks a lot about her body being like a child’s. Makes Ryan’s attraction to her all the more grim. If my partner kept talking like that I would tell them to please stop and if they didn’t I would find it a massive turn off.If anyone is struggling to read it just stick the url in here
My favorite bit is how she knew from 12 weeks pregnant that she wasn’t being listened to but also didn’t want to spend her hard earned money on going private
oh and that she said she has the body of a 14 year old boy, what a strange thing to say.
BIB this is what I thought reading it. I've been in a few obstetric emergencies and it is calm, relatively quiet and there would be someone overseeing it and being scribe. Usually the anaesthetist because they are the head of the patient and have a good overview of the theatre.The things that jumped out to me (medic but not obs&gyn) 1) any theatre I've ever been in has got eirely quite & calm when there's an emergency. In fact the bigger the emergency the calmer we go. 2) it's very very unusual for her to be awake for 3 1/2 hours whilst they operated, it would be very usual & safer to convert to a GA. This could be done within minutes 3) I imagine the scan had been hot read (IE quick look for anything life and death) but was waiting for a full in detail report by a specialist. 4) It is possible to lose more that your blood volume, basically we're pumping it in and that's coming out too. 5) I'm surprised if it was a rupture with associated ++ hemorrhage to the extent she says they didn't opt for a hysterectomy.
But saying all that, I had a tricky birth EMCS, PPH etc etc and what I remember & what is true are two different things. It's very strange, I had a debrief with my consultant and if my husband hadn't been there nodding along to her recount I would of sworn they had someone else's notes by mistake because those things hadn't happened to me and my time scale for events occuring was well off. So strange not being able to trust your own memory and I should of been able to make sense of it more than most.
Due to patient confidentiality no staff will be able to comment to confirm or deny anything she's said. I imagine there's a fair few eye rolls going on between them though.
I do believe she lost that amount of blood. Which is obviously very scary.I imagine there’s truth in what she said but it is highly embellished. The more I see of TT the more it becomes clear that she has quite serious mental issues and is an absolutely massive liar.
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