I can relate to conceiving with a father who left before baby was here, mine was caught cheating and once found out he cut us off and has only intermittently got in touch, usually drunk after his latest has left him expecting sympathy . To happen twice though I'd question the ability to form long term relationships, some people can't but as long as the child is in a secure family environment, has contact with the biological father and not multiple random lovers there shouldn't be an issue.She became a single mum before the kids came along Dunno what it says about her that both baby daddies left when she was pregnant