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Correct me if I’m wrong . I’ve just seen a post on Facebook that Kelsey has moved on already ?
also says they started dating early this year ? Bit soon isn’t it . I’m trying not to judge but jeez it’s not even been a year

I wonder was the relationship as good as she made out with Tom . I always thought was something about her that was off
 
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I’m gonna say it
I really think Toms illness was a total inconvenience to her
And as poster above said yes I totally agree she was angry that he was ill and going to die because he was the famous one and not her!
Without him she is nothing hence why she is riding the grieving wife coat tails
She has been left with two young kids
It’s not how she imagined all this to be
They had only just got married and in her eyes it was all going so well and this was just the beginning of the wonderfull life she thought she had ahead of her and now she has been left with nothing
To be honest it’s a wake up call for all of us
We never know what’s around the corner
 
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understand thinking positive , I understand that if one of your family members got diagnosed with a terminal illness of course it would be hard to process and hurt you to think about or talk about cause nobody would want to face the reality of someone they love is most likely going to die and doesn’t have long left but when in moments like that as much as you have the right to feel so upset , you have to think of how the person who’s been diagnosed must feel cause their pain is a million times worse cause they are the one who will die and will miss out on so many future things in life like seeing their kids grow up. Therefore you have to be considerate and supportive of that person so if they are having a day where they want to cry and feel sad and all they want is your comfort then you should provide that because if it was the other way round you would hope they would do that for you too. He needed her in that moment to go for a walk with him even if they didn’t speak about the cancer , she could of just walked with him and hugged him just the two of them together but she couldn’t even give him that cause she was more annoyed that the person who brought fame and money into her life would soon not be here anymore and losing that same level of fame and attention made her bitter.
I've unfortunately had three family members who've had a terminal diagnosis and since passed away. From my experience it has to be solely about them. They need to talk about it, you talk about it. They don't, you don't.
The time for you to deal with your feelings and emotions comes afterwards once you've supported your person in the way they need.

I can't imagine how she's been able to get out and talk about things the way she has or how she's been away from her babies so much. Surely you'd want to cuddle them up and love them as much as you could.
 
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She should have put everything into her kids, they need love and stability, her swanning off for fake grieving events and dating a man with that history is the LAST they need.
Wonder how the documentary will go down now 😳🫣
No wonder his family have unfollowed her then . And some of the wanted band members
I mean it’s fine to move on but not this soon and at least pick a decent man . Tom and toms family would not want a man who killed another around the children …. She seems the type to stop contact if they don’t agree to her new man 🤔
 
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No wonder his family have unfollowed her then . And some of the wanted band members
I mean it’s fine to move on but not this soon and at least pick a decent man . Tom and toms family would not want a man who killed another around the children …. She seems the type to stop contact if they don’t agree to her new man 🤔
who from TW has unfollowed her? just went to do a stalk on insta and it says that only she can see all followers (which is weird in itself)!
 
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who from TW has unfollowed her? just went to do a stalk on insta and it says that only she can see all followers (which is weird in itself)!
I read on here or toms page that some of the band have unfollowed her I don’t use Instagram so I wouldn’t know if it’s true xx somebody said toms brother also unfollowed her x

I personally wouldn’t be surprised if she was looking around when Tom was around. When she found out it was terminal or when he was deteriorating. I always had weird vibes from her even in the TW days before the break up she comes across as this squeaky clean, party girl similar too Tom but I do think it was more an act to seem like these couple goals
Thing is people will be talking in her circle . My friend his wife died of cancer age 32 they was together since being young . 6 months later he was in a relationship with another girl and everybody was talking about it and not good things either . A lot of people fell out with him especially his wife’s family .
 
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A lot of people don't know how to be single. Coping can be railroading into a brand new (usually wrong) relationship and trying to gloss over the trauma you've been through, bury it and move on. Only to crash and burn a few months / years later.
I remember there was a young doctor in UK who lost his wife / childhood love to cancer and was in a new relationship five minutes later with a woman that looked astonishingly similar to her. He was a bit of a Simon Thomas type character, all over the media, then suddenly vanished and I remember seeing that he had broken up with the rebound and moved out of medicine to become an artist. That to me is so obviously the actions of someone trying to cope with trauma.

Could be the same for Kelsey here, keeping busy, throwing herself into everything, new celeb friends, new man. It looks like someone NOT dealing with what just happened. Which is so sad for her children, because they are the biggest victims here. This is childhood trauma and abandonment, it really really fcuks with people later in life. They're so young and vulnerable. I have so much empathy for her, but also for them as she's just not being a very good mother with all of this.
 
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My Dad's terminally ill with liver cancer, and my sister is pushing "positivity" with him. It's really stressing him out, to the point that last night, she was trying to get him to walk around (he'd had a nasty fall hours before and was badly shaken). I've told her time and time again to respect that he's dying, he's scared and doesn't need bleeping prayers or encouraging - it's his journey, not hers.

Getting the exact same vibe from Kelsey. Poor Tom :cry:
 
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Watching that interview I'm getting Meghan Markle vibes from her, she does that same thing of staring at him intently while he speaks and then constantly speaking over him.
 
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She is absolutely despicable. I started to sense she was fame hungry when Tom was still alive but didn’t think she would be this bad. I feel so sorry for Tom’s family who are still grieving and have to witness her in her element, going to events, hanging with z listers and dating a criminal. Those poor poor people and let’s not forget the impact this will have on the kids.
 
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who from TW has unfollowed her? just went to do a stalk on insta and it says that only she can see all followers (which is weird in itself)!
Max, Siva and Jay still follow her - Nathan doesn’t, but he never has.
Lewis no longer follows Kelsey or the kids (although he does follow the other Kelsey!) Tom’s mum, Noreen follows Kelsey, but she doesn’t follow her back 🤷🏼‍♀️

A lot of people don't know how to be single. Coping can be railroading into a brand new (usually wrong) relationship and trying to gloss over the trauma you've been through, bury it and move on. Only to crash and burn a few months / years later.
I remember there was a young doctor in UK who lost his wife / childhood love to cancer and was in a new relationship five minutes later with a woman that looked astonishingly similar to her. He was a bit of a Simon Thomas type character, all over the media, then suddenly vanished and I remember seeing that he had broken up with the rebound and moved out of medicine to become an artist. That to me is so obviously the actions of someone trying to cope with trauma.

Could be the same for Kelsey here, keeping busy, throwing herself into everything, new celeb friends, new man. It looks like someone NOT dealing with what just happened. Which is so sad for her children, because they are the biggest victims here. This is childhood traumaj and abandonment, it really really fcuks with people later in life. They're so young and vulnerable. I have so much empathy for her, but also for them as she's just not being a very good mother with all of this.
BIB: Exactly this! All this “Kelsey deserves to happy” stuff - No!! The kids need caring for first and foremost and then she should address herself. Her happiness shouldn’t come at the detrement of her children’s wellbeing and happiness.
 
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I was/am a fan of Tom but not through the wanted and that man would have moved heaven and earth to be with her as much as possible when on tour, if the venue was commutable he would travel more then necessary!

Tom would have done anything for anyone, which is why I think he did the tour it was a goodbye to the fans, I honestly don't think anyone could have stopped him getting on that stage despite how ill he was, I just wish his babies could have seen their daddy at his best, not what that b disease made him.

I agree Kelsey deserves to be happy but she's seemingly been happy for a long time now with the exception of the convenient insta stories when she's sad. I think/know Tom would have wanted her happy but I also know he would have had a lot to say if he was watching someone else move on this quick
 
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who from TW has unfollowed her? just went to do a stalk on insta and it says that only she can see all followers (which is weird in itself)!
Max unfollowed her a while back she is now and influencer off the back of poor Toms death her kids lost their dad this year the need her now more than ever. And wow what a horrid person she’s with so disrespectful to Tom the kids and his poor family 💔
 
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Max unfollowed her a while back she is now and influencer off the back of poor Toms death her kids lost their dad this year the need her now more than ever. And wow what a horrid person she’s with so disrespectful to Tom the kids and his poor family 💔
Max George? He’s following her now
 
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I listened to her on happy baby happy mum today and I'm really shocked by how much she said she told him to not wallow etc.
I understand it to a point but he'd just been told he had a brain tumour, he knew then he was likely to die. Surely he's allowed to wallow if he wanted. Fml his entire life was changing and it was all about her.
Then when she was talking about playing the royal Albert Hall and he was scared as he'd lost use of his arm and she basically forced him.
I'm really shocked that she would force him to do things. Then the way she talked about telling her daughter he was dead. I know I've no experience of this but she was so young. I get being honest but the language used could have been gentler.

The moving on thing. I can't imagine doing it so quickly. My aunt was poorly for a year before she died, we all knew she was going to die. Her husband hasn't moved on and we are 4 years down the line. He says he did grieve for the life they should have had whilst she was poorly, but grieves for her and everything he lost when she passed.
I know she's young, but I can't imagine it. So publicly too.
 
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Only recently been aware of this person, but reading up on things, she gives off bad vibes, to say the least
 
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