Kelsey Parker

[Blondeangel2515]

Now I get this grieving when he had a diagnosis but I always think mental and physical grieve is different. She probably grieved mentally when he was diagnosed and physical grief when he physically left left us.

it maybe different but I don’t understand how she moved on or date someone already. I’m 18 months on after breaking up with my ex who I was with for 5 years and I still can’t think about dating again or interested in finding anyone like I cba and that’s just an break up (he wasn’t abusive etc) but to think Kelsey’s doing this when her husband who she’s been with for years past away less than a year is absolutely mad think it looks more than her and toms relationship might of been one sided at times

 

[Unicorn_Poop]

Those poor children are so little, she should be focused on them. They won't understand where daddy has gone to. I cannot imagine moving on within months at all but especially with young children.

So sad
They’re at a time where now more than ever they need stability and the unwavering love and attention from their surviving parent

 

[lucyloo11]

She was always a money grabbing, attention seeking cav. Always wore the trousers. She posted an ‘I’m having a bad day’ story the other day. It got cut off. When she reappeared two minutes later, the tears had dried up and she unconvincingly re-iterated she was having a bad day. The moment had been lost though, sorry. Am I surprised she’s moved on so soon? No. Am I surprised he’s been in jail? No not really.

 

[justheretoread99]

Can I please ask the following?

When did your opinion of Kelsey change from being a grieving widow, to selfishlessly enjoying the limelight?

= Within a month of Tom’s funeral & after the Loose Women & Sun interviews where she appeared cold & gave away personal info of Tom’s final hours

= Attending numerous celebrations, awards & events…spending so much time away from the kids.

Since hearing about this new boyfriend.

Just curious to know when the tide turned really. Thanks x

I reacted/voted with a But my opinion of her changed when Tom was still alive sadly.

 

[fcuk1979]

I reacted/voted with a But my opinion of her changed when Tom was still alive sadly.

for me it was when she kept saying “positive Parker’s” and ramming that narrative on every interview and Instagram post. She was already developing her brand as this “strong widow.” Pissed me right off- I mean there is a sense of doctor is don’t know everything and I support that- but god what must he have been feeling with her ramming that down his neck.

 

[lalalandx21]

I was shocked when I listened to her on Giovanna fletchers podcast I was excepting to cry my eyes out but she sounds like she fixes zero ducks it’s mad so devoid of any emotion

Literally she does not care

 

[CarrierPigeon]

for me it was when she kept saying “positive Parker’s” and ramming that narrative on every interview and Instagram post. She was already developing her brand as this “strong widow.” Pissed me right off- I mean there is a sense of doctor is don’t know everything and I support that- but god what must he have been feeling with her ramming that down his neck.

I know, someone was talking about Toxic Positivity the other day, and I completely thought of her and than bloomin Positive Parkers malarkey!

 

[Scutty]

New to the Tom Parker/this this. I don't know if this has been covered so sorry if it has but did Tom have a lot of money to leave behind and she's just fame hungry or is she doing all this to get money ?

 

[OrcaRed]

I hate to say it but I really think she pushed Tom to do all these things and be so positive 24/7 which isn’t always a bad thing but I think it went and has gone way too far. She doesn’t seem positive she just seems delusional

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

Yes, and even the dogs that he adored - one of them, Buddy, lives with her aunt now

Honestly the more I hear about this woman… she’s absolutely awful! Strange, I watched one of her interviews and I had this awful vibe from her! She literally could have been on tv talking about a fitness dvd for the amount of raw emotion and empathy she showed. The REAL her is becoming more clearer by the day!

The one with both of them and she constantly talks over Tom?
That was awful, and to
think that it was only October last year too - less than 12 months she’s with someone else!!

Anyone know where to find the This Morning interview? It seems a lot of people feel the same about her talking over him. It was Steph’s packed lunch where I seen her I’m sure. She’s certainly been doing the rounds (all for awareness of course )

 

[Neycroo]

Honestly the more I hear about this woman… she’s absolutely awful! Strange, I watched one of her interviews and I had this awful vibe from her! She literally could have been on tv talking about a fitness dvd for the amount of raw emotion and empathy she showed. The REAL her is becoming more clearer by the day!


Anyone know where to find the This Morning interview? It seems a lot of people feel the same about her talking over him. It was Steph’s packed lunch where I seen her I’m sure. She’s certainly been doing the rounds (all for awareness of course )

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

Thank you so much! x

 

[noseynopinions]

She is unbearable in that interview. Constantly talking over him and making things about her!

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

She is unbearable in that interview. Constantly talking over him and making things about her!

The amount of times when Phil was asking a question directly about him she buys in and says “we are ….. Also the big smiles at the start and throughout the interview, I would be absolutely devastated if it was my husband, I couldn’t even force myself to act positive and happy.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Thank you so much! x

You can see that both Phil & Holly are getting frustrated with her - especially at 4.35!

 

[Mayday]

New to the Tom Parker/this this. I don't know if this has been covered so sorry if it has but did Tom have a lot of money to leave behind and she's just fame hungry or is she doing all this to get money ?

I don't know if they ever talked about money publicly, but I don't think they had tons (obviously more than the average person though). The Wanted didn't really succeed in the international market, and I remember there was an article at one point where they said they were skint and envious of how much 1D were earning. I imagine he was able to leave behind some of the money he made on the reunion tour, but Ed Sheeran paid for some of his medical bills.

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

You can see that both Phil & Holly are getting frustrated with her - especially at 4.35!

Phil was quite specific in asking him “what do YOU” that was quite standout. She seemed to be enjoying that a bit too much for my liking

 

[lastdis]

Look at 1.49. She kinda pushes his arm down. Don’t like that

 

[account70032]

I can’t remember if it was his documentary or something else but Kelsey was speaking and she said something like “he came home from the hospital and all he wanted to do was cry. He wanted me to go for a walk with him just the two of us to talk but there was no way I was going on a walk with him cause I knew all he’d be doing is crying and wanting to talk so I made my friend Kelsey go for the walk with him instead”. It was something like that she said and she said it in such an unemotional and uninterested way with no empathy almost like she found it ridiculous that he needed comfort in that moment and irritated with him for being sad like she just wanted him to get over it and act happy and positive.

I understand thinking positive , I understand that if one of your family members got diagnosed with a terminal illness of course it would be hard to process and hurt you to think about or talk about cause nobody would want to face the reality of someone they love is most likely going to die and doesn’t have long left but when in moments like that as much as you have the right to feel so upset , you have to think of how the person who’s been diagnosed must feel cause their pain is a million times worse cause they are the one who will die and will miss out on so many future things in life like seeing their kids grow up. Therefore you have to be considerate and supportive of that person so if they are having a day where they want to cry and feel sad and all they want is your comfort then you should provide that because if it was the other way round you would hope they would do that for you too. He needed her in that moment to go for a walk with him even if they didn’t speak about the cancer , she could of just walked with him and hugged him just the two of them together but she couldn’t even give him that cause she was more annoyed that the person who brought fame and money into her life would soon not be here anymore and losing that same level of fame and attention made her bitter.
The wanted weren’t super famous obviously but Tom still had a decent fan base who followed him and kept up with his life on social media and Kelsey benefitted a lot from Tom’s fame and cause he’s no longer here , people aren’t as interested in her cause she wasn’t in the wanted and this is why she’s desperate to keep her name out there and get famous even if it means not spending much time with her kids and using Toms illness as a way to get the fame she will selfishly do whatever it takes and shame on her cause it’s one thing to want to financially provide for your kids but it’s another thing to act the way she has.


I understand people have the right to move on and yes she’s young so it makes sense as to why she wouldn’t be single forever but 8 months in my opinion is way too soon. Yes once someone gets diagnosed you would start to grieve but the man was still alive during that time he still posted how much he was in love with her so if she fell out of love with him during that time then that’s sad or was she ever super in love with him at all it would make you question a lot of things just from how she’s been behaving. Getting a new man the same year your husband died isn’t ok. People are able to stay single way longer than that , people who have had long term relationships and been heartbroken it ended have been able to stay single for longer than that focusing on themselves mentally. I think Kelsey should of took this year to heal and focus on the kids cause they’re so little so it’s more confusing for them. Her behaviour is very hypocritical but at the end of the day she can live her life how she wants it’s just very hurtful and disrespectful to Tom, the kids and Toms family. You’d think if you were so in love with someone and been with them a very long time you wouldn’t even be thinking about being with someone else for quite some time. No disrespect to anyone who has moved on fast after losing someone but I’m just speaking about Kelsey cause she says one thing then does another and I can’t imagine Tom would of expected her to move on that quick.

As for Kelsey speaking on this morning acting like it was her interview rather than Toms you can see she’s loving being on tv and the attention. I know beforehand he might have asked her could she speak for him at times if he’s tired or nervous but she wasn’t even giving him much of a chance to speak if he he did want to , touching his arm almost as if to say it’s my turn to speak it’s weird.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

I don't know if they ever talked about money publicly, but I don't think they had tons (obviously more than the average person though). The Wanted didn't really succeed in the international market, and I remember there was an article at one point where they said they were skint and envious of how much 1D were earning. I imagine he was able to leave behind some of the money he made on the reunion tour, but Ed Sheeran paid for some of his medical bills.

I really hope Tom made the decision to put money into a trust fund for his kids and that any future earnings from his book and royalties goes straight to them…and not to her!!