I made assumptions about the brother and I apologise for that, I shouldn't have commented on his circumstances.
My main point is she isn't working at the moment, she got made redundant in December, we're approaching August. I know there's a pandemic going on, plenty of opportunities to find work, yes may not be what she wants but to bridge a gap in employment and have some income is better than nothing? I would rather work full time than try and depend on income from the likes of instagram. We have seen in the last week that Dare are no longer working with her, it's a fickle place, give me a guaranteed wage over that any day.
There's a massive difference between wanting rid of your kids and wanting them to succeed in life, sitting at home in my garden singing into your phone won't help with anything. My home will always be there for my kids, a whole off yet considering not all of them are at primary school yet but I will be encouraging them to dream big and go out and achieve it.