I'll be really disappointed if she doesn't do some kind of mea culpa today on the Andrew Tate stuff given what happened overnight. She's found time to post her usual promo stuff...
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Oh my god the balcony fire was ridiculous!I know it's parasocial and probably a bit creepy/weird to say this but I have started to become genuinely a bit concerned about her. She seems quite lost atm. I've listened to her podcast since it first began, in lockdown 2020, and she seems different now - she seems cowed somehow. It's as though he has gradually exerted some kind of hypnotic hold over her?! At first I actually liked him but now I find him quite sinister - he's obviously pretty far to the right politically and socially, and I think in his case it's encompassed some viewpoints that are veering towards misogynistic.
I think she absolutely adores Bobby to an unhealthy degree and I think she has a lot of insecurity over the relationship - she makes so many allusions to how he's better looking than her, in what I know is supposed to be self-deprecating humour, but I think there's a ring of truth in the sense that it's how she genuinely feels. I think there's a chance that what she perceives to be communication and compromise on both their parts is actually something akin to the brainwashing the likes of Andrew Tate partake in. This is a silly example, but the story of how Bobby told her a bird lit their balcony on fire with a lit cigarette and it wasn't him smoking that caused it...if that was a joke, she played it so dry that I couldn't tell...Another less silly example is how he apparently didn't do any of the night stuff with Fred, ever, because he 'needs more sleep' despite Katherine working what seem to be pretty crazy hours. I'm not saying he isn't working being at home with the kids, but it's mad to me that he never did any of the nights?
I just get the vibe that she's lost some of her sense of self since being with him.
Of course this could all be utter guff - I hope it is! Parasocial relationships and thinking you know someone from listening to a weekly podcastHopefully she's genuinely as happy and healthy and empowered as she insists she is
I agree that she has changed since BK and I feel like she does a lot of pacifying and justifying with his behaviour. Violet was her entire world and then suddenly it seemed like BK took over. I think she genuinely tries to stay open minded but it blurs into not rocking the boat and trying not to emasculate him.
she may be having a wobble after the birth and not quite herself. She sounded really vulnerable about how she looked during the birth and asked him about it and he genuinely did not seem to care/ gave a good response but I felt bad for her as it is such a vulnerable moment, it’s v beautiful etc in its own way but ultimately not remotely flattering.The last thing you want to worry about is not looking hot for BK. Reminded me of the fart episode in sex and the city when Carrie realises she’s always acting a part with mr Big and doesn’t dare show the real her.
Couldn't agree more, you've summed it up better than me! My husband saw me give birth twice and he also saw some tit both literally and figuratively 
and I can't remember worrying for a moment about how it may have affected his attraction to me - I certainly didn't dwell on it the way she seemed to.
She obviously has an extremely strong work ethic but I also worry that she does far too much - she has been very strident about how it's unfeminist to question the fact she doesn't take maternity leave, and I can see her point - but the woman works all the hours God sends and then doesn't get to sleep! That is going to take a physical and mental toll...
and I can't remember worrying for a moment about how it may have affected his attraction to me - I certainly didn't dwell on it the way she seemed to.She obviously has an extremely strong work ethic but I also worry that she does far too much - she has been very strident about how it's unfeminist to question the fact she doesn't take maternity leave, and I can see her point - but the woman works all the hours God sends and then doesn't get to sleep! That is going to take a physical and mental toll...
She called him her mentor in one podcast episode recently.
Conspiracy theory time but I reckon part of this comes from Bobby’s influence. She said in her standup (another advert, haven’t seen the full thing) that he’s a Tory.
I could not stop shitting during my second birth. Truly awfulCouldn't agree more, you've summed it up better than me! My husband saw me give birth twice and he also saw some tit both literally and figuratively
She obviously has an extremely strong work ethic but I also worry that she does far too much - she has been very strident about how it's unfeminist to question the fact she doesn't take maternity leave, and I can see her point - but the woman works all the hours God sends and then doesn't get to sleep! That is going to take a physical and mental toll...
.I feel the same, Bobby gives me a massive red flag. I used to like him before but now…? I’m not sure.I know it's parasocial and probably a bit creepy/weird to say this but I have started to become genuinely a bit concerned about her. She seems quite lost atm. I've listened to her podcast since it first began, in lockdown 2020, and she seems different now - she seems cowed somehow. It's as though he has gradually exerted some kind of hypnotic hold over her?! At first I actually liked him but now I find him quite sinister - he's obviously pretty far to the right politically and socially, and I think in his case it's encompassed some viewpoints that are veering towards misogynistic.
I think she absolutely adores Bobby to an unhealthy degree and I think she has a lot of insecurity over the relationship - she makes so many allusions to how he's better looking than her, in what I know is supposed to be self-deprecating humour, but I think there's a ring of truth in the sense that it's how she genuinely feels. I think there's a chance that what she perceives to be communication and compromise on both their parts is actually something akin to the brainwashing the likes of Andrew Tate partake in. This is a silly example, but the story of how Bobby told her a bird lit their balcony on fire with a lit cigarette and it wasn't him smoking that caused it...if that was a joke, she played it so dry that I couldn't tell...Another less silly example is how he apparently didn't do any of the night stuff with Fred, ever, because he 'needs more sleep' despite Katherine working what seem to be pretty crazy hours. I'm not saying he isn't working being at home with the kids, but it's mad to me that he never did any of the nights?
I just get the vibe that she's lost some of her sense of self since being with him.
Of course this could all be utter guff - I hope it is! Parasocial relationships and thinking you know someone from listening to a weekly podcast
I've never found her funny, I've always thought she seemed very ingenuine, I'm surprised Romesh Ranganathan wanted to work with her after reading this thread tbh. If she's like this on the podcast imagine what she's liked when she isn't being recorded
I hope she doesn't do another podcast about Tattle 
although what I'm saying is coming from a place of genuine affection and concern, if you are reading Katherine - remember, what other people think about you (and your husband...) is none of your business...
...unless you need help - in which case put the code phrase "Burger King has gone downhill" in the podcast, or blink three times rapidly the next time you're on 8 out of 10 Cats
although what I'm saying is coming from a place of genuine affection and concern, if you are reading Katherine - remember, what other people think about you (and your husband...) is none of your business......unless you need help - in which case put the code phrase "Burger King has gone downhill" in the podcast, or blink three times rapidly the next time you're on 8 out of 10 Cats
I don’t know anything about Romesh, is there something she does that he’s against?
She also said that it's important to ensure you and your husband/partner agree on the "big stuff". I agree 100% but, to me, they seem opposed on the big stuff - unless she is actually coming round to his way of thinking?!?!?! Also. The packet food. Does the odd packet now and again cause any problem? Of course not. But given she literally funds the whole family, stays awake all night with the kids while he sleeps and plays golf, surely he could do this one thing for her and cook Fred fresh food. I used to think he was okay but now I'm seeing a lot of ref flags tbh. If she wrote a letter to herself about her situation, I think she'd say GTFO.
I had some questional opinions before I met my husband. But he was more open minded and he spent a lot of time and energy on educating me on stuff and I am a different person. I think going from the way she was to the way she is now is a massive MASSIVE step back!
She sounds nuts on that most recent podcast tbh, repeating the megan stallion stuff, the Andrew Tate whataboutery, the praying and thinking she might've changed things with Fenna's birth if she'd visualised it going better...wtaf.
Maybe she should just have a break after having a baby!
Also was she hinting that Bobby isn't vaccinated? Although they've travelled so I guess he must be but it would NOT surprise me if he was an antivaxxer.
And did she really expect the covid jab to stop her getting common colds? Agh.
Maybe she should just have a break after having a baby!
Also was she hinting that Bobby isn't vaccinated? Although they've travelled so I guess he must be but it would NOT surprise me if he was an antivaxxer.
And did she really expect the covid jab to stop her getting common colds? Agh.
Apparently you can enter Canada when unvaxxed! A friend of a friend went to Mexico via Canada as unvaxxed so couldn't go via US. Just checked online, no vax needed to enter Canada.
My husband says this about me - when I met him he was definitely a fundamentally good person already, but he'd been raised in such a way that he genuinely didn't realise that it's not ok to say the p word or the n word or ch1nky. He's mortified looking back!
I guess it's ironic, because we could be called hypocrites for saying people can undergo positive changes as a result of a relationship, but express concern if others go through changes that we don't personally 'approve of'. And I guess it's true; we can only apply our own personal values. But I fully agree with you that I feel like since BK, her worldview has become much less progressive.
Yep, she absolutely was breadcrumbing that he is an anti vaxxer I reckon, and yeah it would totally fit what we know of him
Well according to her new fave Andrew Tate she should 'bear responsibility' for what Russell Brand or whoever it was did to her. Bet she'd soon change her tune then.
No hate to religious folks at all, it is just not my bag!! But what is with this praying to jesus crap she keeps saying seemingly unironocally!? She seems to think if she prayed a bit harder, the baby would have been born easier. Sorry what Is the religious stuff new?
Is the religious stuff new?Yeah....the manifesting and praying about her birth is just....weird? And also so likely to make people who had a genuinely difficult birth feel like tit. She does do this thing where she pats herself on the back for something people often don't choose (labia, not having a c section) and then says - oh, no offence to anyone who doesnt have this/had a c section etc. But it's bound to make people feel tit or sad about themselves regardless of the disclaimer. I would like to think her latest madness is due to having a tiny newborn. Let's hope so!!!!
Totally agree with the patting herself on back and no offense crap! I really think she needs to take a much needed break from social media, podcasting etc as she is making a holy show of herself as we say here in Ireland.
I also got irked when Violet asked for baby not to be born in her bed and she went ahead and did it anyway. And so blazé about how she must be traumatised over it. No tit!!
A few years back when she used to talk about when Violet was born and how she had to take her to gigs because she had no money and didn't have a choice - on the one hand, this is admirable and great that she made a success of it against the odds - but on the other hand, I always felt there was a bit of insinuation going on, perhaps being judgemental of other mothers who don't just get on a do stuff when they have newborns
She was lucky enough to have a laid-back baby the first time around, but that is not everyone's experience. Some babies, you just can't do anything without help. Because not all babies are the same! (and from what she posted when her son was little, he seemed to be a more demanding baby)
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