That was a real bloody ‘I know it all story’. I don’t swaddle them during the day cause then they associate it with nighttime. Jesus Christ she’s insufferable. Horrendous. Her main priority every day is getting them to sleep as much as possible. Where are the baby gyms, bouncers, toys etc? Yeah they’re young but I still played with toys with my baby it’s very good for them. I even read to my 5 month old. We see none of that. It’s just feed sleep feed sleep. It’s infuriating. She won’t even bring them out for a walk. For someone who wanted these babies so much, she makes minimal effort and thinks that cause she pumps, she’s a hero. I’m afraid it doesn’t work that way. No one gives a tit how you feed them