I know she reads here so I had to send a reply to her rant. Get a grip ! You do not work, I know from experience how little it takes to make a few lunch boxes, get the school uniform ready. Get up earlier in the morning if need be. Your house is tiny there is actually no excuse for not being able to be reasonably on top of the house work when that is all you need to do durning the day. We never see you doing homework with the children. You are happy that Kev can’t drive, you wouldn’t be willing for him to have lessons and I don’t believe you would be happy paying for the increased insurance cost for him being named on insurance. I honestly don’t know who she thinks she is, but what does she offer to marriage, she never seems to do anything for Kev, why does she expect him to make money and do everything else. We would let her off a little if she seemed kind, caring, loving, interesting/ funny , wasn’t moaning all the time. But she honestly is none of those things. She needs a long look in the mirror !