I went to toddler group today with my 2 year old . There was a mum there with twin girls about the same age as Ems. Surprisingly she managed to take them out of the pram independently, carry them both alone, put them down alone and keep them entertained alone. She also didn't expect any special treatment and SHOCK HORROR! She payed for each child separately and didn't ask for a twin discount someone needs to tell Em you can lead a normal life even with TWO BABIES!!!!