But look at your story compare to Kirsty. You are clearly not lazy and you are supporting your parents. Maybe your situation is not the ideal but good on you. It’s not her living at home that is the problem, it’s her and her attitude that have led to her being in her position. If she’d had a job all this time and was saving or at least had something to show for her life then fine. On the flip side she may have gone through a bad patch, mental health problem or something like that which again is totally understandable for someone in that position to take refuge with family. But in that case why doesn’t she let it be known? She shares every other detail of her life when it suits her.
Bottom line is I don’t think anyone here is shaming people who still live with parents as one group of people. Kirsty is just one of a kind!!