Why are people so obsessed with Kyle having contact with laurens kids though ? If lauren wasn’t in the papers every 2 minutes would anyone actually care ? If Kyle wasn’t a premier league footballer would anyone care ?
You’re right when you say he has enough money he could force contact and he hasnt so therefore doesn’t want contact.
It’s sad for those 2 children that they were born into this situation. It’s also sad that Kyle’s other kids will be affected by the whole mess.
As someone who had a dad who was physically present but in reality couldn't care less about me or my sister, believe me when I say it's better to have no dad than to have one who's forced to be involved but would rather be anywhere else but with you as would likely be the case if Kyle was forced to have contact in the current circumstances.
As sad as it is, no one can be made to be like or love someone, unfortunately even when it's their own flesh and blood
I blame both my parents but my dad's half arsed effort and interest in our lives has caused me and my sister all sorts of issues....self worth problems, trying to fix men when we should just walk away, struggling to ever ask for help as we grew up feeling like a burden and an inconvenience to my dad's life and so on and so forth...I honestly believe my life would have been better, and id have had less issues as an adult if my mum had been a single parent and we'd never seen my dad.
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@Okgolightly has suggested, if he absolutely wanted to, Kyle has the resources to force contact, the fact he doesn't says he doesn't want to be in their lives. Whilst it is absolutely despicable on Kyle's part and mind boggling that he would indeed put himself in a situation again where he could conceive another child with the nightmare woman whose made his wife's life hell since 2019, based on what you are saying he should just have to have contact anyways because he "went there again" regardless of if he feels nothing for the 2 kw's, especially in comparison to his other kids who he obviously adores. If he was to do that, trust me Laurens kids will pick up on it eventually and end up people pleasers with inferiority complexes like me and my sis.
