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All this girl has to offer to society is how to brush her eyebrows and the shades of hair colour she has used on her hair at the hairdressers. All this is whilst her husband slogs away at work and her parents watch River. She isn’t living in the real world whatsoever is she?
 
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Hair done, 2 cars, new baby on the way, drunk elephant and refy skin care, constant shopping. Do you want to share the seeds of your money tree Jade?
But no, hang on.. She’s skint isn’t she 🤔
 
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It’s only because her Bezzie Emz has mentioned about her own child and autism
 
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“It’s not your fault” if your child is delayed. Well in most cases yes but if the child has a lazy mother who spends more time pampering herself, lives in la la land, barely took him anywhere for the first couple of years of his life and was too busy feigning hyperemisis for months with her second pregnancy at a crucial language learning time I think it somewhat is her fault he’s not made more progress. Obviously neurodiversity is no one’s fault (if he potentially is) but she certainly hasn’t helped matters. And I find it hilarious how she’s been to one appointment and is now acting like a speech and language guru 🤦🏼‍♀️ trying to give tips to her followers.
 
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That's a bit of a turn around from saying don't worry, kids do things in their own time 🙄
 
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Poor boy is going to end up so confused by getting dressed in gender natural and long hair aswell. Wondering if she actually done anything to try and help his speech. The girl has so much problems and needs so much help.
 
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And I find it hilarious how she’s been to one appointment and is now acting like a speech and language guru 🤦🏼‍♀️ trying to give tips to her followers.
She came across as a patronising wick and I completely agree, one appointment and she’s an expert. Jade Beb the “mothers” didn’t message you because you mentioned Rivers speech a year ago, they messaged because it’s as clear as those bleeping ridiculous brows on your face that the child has additional needs. Clear to everyone except you!
And duck off with your condescending “it’s not your fault”
I’m going to have to unfollow I think or mute her for 6 months 😂
 
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Poor boy is going to end up so confused by getting dressed in gender natural and long hair aswell. Wondering if she actually done anything to try and help his speech. The girl has so much problems and needs so much help.
What will he be confused about? Jade is a fool but this comment doesn't make any sense. Children couldn't care less what clothes they are wearing 😅
 
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What will he be confused about? Jade is a fool but this comment doesn't make any sense. Children couldn't care less what clothes they are wearing 😅
I don’t disagree BUT I do think it’s unhealthy for a child to have it made so very clear that their mother wanted a girl and is obviously trying to give the world the impression that the child is, in fact, a girl. Like for me, it’s about the attitude from Jade, iyswim? I don’t believe she’s aiming for gender neutral at all.
 
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I don’t disagree BUT I do think it’s unhealthy for a child to have it made so very clear that their mother wanted a girl and is obviously trying to give the world the impression that the child is, in fact, a girl. Like for me, it’s about the attitude from Jade, iyswim? I don’t believe she’s aiming for gender neutral at all.
I agree, I love long hair on boys and clothes that aren’t just blue with footballs on, but she isn’t doing it for that reason, she’s doing it because she wanted a girl
 
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Yeah I get what yous are saying. The op made it seem R would be confused because of his clothes. When in actual fact R will have a complex because his mother has a weird obsession with gender.
Boys clothes are gross though. Not all boys want navy blue dinos!
 
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She's beyond dense, isn't she? Speech & language therapy...no mention of autism. I'm guessing the health visitor is one of these ones who is about as much use as a chocolate fireguard. Can none of them see beyond the complete absence of language and notice the lack of emotion or expression in response to seemingly anything? Utterly deluded. & this waffle about it not being a parents fault if their child is delayed - who is she trying to convince? Of course it isn't a parents fault if a child is delayed, has autism, etc etc - but it IS absolutely the fault of the parent when they do bugger all to help their child & swan about so bleeping irresponsibly.
 
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She's beyond dense, isn't she? Speech & language therapy...no mention of autism. I'm guessing the health visitor is one of these ones who is about as much use as a chocolate fireguard. Can none of them see beyond the complete absence of language and notice the lack of emotion or expression in response to seemingly anything? Utterly deluded. & this waffle about it not being a parents fault if their child is delayed - who is she trying to convince? Of course it isn't a parents fault if a child is delayed, has autism, etc etc - but it IS absolutely the fault of the parent when they do bugger all to help their child & swan about so bleeping irresponsibly.
100%. My son is 3.5 and autistic and starting school in September. I’m lucky enough that I’ve had good support and his EHCP is finalised and ready to go. Although more fighting continues because the LA want to put him in a mainstream against every body else’s views.
The fight is hard but we have to do it for our babies. I also had a newborn a few weeks before we knew he was autistic. That was hard, too 😵💫. She has no idea what’s coming. I hope she seeks help for him sooner rather than later.
 
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The guru has spoken …”your child will get there, they really, really will” no Jade some of them won’t. As much as I hope and pray my son will talk, he might not.
She is 100% oblivious to what’s staring her in the face
 
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Her reel does not achieve what she thinks it is achieving. She has no warmth or sincerity in her voice. It is bland, clearly being read off a script and cold. The message ‘they will all get there eventually’ is also incredibly inaccurate - it shows how she has never taken River’s delayed development serious and she’s just jumping on a bandwagon now that LifethroughEmseyes has shared Olive’s difficulties. It’s also encouraging the mindset if doing nothing additional to support the child - which is an incredibly dangerous message to normali

Some children will not reach some milestones… ever… it doesn’t make them any less amazing nor the Mother any less incredible - infact SEND parents who advocate and fight for their children have a special kind of strength and resilience that is akin to a superpower, and one I bet they never even knew they had themselves!

i wish she would think harder and longer about things instead of just ‘what will make me more popular on social media’
 
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Her reel does not achieve what she thinks it is achieving. She has no warmth or sincerity in her voice. It is bland, clearly being read off a script and cold. The message ‘they will all get there eventually’ is also incredibly inaccurate - it shows how she has never taken River’s delayed development serious and she’s just jumping on a bandwagon now that LifethroughEmseyes has shared Olive’s difficulties. It’s also encouraging the mindset if doing nothing additional to support the child - which is an incredibly dangerous message to normali

Some children will not reach some milestones… ever… it doesn’t make them any less amazing nor the Mother any less incredible - infact SEND parents who advocate and fight for their children have a special kind of strength and resilience that is akin to a superpower, and one I bet they never even knew they had themselves!

i wish she would think harder and longer about things instead of just ‘what will make me more popular on social media’
This made me so emotional ❤❤ you said it all perfectly ❤
 
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